What Does It Mean When A Girl Hits You? Flirt with Punching?

Question

There is this girl I kinda like, we are pretty good friends, and lately she has started to punch me in the arm/shoulder, but sometimes its pretty hard. Do you think that's flirting or just being friendly?

eaeaea · Accepted Answer

I suppose you could say it's a form of flirting ... BUT Usually, it means confidence.

And doesn't necessarily mean she wants 'something more' with you, other than simply flirting. But who knows! We are all different.

But definitely: She feels comfort around you and you make her feel confident enough to hit you and you not take it in the wrong way.

CeepSmiling · Accepted Answer

If she doesn't do it to a lot of people, it may not be full on flirting, but it is a sign that she's getting more comfortable. If she stands close to you, talks a lot and smiles/laughes a lot those are great signs. Girls like to beat up guys they like, ha ha I know that sounds strange, but it's true. (Not full on violence, just play shoving, etc.)

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

It's a sign of comfort, so it's definitely good, but not necessarily flirting depending on the person. Pay attention to how she behaves with other people. If she does things like this to all of her friends then it's not important, but if it's just you then there's a good chance she's flirting. There isn't one rule that applies to everybody.

Prof_Don · Accepted Answer

It's almost always a sign of comfort. More than times than not, it can be seen as flirting, because it's a playful way to initiate physical contact with you.

Logorithim · Answer

It's her liking you, probably, or at least being attracted. I can't see a woman doing that to you otherwise.

Exterminatore · Answer

It means you should drop that bitch and show her who’s boss.

Or are you gonna just stand there and let her cut your nuts off?

Seriously you could not ask for a better invitation to wrestle her to the ground, maybe grab a hand full of tit on your way down, assert your dominance, show her a little of your power and ignite some sexual passion.

Next time, I’d take her down (but don’t suplex her), be a little rough but not overboard. Get her on the ground and after you got her wrapped up, talk mad shit to her, maybe give her a playful swat on the ass, and then ask her “when I’m not around will you practice fighting so you don’t get your ass kicked so fast next time?”

Worst that’s gonna happen is your gonna get a hand full of ass.

This chick is egging you on. She wants to feel your strength and power. Give this playful little tart what she’s begging for.

Deanbeams87 · Answer

No idea, to be honest.
You see, as a man, I'm taught to go after what I want and not beat around any bushes. This lesson has caused me to expect the same of women. Admittedly, it doesn't work. But, I remain hopeful for meeting with someone who doesn't play childish games to get me to ask her out.

Hitting doesn't do anything for me. I'm liable to create distance if anyone puts their hands on me.

tinadea · Answer

Like everyone said, it means she's comfortable with you. I know a lot of girls said for them it's flirting, but for me it's more like I'm trying to be in a guys friend zone, like I want him to be comfortable around me, just like his other guy friends. I would say this is especially true of harder punching.

Stacyzee · Answer

I really never do this.

But its a sign that she feels very comfortable around you.

I can't say if we likes you or not just based on that action,

but it shows that she feels she can be her playful self around you.

SomewhatAlbino · Answer

Fliiiirting :) Violence is a way of flirting. If I am close enough to a guy, that I can beat on him, its most likely flirting.

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah, she likes you. It’s really unlikely she’d bother if she wasn’t attracted to you in some way because she’d be cautious about giving you the wrong impression. She’s definitely attravted, whether she wants to admit it, that’s another question.

Serah8675309 · Answer

It depends on if she just hits you like one of the guys are giggles while she does it. If she seems playful about it then yeah she probably is flirting with you

alexstorm · Answer

Doing it hard means she is trying to solicit a reaction from you.  No reaction is the wrong reaction in her mind.  Stop her from doing it and see what happens.

h_i_n_e_s · Answer

It's definitely flirting for me! except I purposely try to be gentle...so I think it's crappy that she's doing it hard :/

lorenza · Answer

It could be, but it's not the clearest indication of it. She may just be comfortable around you.

newPython · Answer

If it's a very light punch on the shoulder or tap on the arm, that's a good (but not definite) sign of interest in you. Now if she is punching you hard, stay away from her - that's totally not cool.

Gambit3 · Answer

It simply means she is interested in you and the reason might be either bona fide or malafide intentions. Mostly bonafide 👍

frontyer · Answer

Yeah its usually a good sign. But you need more indications of interest before you can be sure about it.

RedSmartie · Answer

Either she likes you or she views you as like a brother.  Honestly, it could be either one.  Depends on the girl.

Koki11 · Answer

I think it could be flirting or she's just comfortable around you sooo... it could be lost of stuff @eaeaea might be right

Anonymous · Answer

That is true! There is this guy I like in my math class this year and we were in the same class in 6th grade. We joke around a lot and we will punch eachother in the arm as a way of saying "Hey!🙂" but she is kinda flurting with you!

princessmoonlight · Answer

sure it's flirting except if she leaves a bruise than that's just violence haha

Gavyn · Answer

Could be. Next time you interact with her, assess how you think she feels about you. Whatever your initial gut feeling says is the most likely answer. Trust me on that one.

itseehvan · Answer

I think there's a line between being friendly and flirty. I think it might be flirty. Friendly and flirty are very similar, but if you notice other things that she has done, maybe you'll be able to see if she likes you.

Yeahhbro · Answer

bro I think you are getting bullied...nahh just kd she digs you

JadaJackson · Answer

I think she might like you. Is she doing any other type of flirting?

BigRob420 · Answer

I've dated women where I would consider them punching me in the face as foreplay. Most of them had serious daddy issues though.

angel1142 · Answer

If she usually doesn't do physical contact with people in general then she is flirting with you.

YouMeAtSix666 · Answer

Haha there's poking and there's punching really hard . I punch my guy friends like that too and I have no interest in then . For me I do it to put guys in the friend zone ..if I poke someone it's flirting so yeah

jennafish · Answer

if its hard then it might be friendly, if it's soft she might like you. punch her in the face to show her u like her too.

Apathetic-Warewolf · Answer

It's a sign she's a bitch cunt who is trying to bully you (probably because she dislikes you) Don't take that shit... beat her up back

Massageman · Answer

She is certainly at ease when around, confident and comfortable enough to even do it, regardless of your response.

Just_A_Guy2018 · Answer

Sounds like she needs a good slap upside the head for repeatedly assaulting you. Next time she has the audacity to hit you, hit her back.

ThatBritishLad · Answer

I punched a Welsh lady in the arm once. She proceeded to spray me in the face with Pepper Spray and tackle me into a convenient electric fence D:

Ghostwalker · Answer

That’s odd because the last time I flirted with a girl by punching her, I got arrested. Double standards!!! 😂😂 —I am just kidding. Next time she does it, tell her to kiss it and make it feel better.

Anonymous · Answer

My friend does that for fun because she likes annoying her guy friends, it could mean either thing though

Anonymous · Answer

It might be, she's initiating physical contact!  Depends on the look she's giving you afterwards! Is there eye contact, is she smiling ?

taleswapper · Answer

Just being flirty. If it was real interest, it wouldn't be blows...

Jackdalad · Answer

The girl who punches me most is asexual... I have no input

Gottabsavagee · Answer

Cuz be cuz u teasing her so she does it for fun. I do it like that tho

Sabrina_gomez · Answer

can't tell... maybe share more of what else she does/did

lilimoon · Answer

Maybe she started to like you, but maybe she doesn't know how to show it so she punch you

Skateranon · Answer

That depends on other stuff she does. Flirting can only be assumed when there is a few signs not just one

XxShortStuffxx78 · Answer

She probably likes you. I mean no girl really does that i to be friendly. I have a crush and I poke and punch him a lot

ElloElloElloEllo · Answer

i flirt like that. i wouldn't touch a guy at all if i didn't, at least, find him attractive. but then i have friends who r the complete opposite and can fall asleep on strangers

Anonymous · Answer

It could go either way. See how she responds and reacts to other guys around you.

Anonymous · Answer

When I do that it's definitely flirting. Sometimes it's not even intentional.

lesizzle · Answer

Sometimes it's flirting, like if she's smiling, but if home girls got a look of despise on her face y'all better back up lol

Paul09 · Answer

I'd enjoy that lol. It's like a massage. Heck hit punch me in the lower back. Feels amazing.

Bismarck_96 · Answer

She feels confident it’s not flirting or act of violence

FunnyFacts · Answer

Or you are a rude asshole who needs a good fisting...

PeachLerise · Answer

I do this ALL the time when I’m talking to my best friend who I really like. Mainly when he says something that makes me laugh or when I’m blushing

Alan-Walker · Answer

Many girls do that when they have a crush on someone and don't know how to react and flirt, or she just likes hitting people I don't know.

Anonymous · Answer

Flirting most likely.  If you notice her a little shy or blushing around you more then it most definitely is flirting!  Do her friends push you two together or try to get you to talk to her or about her more? Its flirting.

arianaromo2002 · Answer

Honestly I hit the guys I like. I don't know why honestly but it helps me talk to him.

Anonymous · Answer

the harder she's hitting you, the less flirty she's being girls, if you want to hit him, just lightly tap him. thats all.

lowkey_lost · Answer

She is trying to check if she can beat you up when she gets a chance. Checking for weak spots.

Anonymous · Answer

That's kind of vague but I think its flirting. I've don't it a few times and most of the time it's flirtatious

Anonymous · Answer

It could be either or. The girl might have a crush on you and feel awkward about it and punching you if her way of trying to get you away.

Pink934 · Answer

It means she's trying to knock you out.

T00THpaste4 · Answer

That's aggravated assault.

GAG1989 · Answer

it can be. however, not always

house-of-gaunt · Answer

Its probs just being friendly

Yellowbone · Answer

Yes. I horseplay a lot with guys I like.

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