Girls, How often do you meet someone and feel instant chemistry/a spark right away?

[AsalamAmalek]

Say you meet someone somewhere, and you just get an instantaneous burst of energy from nowhere. You were just on your way home, and this guy sits down across from you at a bus and when your eyes meet it's just lightning and fireworks.

You feel your heart start beating faster, nervous energy abound and you are getting aroused from seemingly nowhere, and so is the guy. The passion is unquestionable, and the sexual tension is undeniable and can be felt by everyone around, you two just want to tear eachother clothes off and go at it right then and there.

How often do these kind of situations happen for you? Is it once a week, once a month or even more seldom?

How would you feel if he didn't do anything, even though you are sure that he is feeling it too?

I thought I was just harmlessly flirting, but maybe I am an emotional terrorist.

[laly520]

felt that around 2 years ago
for first time n I guess it will be the last

[AsalamAmalek]

Was it emotional or sexual in nature? Love or lust?

I deluded myself into thiniing this happened often for girls also, but reality just came crashing yesterday. Her look while she was getting off was just sad and questioning, and now I understand how hurtful I might have been for all this time.

Fuck

[laly520]

it was an emotional one

im sorry it happened to u

[HappyWoman34]

Very rarely.

[AsalamAmalek]

Damn.

And it would feel terrible if you knew it was reciprocated but said guy did nothing I'd assume? Maybe have self-doubts and various other negative feelings? 😰

[HappyWoman34]

Probably. It’s happened before.