Is saying "I was thinking about you" to a guy after midnight through text a flirty message?

[Anonymous]

[hello4433]

Nope, it's friendly unless you did flirt with him before

[Still-alive]

If i was the guy and single i would think she was coming onto me with that text. so yeah i suppose its flirty.

[Asker]

Why? On the surface it doesn't appear that deep and it's vague

[Still-alive]

it just depends on more context. taken alone yeah it makes me think 'whoa could she be into me' and especially late at night like that. like it comes across like im in her subconscious thoughts.

but if you followed it up with something like 'that time we hung out with friends made me think of you' i'd take as more friendly.

something else is if you guys normally hang out as friends then i would say its more friendly... but if its like out of the blue and we hadn't spoken in awhile i might be thinking 'whoa could she be into me'

also if we hung out normally and it seemed more than friendly and then she said that i would also think 'she's into me' for sure.

so its just... it depends on context. whats the full scenario in which this is being texted to me?

[Still-alive]

also even if i thought 'she could be into me' i would still require more evidence before i acted on it like if she started touching me when we hung out next or seemed even more explicitly flirtatious it would lean more in that direction... but if we just like hung out at the movies or something like friends then i wouldn't be thinking that anymore

[Asker]

What about if you don't hang out at all?

[Still-alive]

Yeah i addressed that. i would think its flirty... unless the next time we talked or hung out you kept it friendly more than flirty. or you followed up that statement with things indicating friends and nothing more.

[valentina4eva]

i think it could be flirty depending on context and if u normally text him after midnight?🤔

[HollyK21]

Was it intended to be?

[serious]

Saying " I was thinking about you" is a very serious sentence and that indicates the person whom they are thinking about has some value in their life.

[Asker]

Is it a flirty kinda text?

[serious]

No, it is not. On the contrary depending on whether the man and woman are friends or more than friends this is kind of romantic kind of text.

[Fallenn7]

It's definitely cute too

[sinestro23]

100%

[Stefan04]

Most definitely

[dean55au]

Not necessarily