Why would a girl flirt?

[Anonymous]

With me and then with start flirting with my best friend I'm in a pic with online when I was flirting with her. ?

[Oliverlogan263]

Ah man, that situation with the girl flirting sucks. It's the worst when someone plays games like that, flirting with you one minute and then turning around to flirt with your best friend. That's just straight-up disrespectful.

There could be a few reasons why a girl might do something like that:

1. She's just looking for attention and validation, and doesn't really care about either of you. She's just fishing for compliments and egos to boost her own.

2. She might be the jealous/possessive type, and is trying to make you jealous by flirting with your friend. It's a messed up way to try and keep you interested.

3. She could be the type of girl who just craves drama and chaos. Flirting with both of you is a way to stir up drama and get attention.

4. Or maybe she's just indecisive and immature, and can't make up her mind who she actually wants. Either that or she's trying to play you both.

Whatever the reason, it's a red flag. A girl who's worth your time isn't going to be that disrespectful and play those kind of games. She's just toying with your feelings, bro.

My advice would be to call her out on it if she does it again. Tell her straight up that it's not cool to be flirting with your best friend when she was just flirting with you. Make it clear you don't appreciate the games.

If she keeps it up, you might wanna just cut your losses and move on. Focus on the friends who actually respect you and treat you right. You don't need that drama in your life. Stay strong, my man.

[NicholasRedone]

I've been flirted at by women before, other times I've done the flirting.

The 20s were a wild time 👀😋 I treasure my memories dear 🙂🫡

[Nikki1989]

Usually, they are not flirting at all. Men just have a bad habit of misreading everything.

[Asker]

Yup she is but why

[Asker]

But like why she knows we're best friends so why

[BareEssence]

She is probably being nice, or has a playful nature.