How do I know a guy is thinking about me or has a secret crush?

[Anonymous]

What are some signs?

[Summeroflove]

Just ask him out. It’s scary. But don’t play games. If you wanna know. Go directly to the source.

[Asker]

I’m not playing games. We are online friends and he’s married but I wonder if he likes me…that’s why I’m asking. It’s hard to tell.

[Summeroflove]

Asker. If he’s married then don’t pursue anything. Just be friends and if he makes any advances reject it

[Asker]

Okay. Good advice. Thank you!

[Summeroflove]

Your welcome. Sorry I misunderstood

[Billlewis]

If he goes out of his way to do little things for you, that you could probably just do yourself, but he's eager to do them for you, as a gesture of supplication, etc.

[Asker]

And has an online relationship mostly?

[Billlewis]

His relationship with you is online, or he has another relationship that's mostly online?

[Asker]

Sorry our relationship is mostly through messaging or email. We’ve “met” over facetime a few times.

[Billlewis]

I'll bet you're really looking forward to seeing him for the first time, aren't you? Since you're separated by some distance, you might try teasing him, and then observe how he responds. The one tried and true method of ensuring that the guy you're interested in becomes absolutely obsessed with you is to simply prick tease him repeatedly every chance you get... rinse and repeat... by the time the two of you meet face to face, you'll have him in the palm of your hand;)

[Asker]

Hmmm I’m worried it’ll push him away. He’s such a flirt but he will back off sometimes too. I think he just wants to be be friends but he seems to always keep me in his life.

[OlderAndWiser]

How old are you, really?

[Asker]

Fine. I’m actually 94

[OlderAndWiser]

Okay, so you are 14 or 15.

[Iron_Man]

If he looks at you a lot

[Asker]

What if we are mostly online friends?

[Iron_Man]

Well, you can tell by the way he types to you and if he compliment you and complements your looks and the person you are

[Asker]

It’s not easy all the time to decode though.

[Iron_Man]

This is all just hear say you’re not gonna do anything anyway, all the females on the site never act on it, it goes right out the window

[Asker]

Ha! If I knew this guy truly wanted me I would be at his door.

[Iron_Man]

Make yourself available smile at him say a few words here and there, and see if he talks to you

[On_cloud_wine]

I can literally feel it.