Has someone ever flirted with you in front of their significant other?

[Summeroflove]

Its super awkward

[ShellyB]

I am not as much in the bar and party scene as I was around college age so it has not happened much lately. I do have guys talk with me in very friendly ways in front of their s/o but not openly flirting now. However, yes it happened a number of times when I was college age including direct suggestions of three ways and requests for me to make out with the girlfriend and stuff like that, which I laughed off but I think it might have been serious.

[DishLady]

Yeah but my response was always “That’s so sweet… and this is my husband, __.”


With my boyfriend I had one awkward patch the week we hadn’t told anyone yet… and his younger brother hit on me… flat out said, “I think you’re girlfriend material… we should go out.” I got really quiet, then said, “I care for you and your family a LOT… You should talk to your brother.” 🤷🏻‍♀️

[Finchie40]

Yes it has happened a few times , I just tell the girl I am flattered but I’m sorry I’m taken already

[OneViewpoint]

All the time. And yeah, it's awkward at best. But it can also escalate to words or fists when a butthurt boyfriend or husband gets his feelings hurt when his girlfriend or wife is paying way too much attention to me for way too long. I generally make it really hard for women to approach me.

[DryGermanGuy]

Yeah. Twice so far, if I remember correctly. Like you wrote, it’s damn awkward. 😵‍💫

[Summeroflove]

Yep.

[Summeroflove]

Especially because it can cause issues if her man’s insecure. He may blame you for her staring or flirting

[DryGermanGuy]

Exactly!!!

[beenherebefore]

No, but I've had guys staring and glancing at me when I'm with my Partner.

[Summeroflove]

Yeah even that’s weird and feels so awkward

[beenherebefore]

It does and my Partner is often the one who notices that.

[Summeroflove]

Yeah…. It’s good though when you have a partner that won’t get mad at you like you can help it.

I like someone who can either just tell someone “oh hey this is my boyfriend” and laugh about it later.

[Summeroflove]

Or for you. Girlfriend.

[exitseven]

I was in the hospital a long time ago. It just happened that a girl that I grew up with was a nurse there and she saw my name on the roster. She visited me several times, once when my wife was there. She was not amused.

[andreasderjuengere]

No.
But I did 😄
Nothing awkward in my eyes - just "fun", heh heh.

[Summeroflove]

That’s so fuckin funny I forgot to laugh

[live2dance25]

Yes. It’s definitely awkward for sure. We were all friends so that made it even worse.

[lilBigPotato]

Not flirt but obvious staring can happen.

[Summeroflove]

Even that’s super weird and can cause a issue. Like…. I can’t control what others do if a girls obviously with her boyfriend or husbands. I’ll kind of give a side eye like “what are you looking at” if it seems flirty. Regardless it’s rude to stare.

[Summeroflove]

That has to be uncomfortable though…. A girls with her boyfriend and he’s staring drooling

[Anonymous]

I am a croupier in a casino... this is a daily thing.

[PeachyPie93]

Yeah but mainly only when I was a teenager..