How do I tell my friend I want to sleep with him?

[Aj_Taylor]

So we have been friends for a long time and we have always flirted with each other. He recently joked about me giving him a bj and after posting that on here with context he more than likely was being serious. So now that I know that I want to ask him but I don't know how. Any Ideas?

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Ig I don't mean ask but like how do I signal it to him?

[integrale77]

If I where you I start a discussion in private that was sexual in nature then casually say "what would you do if I stuck my hand down your pants" assuming he doesn't respond in any negative way I'd follow up with sticking your hand down his pants and see if he gets a boner.

[RasmusAiken]

Remind him that he joked about a BJ, and you've thought about it and you'd like to give it a go.

[Aj_Taylor]

That's actually a really good idea.. Thank you!

[Sunnybeach123]

Place a hand on his thigh. He might take things from there.

[Aj_Taylor]

Thank youu!

[Sonorous]

was just about to say this

[Billlewis]

I just started following you and I'd like to invite you to follow me as well if you want, so we can discuss this in greater detail.

[Aj_Taylor]

Thank you!

[Foregone]

This is how my friend became my girlfriend and now wife. For her it was a sexy robe and when we watched a movie. If he has started joking about sex he is just testing the waters. Next time he "jokes" act like he is being serious, because he is.

[JacobJordan]

You don't. You invite him over to your place. And then you excuse yourself and change into something sexy and then come back and hopefully he isn't blind

[BryanMoore]

Honestly, just shoot your shot and be direct about it!!

[Wise4myage]

That's easy, just mention wanting to give him another BJ. But you both have to be naked.

[HouseMoat]

"friends" don't fuck. You were never friends

[QuietRunner]

Just ask him and tell you want sex with him

He will probably accept

[QuietRunner]

tease him a g-string peaking out from your jeans
give him a lap dance and say get naked for more

[Aj_Taylor]

lolllll

[Layla00]

tell hik or show him with body language

[In_Trance]

Don't tell him just do it

[Iron_Man]

You don’t