Is she at least interested?

[Anonymous]

There’s this woman at my job who I find to be gorgeous. I realized a month or two ago I developed a crush on her. We aren’t co-workers but due to work reasons it’s best I don’t cross any lines unless I’m absolutely sure she’s into me.

We started off with glances and saying hi/bye when she walks past. Then to small conversations about the area and the job. You know small talk. Then we started talking longer let say 30-45 minutes when we see each other about work, future plans and especially gym stuff. We both kinda started going recently so we talk about lot about that and progress. Especially motivating each to stick with it and even started a bet that ends in December.

I’ve always feel like there was this tension between us in a good way. Like we can’t take our eyes off each other and nervously glancing away and looking back. Even in a group setting if someone leaves she’ll stay to talk to me. At times it seems like the conversation is ending and my dumba** can’t figure out what to say next , I’ll see that she will try to keep it going as well. I won’t do anything yet based on answers but I want to make sure this isn’t all in my head and really get to know her more before I pull the trigger.

[edmwarrior]

I wouldn't say interested for sure, but i'll say she definitely likes you. If she LIKES YOU likes you, that is up for debate. Throwing a compliment and see what happens. Try not to make it about physical appearance because women do not like being objectified.

[wassim97]

Well you can approach the situation in a way it won’t affect your work like don’t rush to tell her that you like her and stuff like that tell her you want to know her more and ask her out don’t make it fancy just a casual outing

[edmwarrior]

^this. never get obsessed or clingy. it scares them away. you must be smooth and stoic. act like it doesn't matter either way, if you get her or not. act like you have options. don't approach her like she's going to be your future wife.

[Summeroflove]

I think you have tested the waters and for some good signs nothing is perfect but I wouldn’t wait any longer a few months is enough time to loose interest in someone especially if she decides it’s not worth the risk. Imagine other people are probably into her too out there who can make a move as well.

I would just express you’re interested and see if she will meet for a coffee date that’s the best route to take. If she agrees great first date to get to know each other and it’s also easy to leave if needed.

[Anonymous]

Why u like her

[Anonymous]

You need to grow up. This reeks of a teenage crush.

[Asker]

Never too old to have a crush