Is this girl at the front desk at my job flirting with me or just being friendly?

[Anonymous]

Interaction 1: three weeks ago I go to front desk area to work with her bff. Girl I like is in the corner 5-6 feet away from us. As I’m talking to the friend girl in the corner asks about my monster drink the flavor. Of my own accord I walk the 5-6 feet to show her the drink up close as she’s sitting. She reads the flavor nsme off the can smiles and a few seconds after she asks whats new? While making eye contact. I didn’t respond to her question cause I got distracted with friend.

Interaction 2. Same deal I go to front desk to work with the bff, girl I like is in the corner working. As I’m working with the friend girl I like in the corner must have turned from her desk cause she said oh I like that jacket <my name>! I said thanks and she said were you sad they lost? I said yeah and other things. As I’m working with the friend still a few minutes later the girl I like in the corner has calming music playing at the front desk at the request of her bff. A few minutes after the jacket exchange she's like do you like my ambiance <my name>? I turned around and said I don't know if it’s my style with a smile and she turned her head around too and said whats more your style I said silence at work tbh and she said yeah I can do silence I just put this on for my coworker.

Interaction 3. Happened last week. I pass by front desk with food in my hand coming back from lunch. She is by herself today. I walk through front door she turns around and says hi like she always does. I don’t respond for lukr 2 seconds and shws like “okay then”, as I’m halfway up the stairs, she calls out and I look at her and she’s making eye contact from her desk. She’s like I said hi!! And she’s smiling and making eye contact. I’m like to myself internally bruh whats happening. I said sorry I didn’t hear you, she said that’s okay!

I’ve known her for awhile. There’s familiarity, but I don’t initiate with her ever or ask her about herself. We don’t know each other deeply. Is there something here?

[HollyK21]

You can repost this all you want and break the context down to every minuscule detail, it won’t change the majority of responses that you get telling she was just being friendly. I’ve seen the comments, I’ve even added input myself.

[queenofcardio]

The first 2 interactions , I'd say she's being friendly. It might be something more based on the last interactions.

It's also possible it all means nothing and she could just be a chatty person.

[Spencer10]

Stop over thinking and just ask her if she would like a coffee some day... then you will get your answer.