Why do some guys sometimes if your eyes meet they look away real fast?

[Anonymous]

Like even if you’re standing right beside them

The thing is it’s hard to tell if it’s attraction because they’re near strangers who I notice do this not people I actually know

[HollyK21]

To be fair, women do it too. The main thing is maintaining eye contact, and a lot of people just generally aren’t very comfortable doing that. In any case, I don’t like making assumptions, so even if a guy did hold eye contact for longer than the flash of a moment, I wouldn’t really take that as a sign he’s interested. Mainly because that situation happens as well — meeting eyes with someone and having a very human moment of acknowledging each others presence.

[Anonymous]

Could be a number of reasons. Maybe he’s shy. Maybe he was just about to look away at that moment that your eyes made contact w his. Maybe he didn’t want to be accused of staring. Maybe he was just looking at you for a second because he’s observant of everyone, everything. Maybe he was checking you out for a second then realize yeah, no she’s not what I’m looking for. Could be that he was looking at you w disgust.

[Anonymous]

It could mean something if it's the same guy. He could just be shy and you caught him checking you out. I've only been able to hold eyecontact by accident.

[Abbycado]

People look around. It isn’t attraction every glance.

[jahaims]

So you don't think they are being creeps.