How do you signal interest when you see a man looking in your direction?

[mothefriendly]

What do you do if you are also attracted? Things that are conscious and maybe youve noticed things that you do that are involuntary?

[Nikki1989]

I don't. I have been very happily married since 2010.

[mothefriendly]

Thats fair. What stops you from doing it then? Because i sometimes look at women who are married and i see them checking me back

[DishLady]

Smile a little and look away. If I look back and he’s looking in my direction I’ll do it again till he’s standing in front of me. Simple.

[DishLady]

(There's also always the option of a flare gun... (Lol.))

[texasgirl012]

Look him in the eyes, purse my lips, play with my hair, change my body posture, do a full body scan of him, stare at his crotch, smile, stare at his crotch some more. Hopefully I'll see it's the kind of thing I want, then I'll do the same things but more direct. If he's with someone, I might give him a little eye signal to go out of view so we can exchange info.

[texasgirl012]

Oh, I forgot. Yeah, this was mostly unintentional but at this point, I've hooked up with enough of the kind of guy I'm into (Blacks of a certain type) that I do it very consciously. And the most important thing is - they either think I'm doing it consciously because I'm into Blacks that way, or they think I'm doing it unconsciously or in a shy way that I can't help. It's different messages and it's a question of whether I think he prefers a girl who is with a lot of Blacks, or one he thinks has never been with a Black. I think this is a little different because of the racial aspect. Just giving some of the flavor of how far you can take it. I mean, you can let a guy know exactly what you are into (like in my case, BBC) without eve saying a word - just your face, eyes, lips, playing with hair, body, and especially where and how long you look.

[Kelley1]

I smile, approach, and say hi. I look for or give him an opportunity to have a conversation.

[mothefriendly]

And what are you hoping happens next? I've had women who are relationships do this

[Kelley1]

To get acquainted and perhaps have a relationship. If women in a relationship approach, they want to upgrade or have sex with you.

[mothefriendly]

Thats really good info. So women are constantly scanning for upgrades

[Kelley1]

Yes, we quickly find a boyfriend and immediately start looking for an upgrade. Then, when we are certain, we pounce. After age 20, our sexual market value drops, while men's may still be rising; it becomes difficult to get an upgrade. That doesn't mean we are satisfied. Men fuck down for sex, but marry equals.

Before marriage, we were fucking Chad, so we are never satisfied that we had to drop down to an equal to get married. We can still fuck Chad, who is considerably more sexually pleasing than our husband. Therefore, we do if we are in the mood, and have an opportunity when the risk of discovery is extremely low. All married women would fuck their dream movie star if they had the opportunity.

[mothefriendly]

Do you think women cheat more than men?

[Kelley1]

The number of cheats is equal, but more women than men cheat. The top 5 or 10 percent of men, the men women want, cheat a lot, and most women cheat a little. Over half the men don't cheat. They want to, but they can't because women don't want them. Almost all women cheat because, for a one-night stand or short-term relationship, most women can fuck Chad. Women want to fuck the best, and they prefer fucking hot, good-looking Chad over their out-of-shape, pot-bellied, ugly-faced husband.

[just_a_potato]

I'll do a very obvious look over of him, from his eyes to his shoes and back to his eyes again before I smile. My voice kind of subconsciously grows quieter but once I realize I'm doing that I just lean into it, and purposefully speak softly so he has to come a little closer. If he's interested back, I can only hope he takes it from there, otherwise I suppose it's just the end of the interaction. 🤣

[Ferngully2000]

I hold the gaze and lock eyes with him and give a smile.

[mothefriendly]

Would you say thats universal?

[Ferngully2000]

Yes I think so and it’s not just looking at someone it’s like you lock and see the glint in their eyes and you both know.

[mothefriendly]

So if she smiles, keeps looking over and what about playing with hair etc. Im asking by the way because i find myself in this situation regularly

[RachyRach]

Smile at him. I think a lot of men are intimidated to make a move. I wanna seek friendly and approachable

[PeachyPie93]

I just don't.. men don't know how to love so its best to avoid all of them even the ones looking at me..

[mothefriendly]

Sounds like youvr been hurt

[PeachyPie93]

Probably..

[mothefriendly]

Sorry to hear that. Its natural then for you to have your gaurd up

[PussiKat]

Slip a strap off my shoulder and give him a special view

[Anonymous]

[SparklingWine10]

I started talking with now husband.

[HellOnHeels0]

I bought him a drink.

[Smileygirl2000]

By being receptive

[mothefriendly]

This is really interesting. What exactly does that mean?

[Pretendingtobesweet]

Wink

[Elyaaaa]

Eye contact mainly