Which is more flirtatious? Patting shoulder or patting upper arm of the opposite gender?

[Worrying]

patting shoulder

patting upper arm

[NathanDavis]

I guess it depends on the person... my shoulders are way way more sensitive, to a "flirty touch"

and women do tend to like my shoulders and back, so when they get a hand on, is usually with a compliment, or something flirty to say...

and some other are into the arms, (and the forearms for whatever reason, lol) so I guess it depends on the person, no?

[aceleon]

couldn't decide it is the way you touch not the place.

[Worrying]

True.

[JC_jester]

none

In my opinion, physical contact in flirting should be kept to a minimum. The less, the better... If anything, it would be an accidental brush of fingers with the woman I'm flirting with. Certainly nothing that could make her feel threatened or simply uncomfortable. I also don't like it when women try to force more physical contact than necessary...

[BoopBoopBeep]

Depends on the context. Neither? Either? I've done each of those to a dude at some point and I wasn't flirting with him.

[DannyUk2017]

Patting upper arm, as shoulders are used by both genders, and today is way too "friendly"...

[ThrillSeeker01]

I think that padding the shoulder is more close/flirtatious.

[TheSpaceGnome]

I wouldn't see either as flirting.

[DryGermanGuy]

Patting the boobs! 😬😬

[KrakenAttackin]

Neither is particularly erotic.

[Kelly6]

patting leg or ass

[strateguy632]

1st.,