Female flirting?

[gasman70]

How does a guy know when a woman is flirting with him, that he has the green light to go up to her and talk to her. Not just a compliment to be friendly, I mean the green light to ask her on a date kind of flirting.

[Nikki1989]

Most men have this figured out by the time they reach adulthood. I can't explain what the hold-up is with you.

Real flirting is super-obvious. If you have to question it, move on, as it is probably just friendly banter.

[gasman70]

no they haven't, almost every guy I talk to says the same thing, I have no idea when a woman is flirting with me. they won't tell you that though, because they want to save face.

[queenofcardio]

Sometimes you can just tell from a conversation if it's more than friendly. Look at her body language, is she leaning in closer, touching you, or seeming overly interested? Is she asking personal questions instead of basic, general ones? Sometimes you just have to build up the confidence to ask anyways.

[aceleon]

beats me, most of my flings were thanks to my female friends and they informing me about the interest of the girls i went for , pretty much let the girls do the hunting for me like a lion would.

[gasman70]

see, that's because women flirting is so subtle, you have to read up on it and become acutely aware of any tiny little differences in how women react toward you as opposed to other men. even if they point their feet towards you, as you move. Yes, that's a thing. finger in the hair, laughing at a joke, smiling a little extra at you. I know all these now. I was just seeing if any women would divulge, but as usual, they don't, they just act like we, or i should just know. Good response to THIS question.

[aceleon]

i find the veiled ''your previous answer was shit'' thing very unnecessary but ok, i guess? yes i do admit it is subtle, but at this point i kind of got used to it enough that just passing the meeting phase is enough for me, i the rest i kind of developed an intuition for it, it all goes some way or another, i guess the key to this things are not really giving too much damn about it.

[gasman70]

I'm not posting these questions to ask, I'm wanting to see what women will say, obviously women aren't saying anything. usually, women will just make snide comments or will say, it is obvious when i flirt. to which i say, ha, no it's not, it's like two different lakes, the man lake and the woman lake, and you think we have a map, but we don't and you stick us in front of the lake and ask us to name it when its a huge lake and you've only been to one part of one lake and you've never been to the other lake at all.

[aceleon]

woman of course won't answer, half of their lives are about not taking accountability. if you enjoy seeing this, well good for you.

[gasman70]

thank you, there was a movie once that had jack nickalson playing a character and a woman said, you write women so well in your books, how do you do that, and the character says, well, i just take a man and remove and responsibility or accountability, and you get a woman.

[gasman70]

*any

[Abbycado]

Don’t worry about the anon. It just tries to imitate me to confuse others thinking I am anon. Carry on.

@Nikki1989

[Nikki1989]

Everyone knows what she is doing now. She is not fooling anyone, except herself. lol.

[Anonymous]

So, someone thinks you should ignore someone else saying what she usually says. I guess she doesn't understand what she's admitting to. Irony is officially dead.

[MrChinaski]

The onus is on men to grow a pair and approach.

[gasman70]

that makes no answers to the question, this simply states, go after what you want. That has zero to do with the question posed. Thanks for giving me exactly nothing. Here's the thing, that information is as old as dirt, even older than me, and I'm pretty old at this point. LOL!

[MrChinaski]

What's the worst that happens? She says no.

[gasman70]

of course you're still avoiding the question and still avoiding what I said. Honestly, you're telling me the things I've known for the last 45 years, how old are you? I mean, these things are the oldest pieces of advice on record. Thanks, but thanks for telling me the obvious, captain obvious.

[Anonymous]

Please tell me your age is wrong

[gasman70]

Jesus Christ, you are answering under what you're posting under, no name and you want to tell me some bullshit like, tell me your age is wrong, I'm almost 56 and I want some opinions that's all. I can't ask? Is that what you're telling me, are you that immature person that believes that you know everything there is to know and someone my age can't ask, because you're somehow the knower of all things at a certain age? Have you ever heard the two expressions, the more you know the less you realize you don't know, and every day you learn something new? if you haven't, no wonder you post under no name.