Girls, Do you ever use playful hitting as a way to flirt?

[Anonymous]

[laraWM]

No, maybe it's a way to get your attention. We probably need more inputs

[frabuco]

No, I don't hit people

[TadBehaya]

Haha yes

[Asker]

Is a balltap considered flirting?

[litty736]

Not me

[Asker]

I play on my college soccer team and we often share the gym with the girls team. There’s one girl on the team that I really like and we talk a lot and she thinks it’s so funny to give me light ball taps while we’re lifting. Does that seem like flirting

[litty736]

Sounds like she is definitely into you.

[Asker]

I mean we’re friends, but I meant like is she more into me than just friends? What do you think the ball tap means?

[litty736]

The ball taps could mean she wants to be more than friends. Touching is a way of flirting.

[Asker]

But do girls get that it hurts? Like why the balls over the arm or something?

[litty736]

I know it hurts. I'm pretty sure others do too. I'd say take more notice of her behavior. If she laughs at your jokes, plays with her hair and smiles and hold your hand then she wants to be more than friends.

[Asker]

Do you think it makes me look less manly if I dropped to my knees when she taps me too hard

[litty736]

Not if you do it in a joking way.

[Asker]

What do you mean do it in a joking way?

[litty736]

Playfully fall and watch her reaction.

[Asker]

I meant I fell because she smacks my balls kinda hard