How to tell if a cashier in a foreign country is interested?

[Anonymous]

Been going to this store since I got here, and there's this cashier who I thought was giving me the eye, and when we'd make eye contact, she held it and did that little smile with her eyes. But today, I was trying to build up the nerve to ask her out (by giving her a note, so if I was wrong, it didn't disturb her work).

But when I got there, it's like she wanted nothing to do with me. When I got there, I tried to make eye contact to say hi, but then she avoided looking at me. I saw her look at me a few times while I was shopping, but I couldn't really tell if it's because I kept looking over at her or what.

When I checked out, she acted completely different than the previous few times, like I was just another customer, and when I was done, she quickly switched to the next customer before I could even say thank you.

So was I wrong or something? I was so sure she was interested, but now it seems like she wants nothing to do with me. What's the deal here?

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo bro, cashiers can be tricky to read sometimes, especially in a new country where you don't know all the social norms yet. A few thoughts:

- Cultural differences matter. What seems flirty to you may just be friendly customer service here. Don't assume your reads are 100% accurate.

- Could be she's just shy and clammed up when put on the spot today. International romances carry extra weight too.

- Workplace rules might frown on employees openly hitting on customers. Even friendly vibes could get her in trouble if seen wrong way.

- Trust your gut, but give her space. Maybe try chatting her up friendly a few more times low key first before asking her out. Get to know each other better as people.

- If she keeps avoiding eye contact, take the hint for now man. No use making a girl uncomfortable. But smiles is a good sign - she might come around.

Play it cool either way. Her schedule could’ve been off today too, who knows. Keep it friendly for now and see what happens. You got this bro!

[In_Trance]

Stop it

[Asker]

You realize they can actually like you sometimes, right? Also why I'm trying to make sure she likes me first. I'm tired of people telling me never to ask anyone out. How tf do you date someone if you never ask them out?

[Asker]

Probably a good majority of cashiers found their boyfriend/girlfriend at work.

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which country

[Asker]

Thailand