my professor may be reacting retaliatory
summary: last semester he held prolonged eye contact with me and told me he liked to make me laugh that same class he looked down my top and immediately looked away. two weeks after he repeatedly looked down my top six times a row whist looking at me.
he’s 54 white i’m 21 black, during a lecture about nuclear wars all of sudden he said people say don’t mix but maybe we should. he has asked my age i refused to tell he shifted topic but persisted then said so 33 and moved on. he wrote down his number one time for me to send a video about politics but he never responded and the number was different the one on his syllabus. in his office i’ve seen him look dead square on my b^^bs. this semester i feel like he’s looked me up and down whilst i walked by him in front of class. he has this more lower playful teasing tone of his voice when we are alone and we speak about random things.
one day he was by the door students entered but when i entered he was shocked and stumbled his words when he said hey to me. another time he was speaking with a girl and in the midst of the conversation he said he’s had many students but he’ll never forget me then he quickly said and you too to the girl. we made a bet that if i passed my exam he would give me chocolate, when he tried to give me i refused but he followed me to my seat and gave me anyways that’s same day he said he’s had many students he’ll forget them but not me, when he’s old and 80 and someone asks about me he’ll remember.
ALL OF THIS TO SAY, I did develop a crush on him but when he kept saying im not like the other students it felt off so i distanced myself and i was supposed to go for his office hours i didn’t. yesterday during class i had my hand raised up three separate times, he saw me and did not acknowledge me. 15 minutes later a guy the row before me raises his and he calls on him almost immediately.
I don't know WHAT TO DO, it only been a week since i distanced myself.
summary: last semester he held prolonged eye contact with me and told me he liked to make me laugh that same class he looked down my top and immediately looked away. two weeks after he repeatedly looked down my top six times a row whist looking at me.
he’s 54 white i’m 21 black, during a lecture about nuclear wars all of sudden he said people say don’t mix but maybe we should. he has asked my age i refused to tell he shifted topic but persisted then said so 33 and moved on. he wrote down his number one time for me to send a video about politics but he never responded and the number was different the one on his syllabus. in his office i’ve seen him look dead square on my b^^bs. this semester i feel like he’s looked me up and down whilst i walked by him in front of class. he has this more lower playful teasing tone of his voice when we are alone and we speak about random things.
one day he was by the door students entered but when i entered he was shocked and stumbled his words when he said hey to me. another time he was speaking with a girl and in the midst of the conversation he said he’s had many students but he’ll never forget me then he quickly said and you too to the girl. we made a bet that if i passed my exam he would give me chocolate, when he tried to give me i refused but he followed me to my seat and gave me anyways that’s same day he said he’s had many students he’ll forget them but not me, when he’s old and 80 and someone asks about me he’ll remember.
ALL OF THIS TO SAY, I did develop a crush on him but when he kept saying im not like the other students it felt off so i distanced myself and i was supposed to go for his office hours i didn’t. yesterday during class i had my hand raised up three separate times, he saw me and did not acknowledge me. 15 minutes later a guy the row before me raises his and he calls on him almost immediately.
I don't know WHAT TO DO, it only been a week since i distanced myself.
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update he said that he wasn’t focused scatter brained so now i feel like a crazy person :D
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Damn apparently every man is holding eyes w every woman on the face of this earth lol
what on earth does this mean💀
It means a lot of women are delusional. Just cause a man happens to be looking in their direction and they happen to look his way at the exact moment all of a sudden he’s staring or he’s locking eyes w her. I’m sure a lot of men could say the same when a girl happens to look down. Omg she’s checking out my penis.
i said he deadass looked down my top but ok 💀
Ok doesn’t mean he was checking out your tits. In some cultures it’s impolite to look someone directly in the face, so sometimes it’s a natural reaction to look down.
lol ok bud
In a lot of cultures, like Native Americans looking one directly in the eye is disrespectful.
You must go to his place and he will give you his seed
Document how you are being treated differently and then report it to the school.
i just met up with him and asked him he said he was being scatter brained what do you think
It's a reasonable excuse if it doesn't continue. Document in case it does.
ok thanks so much