Is playful hitting from a girl flirting?

[Anonymous]

A girl Im friends with came up to me during swim practice and balltapped me, is that flirting?

[inquisitiveemt]

It could be flirting or she could be suggesting a little more bc balls on a guy are in a more delicate and private area. Try reciprocating by playfully hitting her back or just play fight in general. If u want to see if she means more or see if what she is doing is a more sexual suggestion, I would get a little more handsy (wrapping ur arms around her) amidst playing. If she's open to u flirting like that than she may like or want u, but if she gets offended or pulls away than she more than likely doesn't want u in that way.
If u don't like it, or her or are offended then u should tell her or not engage in play with her. If she still won't stop after u've asked her to then I suggest u go to a coach, guidance or ur main office to report her. Just bc ur a guy doesn't mean her touching u isn't sexual harrassment.

[Asker]

I like it but do girls not understand that the balls are really sensitive?

[inquisitiveemt]

Girls DO NOT understand that balls, ball sacks, and dicks are sensitive or delicate. They are the types u have to watch out for when they give u head bc they use their teeth, a hand job bc they'll yank it off or at the least give u Indian burn, or sex when they bounce on top of a guy and giggles when it falls out and jabs her in the inner thigh and the dude us crying bc he thinks it's broke in 2.
They have no idea how to lightly touch and gently care for a package.

[Asker]

Lol so girls don't think we have balls of steel or are tough when it comes to our junk

[inquisitiveemt]

Well we don't have them or anything equivalent to match that sensitivity. Even our breath can take a beating, there pulled and tugged on during sex and breastfeeding alike. So we can't even imagine what it's like. I know how sensitive they are bc I've accidentally caught my hubby a few times and knocked the wind out if him.

[Asker]

But do girls like that guys balls are vulnerable? Or would u prefer we be big and tough

[inquisitiveemt]

I don't know if I'd prefer big and tough, but less sensitive. I mean I know why they're so sensitive, but I can't stand that they're easily hurt.

[Asker]

Why is big and tough a bad thing?

[inquisitiveemt]

The rest of a guy is normally big and tough. Men have to have something sensitive right. For women it's emotions and for a guy it's balls.

[Asker]

But don't girls like guys to be tough and manly when it comes to injuries

[inquisitiveemt]

Are we talking about sensitive nuts or are we talking about physically and emotionally.

[Asker]

Nuts

[inquisitiveemt]

So to answer ur question "But don't girls like guys to be tough and manly when it comes to injuries" not when even the lightest tap brings a man to his knees

[Asker]

So women do wish guys were overall tougher?

[inquisitiveemt]

No. My husband is tough enough. Being too tough, or too proud causes issues with emotions.

[Asker]

But having a little tap in the balls take us down is embarrassing especially when it happens in front of girls who expect guys to be tough

[inquisitiveemt]

Nah. Girls don't hold a guy being brought to his knees by a ball tap against a guy. Any girl that had a guy in their life (dad, brothers, uncles, male cousins or family friends) knows the area is sensitive, they're just not sure how sensitive until they do something, like a ball tap, themselves.

[Asker]

thats the embarrassing part because no matter how strong we get a ball tap still takes us down

[Asker]

You knw I what I mean?

[MaiNameIsSunshine]

It depends you can't really tell see how she acts with other people because you definitely don't want to embarrass her and yourself...

[Asker]

she goes "o i barely tapped you dont be a baby" when i bent over in pain

[MaiNameIsSunshine]

Umm then yes she probably was flirting because when i flirt with i guy i tease him hahahaha:). Quick question, do you like her? Because you might have a chance with her. ;)

[Asker]

Yeah I do like her, so do girls not know that balls are sensitive

[MaiNameIsSunshine]

Ahahaha we do, however I think your friend didn't consider that and/or she just flirts like that, or she was tying to imply something more, you know, sexual.

[Asker]

Y do girls ball tap

[MaiNameIsSunshine]

Beats me, it depends on the person in your case i think it might be flirting but don't take my word for it hahahahahha good luck with your friend ( may i suggest you wear a groin protector lol.

[Asker]

Do girls like that we are sensitive down there?

[MaiNameIsSunshine]

Hahahahha lol i don't know i mean I've never heard any girl talking about that like ever, and i know I've never given it any thought so, i don't think we really care

[Asker]

i guess girls just dnt know guys have sensitive balls

[Anonymous]

Yeah for sure, basiclly just an excuse to touch you at least it would be my excuse.

[Asker]

thats why girls balltap guys?

[Opinion Owner]

Apperantly so..

[inquisitiveemt]

I think balltapping is a little more than flirting. It's more like sexual suggestion.

[Asker]

but dont u know its really sensitive?

[TadCurious]

if this situation were reversed the girls would be all over this question

[Invisiblegirl]

no unless you guys aren't that close...

[Asker]

So. Girls don't understand how delicate the balls are?

[CrazynKinky]

It can be but it could just be here being playful

[Asker]

but why tap my balls and not my arm or something?

[CrazynKinky]

Um accident trying to sleep with you sorry didn't read the description just the question.

[Asker]

haha u think she likes me that much?

[CrazynKinky]

Well it could of just been an accident or you may of been having a conversation that it made sense but if it was intentional then probably sexual

[Asker]

it was def on purpose, then she goes "o i barely tapped you dont be a baby" when i bent over in pain

[Chris011]

If you guys aren't that close then yea probably.

[Anonymous]

It means she's into ballbusting

[Anonymous]

no thats weird

[Opinion Owner]

lol yeah