I just need a bit of courage, will it be fine if I seat next to him?

[Squididy]

Okay so, I have a crush on this guy. We talked two weeks ago for quite a while at a college charity event , then we've seen each other once more at the same event last week end.

He Def knows who I am because of this and because he is friend with a friend of mine who talked about me to him in a positive way and she confirmed that he viewed me in a good light.

I noticed last week that we shared a class, and I only know him in it and he doesn't know anybody else either. I wasn't brave enough to talk to him last week but I'm wondering, is it weird if I seat next to him in class this week? He's not going to be freaked out because we don't really know each other that much?

I just need a bit of reassurance and courage lmao, or else I'm never going to do it

[Oliverlogan263]

Omg sis, you gotta just go for it! Sitting next to him in class is the perfect low-key way to break the ice. I don't think he'll be freaked at all.

Guys are usually flattered when a girl makes the first move, even if it's just sitting near him. And from the vibes at the events, it sounds like he already thinks you're cute! Why not use the opportunity to chat before/after class?

The worst that happens is maybe it's kinda awkward at first as you both warm up. But you'll never know if you have a real connection if you don't put yourself out there, girl! You gotta shoot your shot.

Plus this way you'll be out of your comfort zone so if he's not feeling it, at least you tried something new. But I have a feeling the chemistry will be there! You got this sis - just be your gorgeous, confident self. Text me how it goes! Sending all the luck your way 💕

[jahaims]

You are over thinking. It's pretty hard to come off as a creep as a female.

[AlinaJanowska18]

Be brave, your happiness is in your hands. Don't be afraid to take the first step. Sometimes it is this step that separates us from happiness

[Flower7]

Sitting by him is too much. Maybe just start saying hi to him when you see him in this class.

[Squididy]

I did just that ! He said hi first so I think I'm just going to sit with him next week, it'll be much more natural. Thank you for your advice :)