What are appropriate, non creepy ways of flirting with men?

[HappyWoman34]

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I’m pretty useless at how to flirt.

[Nikki1989]

Talk about their interests, hobbies, and passions and try to sound interested.

[HappyWoman34]

So, you don’t have to giggle, flutter your eyelashes, or touch people or make coy comments? I suck at all of that.

[Nikki1989]

Nah, don't need any of that. Just be happy to be in their company.

[mistershy94]

try to flirt with me and I'll let you know 😁

[HappyWoman34]

Lol well good response. However, I really wouldn’t know how to do so.

[HappyWoman34]

Do you have any advice?

[HappyWoman34]

I just followed you.

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This is a really good question

[HappyWoman34]

Thanks 😊. Do you have any suggestions? Brutal honesty is welcome, too.

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@happywoman34

Well I cannot give any suggestions on my own because I never flirt and I don't appreciate anybody flirting with me either but I can share some links from websites and see if that helps you.

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@happywoman34

www.wikihow.com/Flirt-Without-Being-Annoying

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@happywoman34

www.bolde.com/.../

[HappyWoman34]

Thanks 😊

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@happywoman34

In the second link personally as a man I would not suggest doing points#5 and #11 at least not in the initial stages because I think that will be inappropriate , the other points are fine.

I hope the links will help

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@happywoman34

Thanks should be go to the websites because I have just shared them with you.

[HappyWoman34]

Thanks, serious 😊

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@happywoman34

You are welcome anyways

[HappyWoman34]

I just read a few of them…they sound helpful 😊

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@happywoman34

Please read both the links and then you will know which points are the best to follow. Sure some of them will be same or similar.

[slatyb]

In what situation?

[HappyWoman34]

A situation where you want a guy to be your boyfriend.

[slatyb]

But where? Is he a friend? An acquaintance? Do you know his name? Just start a conversation, and invite him to coffee or lunch or whatever, depending on how well you know him.

If he's a stranger at some function, them just go say hello and introduce yourself.

[BigBlueEyes343]

Speaking for example, let’s say the guy is a friend and you’ve both showed signs of interest but he didn’t make a move.

[BigBlueEyes343]

I was in this situation once and I think I made mistakes, because I can’t read social cues. I’m wondering how to improve my skills with future guys.

[slatyb]

@BigBlueEyes343 Just ask for what you want -- a date. Coffee, lunch, dinner, whatever.