Is this image true of false?

[Anonymous]

True

False

[Summeroflove]

It genuinely does depend but I’m sure dudes too if a really ugly woman was hitting on him verses a beautiful one.

Also sexual harassment has to be something sexual unless your heads in the gutter a generic complement isn’t sexual. Obviously saying a dress looks sexy would constitute as such.

At the end of the day, don’t be saying stuff to someone unless you have that rapport established. Just because guy on the left gets away with it with for example 100 women it could be the 101th that gets him.

[Summeroflove]

And it’s not like people cannot control taking care of themselves. Exercise, eat right, and the list goes on. People would be surprised how attractive they would be if they did that

[HawkPerception]

I would say that is true for the most part. There are gentlemen and there are real creeps. The biggest difference is tact.

A gentleman knows how to approach a girl regardless of how he looks and pay a compliment without coming across as creepy.

Whereas a creepy dude has zero social tact or care about how they make the girl feel and will say they find them attractive in a weird way that makes girls feel uncomfortable.

There are also girls that know how to handle compliments and those that do not and have shitty personalities. That also affects who's called a creep and who's a not.

A polite girl will be able to take a compliment from any guy with grace. If a creepy guy approaches her, she reads the situation and still tries to deescalate the situation and distance herself politely.

A girl with a shitty personality would likely call both the polite dude and the creep, creeps because she's egotistical and doesn't care about who she puts down.

[elizamichale1]

The actual truth is both of those are just compliments but a sad reality is what u showed in that picture...

[elizamichale1]

Thanks for the mho honey

[Lostgirl611]

So false. Facial structure (aside from weight loss) would be different.

[AviatorTom]

What's wrong with getting a compliment, regardless of who gives it?

[V_Injector]

The meme is only funny because it's true.

[MisterWack]

Not at all.

Compliment: “Hey I really like your dress!”

Flirting: “Has anyone ever told you, you have a beautiful smile?”

Harassment: “Hey sexy, what’s your number?” & *after getting shut down continuing to pressure her even when it makes her angry / increasingly uncomfortable / not interested *

[abc3643]

True and the proof is in the questions that women ask here.

[juliaanita]

Ya, and in the comments that men make here...

[abc3643]

@juliaanita no I am serious. I can't find any because I haven't seen any in over a year, but there are questions multiple times from women who get bothered by unattractive men hitting on them and they find that creepy. So if I challenge them how do they feel if it's a good looking guy, either they don't answer or they don't feel creeped out. So it's all about how they react based on how the guy looks. Which is exactly what this question is about.

[juliaanita]

I believe you and see your point, but personally I am not keen about any guy invading my personal space, uninvited, to make a comment about what I am wearing or how I am looking.

[abc3643]

@juliaanita GOOD! (Sort of.) But I assuming that you are universal about that.

For most women - here, at least - it's:
"I am not keen about any unattractive guy invading my personal space, uninvited, to make a comment about what I am wearing or how I am looking, but I welcome it from a good-looking guy."

[juliaanita]

It's brave of you to speak for 'most women'. You have their permission to speak for them, of course.

[abc3643]

I often listen to WJMJ, the first Catholic radio station in the US. (I sometimes "go to church" by listening a bit to WJMJ on Sunday mornings. It is also a great music radio station.)

Well, in today's online mass, the Book of James, Chapter 2 was quoted and I immediately realize this is what I was talking about with this question:

1 My brothers and sisters, believers in our glorious Lord Jesus Christ must not show favoritism.

2 Suppose a man comes into your meeting wearing a gold ring and fine clothes, and a poor man in filthy old clothes also comes in.

3 If you show special attention to the man wearing fine clothes and say, “Here’s a good seat for you,” but say to the poor man, “You stand there” or “Sit on the floor by my feet,”

4 have you not discriminated among yourselves and become judges with evil thoughts?

https://www.bible.com/bible/111/JAS.2.3-4.NIV

[abc3643]

@juliaanita

Am I speaking for most women? No.
Am I reporting what I observe? Yes.

You don't have to be a 6-foot 6-inch Black power forward in the NBA to say "The players in the NBA are tall Black guys." So, I wouldn't say a snide comment like "It's brave of you to speak for 'most players in the NBA'. You have their permission to speak for them, of course."

So, just like in the NBA example, I report what I see. I've been here 10 years and this sort of comment is very frequent. In those 10 years, I have never seen a question from a woman who complained when it was a good-looking guy; it was only "creepy" (their words) if the guy was unattractive.

OK, let me tell you something: I am a feminist and I laud women and will vote for Harris. But, don't be an asshole feminist. That's the kind of woman that helped create the manosphere. Being a bitch with snide comments like you just wrote is very unbecoming.

I am muting.

[abc3643]

* "Most of the players in the NBA are tall Black guys."

[juliaanita]

well, I enjoyed reading your answers :) Especially the bible one?

[FunkyMonkee]

It depends on how he said it and in what context.

[John_Cobretti]

Yes compliments from a man is good or bad based on how he looks

[Juxtapose]

Mostly true but not always. We all know about groupies who want to be groped.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

True and false. Say it to the wrong woman who don't like you and she will not like it.

[Anonymous]

Depending on my mood, I’m calling the police, i don’t care

[4ngelic]

hot guys can be creepy too

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Or hot guys are allowed to be creepy 😂

[Agape93]

False. Both are harassment.

[Oncewildtwiceburned]

They’re both rape in 1920 Tulsa

[Nikki1989]

100% false.

[Starrrboy]

It's true, for both genders tho..

[exitseven]

it is true,

[Iron_Man]

Maybe true