Does he actually like me?

[princessandBDD]

I'm in year 10 at my local high school and there is this guy I've liked for a while. We talk on in and outside of school. We both like football and basketball and we get on pretty well. But i can't tell if he actually likes me. He's quite popular at school and I kind of stay away from all the drama. But to me he's nice, funny, sweet and just plain gorgeous. How do I know if he actually like me though? How do most guys flirt with girls? Let me know I would really appreciate it.

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1 mo

I'm just worried he's not doing it because he's being funny Infront of his friends. And our convos outside of school are good sometimes but others its like he just doesn't want to talk to me

[SueShe]

The problem is that with those boys that are popular at school, that they have the choice with girls since they seem to flock towards them.

Does he behave differently with you than with other girls? Does he pay more attention to you? Does he go out of his way for you? Would he take you under his wing if someone would bully you? If you can answer these questions with "yes", then you know that he likes you.

However, please bear in mind that at that age, feelings can switch very quickly and mainly boys may change how they feel about boys and girls in an instant. Good luck.

[princessandBDD]

I can defiantly say yes to most of those

[MushyKiwi]

gasp* bestie friend me ♡

[dean53AU]

Sounds like he likes you enough already, especially if he is taking time to be with you and talking

[princessandBDD]

I'm just worried he's not doing it because he's being funny Infront of his friends. And our convos outside of school are good sometimes but others its like he just doesn't want to talk to me

[dean53AU]

Ah ok, yeah young guys can be a little weird sometimes,

[princessandBDD]

I just don't get it sometimes. Some days he'll spend a good few hours telling me how hot I am and then other days the convos are dry as hell

[dean53AU]

Ok that is rather odd, maybe he's not sure if you like him as much and not sure what to say

[princessandBDD]

Dating is hard these days. I've dropped hints before and it's like he doesn't get it and he's not dumb so...

[dean53AU]

Dating has always been hard and confusing for teen guys and girls, even when I was that age

[strateguy632]

yes he likes you and enjoys talking with you.

[Mr_twoface]

If you like him, why dont you flirt with him back?

[Billlewis]

It certainly looks like it. Good luck;)

[princessandBDD]

Yeah? Thanks though

[Billlewis]

Of course;)