If you went into a bar/club (Gay or Straight either one) today by yourself, do you think you would get hit on or approached by someone?

[Extraterrestrial1999]

Yeah, if it was at a Gay one

Yeah absolutely

Nah

[Nikki1989]

I get hit on just by going grocery shopping. It is how I met my husband, and it still happens to this day. I met someone just walking down the street going to the post office today. Men will approach anywhere, and usually when you least expect it.

[Jennz6]

@Nikki1989
Same

[Thongandstockings]

@Jennz6 I used to be with a gay man for like 3 years. hid it from everyone, worry g string and thong for him he had 9 inches..
Took me a few tries and before I knew it I could do anal. best orgasms I ever had... should I hook back up with him it's been 10 years

[Thongandstockings]

I would go toward a man, probably make his night...

[Virtualgh0st]

As a man... Nope never nada noyhing

[RxR0954]

i would say it depends on how approachable i look that day. For me avoiding eye contact and playing deaf is an easy way to avoid people lol It’s my go-to when im taken and going out drinking with friends

[MikeTheBartender]

I have gone to bars by myself for 20 years now, it definitely happens that I'll get approached by a girl, but it is super rare! For a hot girl, or even an average girl. It's probably super common. But for a guy you have to kind of make it happen.

[Anonymous]

Definitely. But I’m slow and can’t read social cues all that well. I would have to sit down a day or two later to realize that those guys were flirting. To my core, I’m just too hopeless romantic to perceive flirting. I naturally recoil whenever someone tries to flirt, I don't know it’s my natural instinct to do so and I guess I subconsciously find flirting creepy. Especially cuz I’m Asian living in a European country, I don't know why these guys think using some racially related tactics is the best way to go🤦🏻‍♀️ had a guy come up to me and told me to read some nonsensical Chinese tattoo he had, it was backwards at that too. Luckily I know Chinese and recognized immediately that the tattoo was bs. I’m not even Chinese, not even in close proximity to China.

[boundless]

Yeah. I've literally been down the street from bars and had women walk out of the bar all the way down the street to hit on me before...

[c704710]

That happens when I don't go to a bar/club. Though a lot less these days, guess I'm just getting to old.

[Kelley1]

I would be noticed. If I was receptive, I would be approached and maybe if I wasn't receptive.

[Thongandstockings]

I think if I had been drinking I'd give a guy a shot. i used to be with a guy ten years older than me, he had 9 inches of fun I always wore my thongs for him. so I'd prob grab a guy with a big one cause that's hot

[beenherebefore]

I've been approached by women in public a few times so I believe I'd be approach at a gay bar too.

[Thongandstockings]

Yes u must be beautiful

[LisaMariexoxo]

I get hit on everywhere from work to the grocery store 🤷🏽‍♀️

[zagor]

The number of times I've been actively hit on in my life, I can probably count on both hands. Well maybe a couple toes too.

[Californiagirl5]

Yes even in Greece and Italy. Plus I’ve gone to house party with the same thing.

[Wuai201]

Yea, didn't say I'd like it tho

[blackeagle007]

Wish I had ur problem

[Wuai201]

Why? it's not people I like

[Jennz6]

Everyone hits on me, men and women.

[Jennz6]

@Nikki1989
Thanks for the like @Nikki1989

[Thongandstockings]

You must be good looking

[4ngelic]

for sure

[Thongandstockings]

Yes if a guy hit on me I'd be on all 4s for him. used to be in gay relationship... I wore the thongs lol