What do you do if you like someone but you are unsure if they like you back? Could you try to spark mild jealousy to see if they react?

[Solstraale]

[Summeroflove]

All you’re going to do is cause problems and things like that are point blank cowardly. In what way would you spark jealousy? If you like someone. Just tell him and see if he likes you back. Stop playing games.

Expressing interest in another man. Guess what that’s gonna do? More than likely kill his interest and he will move on. That’s what most dudes do. They’re like oh shit she isn’t into me glad I never made a move on her if they are into you.

Hey, at the end of the day if he ain’t into you. You’re not wasting your time on someone who isn’t into you. You’re also not limiting your options to people who approach hou. Because sometimes the guys who approach aren’t the guys you want.

[JacobJordan]

If you have to "spark mild Jealousy" you toxic and shouldn't be in a relationship anyways. If they show Jealousy they are also toxic and shouldn't be in a relationship anyways. Might be a novel approach given the stupidity of today's society but have you considered getting into a relationship in a healthy way so the relationship is healthy...

[IslaTheWitch]

playing games always strikes back...

I would take my time to observe how they react to me, to get to know them better, and having more information and experiencing some interaction, you can easily tell...

[Kelly6]

@Solstraale yes I always do that or try to tease him to see his response

[Summeroflove]

Make someone jealous? How? Like expressing interest in another dude? Lol. Good way to make a man loose interest.

[Summeroflove]

Try just telling someone you like them or even teasing as long as it’s playful

[Finchie40]

Just ask them and be upfront about it to them, it’s better to get a legitimate answer over not knowing an answer at all..

[motownplayer2000]

I’m a straightforward guy. I don’t beat around the bush if I made my feelings known, I will get an answer shortly (within a week) if she feels the same way. And if not, I’ll move on. I’m not going to waste time letting her decide what she wants. Most women can’t decide what to wear in a day, or what they want for lunch. Sooo I’m not going to wait around for her to entertain 3 to 5 guys and pick who she likes. If I’m not the one immediately, bye. I will excuse myself from this race and be out.

[spartan55]

Why do women still try this? I promise you: it has almost zero chance of actually working AND there is a greater chance the dude is put off by your games.

[Solstraale]

I dont want to do it. I suspect someone to have tried this on me and that made me wonder

[spartan55]

If a dude actually did that then he has the maturity of a grade schooler. Avoid him.

[Billlewis]

Oh, absolutely, but I wouldn't settle for 'mild' jealousy... drive him crazy, and you'll have him in the palm of your hand;)

[Solstraale]

I can't read if you are being sincere? And I dont want to do it, I feel like someone did it to me to test my reaction

[Billlewis]

Yes, ma'am, I'm very sincere, but I also understand the potential downside, as well.

[nawtee_me]

That could backfire. If I saw you acting as if you liked someone else even though I really liked you, I would walk away and let them have you. When you really care for someone all you want is their happiness even if it is with someone else.

[Summeroflove]

Exactly. It’s not worth wasting time on someone whose either not interested or is playing games.

I want someone who genuinely likes me. Not someone I have to “win”

[Summeroflove]

And guys who can get girls let’s say… Unless he’s a guy who plays games. Most dudes don’t have time for it. Same with women who have dudes playing games. It’s not worth it.

[Fireguy17]

I would simply ask them.
That is more of an adult thing to do.
I never liked playing games like that.

[kellytheman]

I not sure jealously is the way to go. Maybe do a little playful flirting with them and show your interested in them. Maybe a little bold and ask him out or tell you got a crush on him.

[DrPepper12]

No. You're 25. That's silly. Tell him unless he's taken already.

[msc545]

You could just tell them how you feel instead of doing something stupid that is likely to drive them away.

[Surely]

Be careful on the jealousy approach. It could make you look like an immature high school girl. Being a little flirtatious might be in store.

[jahaims]

That is immature af. Be direct and use words like an adult.

[elaphe]

You just asked the central question of my life.

[Bklynbadboy12]

If I loke someone I'll let her know I do. I'm not shy so I'd definitely go after what I want

[impalabill77]

Just ask them out. What's the worse they can say, no?

[IWILLPLEASEYOU]

No need she just already approved the lease for the installation of a window wells current house

[NathanDavis]

definitely not any kind of game

[LiamJHayden]

No, I just approach and ask.

[shortster]

I think that will backfire on you.

[Anonymous]

Id make an effort to get to know them.

[sheikalana]

No, that's childish.