Okay so there’s this guy I work with and he has stared at me on more then one occasion the first time was when I walked by him at work in the halls and he stared at me for at least 3 seconds or more and wouldn’t look away.. then the second time was when I was asking him a question and he just stared at my face for a few seconds and I felt awkward cuz I had to keep repeating myself like two or three times lol.. then there was a meeting I had with the managers yesterday and he was there… they were telling me how I wasn’t doing too good and are switching my position next week… after I’m getting ready to leave I glanced and looked back at him once more and he smiled at me and said “thank u Gilda” but thanks for what? Lol and then after I left I had to go back cuz I had forgotten my hat and after I grabbed my stuff I’m like “sorry forgot my stuff” and he just smiled and giggled at me… then later that day I saw him and smiled big showing my teeth and he smiled big right back and showed his teeth!! First time I saw him that happy. Truly looked like he was glad to see me but then I asked for his help with something right after the smile and now I’m wondering if he was upset that I was only smiling cuz I needed something?… cuz today when I saw him he wasn’t as happy to see me he was like “ excuse me I’m talking to someone” after I smiled at him and said “hey!” … and then he turns to me after he’s done with him and goes “yes ma’am?” what happened to calling me by my name didn’t even smile today and I’m wondering could it be cuz he’s unsure if I like him? Pls help also the last two days he was walking through the deli where I work more often then I ever saw him it was two days in a row, he did it once each day I only ever saw him do it one other time in the last month and I work 5 days a wAnd when he did he stared at me for at least 2 secs or more and later that day he walked past me and stared at me for at least 3 or more secs this time and I smiled at him but no smile back
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Hmm sounds like this guy may have a little thing for you! A few things make me think that:
- The staring - guys don't usually stare that long at a girl if they're not interested. We're bad at being subtle lol
- Smiling and saying your name - that's always a good sign. Guys don't usually smile big at work friends
- Walking by the deli more - he's probably trying to "bump into you" if you know what I mean
- Looking upset when you just asked a work question - he might have thought you were flirting back and got disappointed it was just work
Hard to say for sure, but I'd say the signs are promising! He may like you but be shy too. My advice would be smile and say hi to him whenever you see him, try to find excuses to talk more. If he keeps staring and smiling, maybe mention going for coffee after work sometime to see how he reacts. Good luck! Just be your nice self and I bet he'll come around. Fingers crossed for you sis!
Thank u ☺️
No problem at all! I'm always happy to help out with these kinda situation haha. Reading the signs with guys can definitely be tricky sometimes.
But this dude definitely seems into you from what you described. I'd say just be friendly with him at work still and see if he starts chatting with you more on his own initiative.
When you see him in the deli again, don't hesitate to shoot him a smile. If he smiles back with those nice shiny teeth you mentioned, then yeah I'd say he's diggin you for sure ;).
Keep me posted on what happens next! Fingers crossed he asks you out or something soon. You'll have to let me know if you guys end up going on a date, I want all the details haha.
But good luck, I'm sure if you put the feelers out a little more it'll all work out. He'd have to be crazy not to like someone as cool as you!
Just ask him if he would like to give you a damn good fucking... Simples,
I am so fucking tired of u trolls… fucking bitch
Just like we're sick to death of all the pathetic " Does He Like Me and What Does This Mean" Bollox.
Ask him...
Grew some balls in the last three hours troll?