I have a crush on a nerd!

[Anonymous]

But it seems that he doesn't like me, because maybe I don't look like a nerd. Maybe, I don't know. How to get closer to him?

[Quantumus]

For most nerds, being considered attractive by women is a novelty and he would likely not pick up on your signs. Best to go up and talk to him; find out what he's interested in and try to strike up a conversation, or, if you're not sure what he's into, just introduce yourself and tell him that you'd like to get to know him. He'll (perhaps) get the picture. :P

[DragonLord]

i under your view Quantumus and some if not most women and girls take advantage of nerds so they can pass a test,so she can be lazy and let the nerd do all of her homework for her,i don't know if this part is true but some girls/some women use nerds for sex so they can no be longer virgins so they can fit in can I ask what is your take on why some girls/some women use nerds like that what I said and may I ask as well why they take advantage of nerds and geeks

[DragonLord]

i mean I understand your view Quantumus and some if not most women and girls take advantage of nerds so they can pass a test,so she can be lazy and let the nerd do all of her homework for her,i don't know if this part is true but some girls/some women use nerds for sex so they can no be longer virgins so they can fit in can I ask what is your take on why some girls/some women use nerds like that what I said and may I ask as well why they take advantage of nerds and geeks

[kairon156]

I might be a bit odd as a nerd becasue I like to think I'm very open with what type of girls I would date.

he might assume you don't like him but just want to use him for what ever reason. most nerds are aproched by girls because they want something form them not becasue they are intrested in them.

[DragonLord]

i agree with you kairon156 if you see my profile you can tell I'm kind of like a geek and/or a nerd at same time if you know what I mean can I ask how can I tell if a girl/or a woman is using me since I love computers and yes also I love working on computers inside and out if you checked out my profile

[kairon156]

personaly I'm not sure if you can tell right away but I can take a guess.

if she's flirting with you than asks for you to do something for her within a few minutes and does this quite often than it's a good chance she's just useing you. If she actually talks with you about TV shows and things going on and tries to get to know you and tells you about her self than she might be intrested in becoming your friend or more.



that's just general situations I'm sure it's much harder to tell than that.

[xLuana]

Nerds are good at telling when they're being used, lol, I know because I'm friends with a group of guys who are nerdy

[TheMasculinist]

kairon is on target...if you're hotter than him, or he thinks "why is this girl EVEN talking to me" he might think you're setting him up to make a prank out of him saying yes. So tread lightly.

[naturaldisaster]

lol no he does not like you because you're not a nerd, he just doesn't like you in general. But if you want to try getting closer to him, try starting a conversation with him about anything. Be like "hey, my name is (fill in the blank)" eetc..

[beerY33]

this.

[KERMlT]

Tell him a nerdy pickup line. I'm sure he'd be floored. link

[TheMasculinist]

Walk up and look him in the eyes and say "i like you. I want to date you" guys are easy like that.

[xLuana]

...I asked a nerdy guy out and he said "I'd rather be on the surface of Mercury getting burnt by the sun than go out with you" it left me crying!

[TheMasculinist]

Wow...well...I was a nerdy guy for many years...and I gotta say...Id never talk to a girl like that if she asked me out...Id be polite either way, if I were interested or not, but...not everyones polite. Sounds like he was an ungrateful douche.

[xLuana]

True but in my experience nerdy guys aren't that into girls but maybe its just some of them

[TheMasculinist]

nerdy guys aren't into girls? you been meeting the scared ones then...i remember ALWAYS being down for them...just not knowing even HOW to talk to them...that was a long time ago though.

[xLuana]

Scared? I doubt it, I've met really brave nerdy guys who are clearly not into girls

[Snar87]

Go up to him and say "I herd you liek mudkipz"

Or what Quantumus said

[SnackG]

haha I would laugh if a girl did that to me. I wonder if that makes me lame.

[Anonymous]

what are you, if you're nt a nerd?