Is calling someone mi amor flirting?

[rachelcarterr444]

Cute bartender at my work called me “my dear” today which I know is a term of endearment but then he also called me “mi amor” a little later too I was giggling and had him come by and told him a mistake I’d made and he giggled with me and like leaned his shoulder on mine this is flirty right

[NathanDavis]

depending on the tone... "mi amor" could be condescending AF

or, also... he might be gay

any idea where he would learn that Spanish from?

could also have different connotations if they're from South America, the Caribe or Mexico... or all the way over there in Spain, lol

[rachelcarterr444]

He’s white lol but that’s like a common phrase we know in Cali

[NathanDavis]

white people can speak Spanish too

[rachelcarterr444]

of course but i mean like he said it to be funny like it isn't a language he actually speaks :) basically i went up to the bar to get some mint and he said what can i do for you, mi amor?

[NathanDavis]

are you Hispanic yourself?

[rachelcarterr444]

Nope white also. He didn’t say it condescendingly he said it with a warm smile so I’m guessing flirty? Lol

[rachelcarterr444]

We work at a Mexican inspired restaurant

[NathanDavis]

what's the special today?

[bowenw]

He could be a flirty player especially if he does the same thing to many women.

[rachelcarterr444]

He’s nice to everyone but I’ve noticed he only does that stuff to me

[bowenw]

In that case, it does sound like he likes you.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[DishLady]

If you're ready to call someone your love (in the possessive), that is typically more than flirting... Don't start something you can't finish.

[rachelcarterr444]

Right? Lol earlier too he looked at me at the same time I looked at him or like he looked over at me first and we both just stared at each other for a second. He also came in to eat on his day off and I was at the pos typing and he caught my eye that’s a sign right

[DishLady]

Just looking doesn't really reveal much. How are you two when you actually chat?

[rachelcarterr444]

He teases me a lot and we joke around and smile a lot

[Desi_Butcher]

Yeah that's flirting.. casual or serious? that's difficult to judge.

[thomastown]

Yes ofc.