If a woman said ‘I find you very intriguing,’ is that alluring or weird?

[Anonymous]

So if you know a woman, and you can feel there's something between you but nothing has happened yet. She turns to you and says, "I find you very intriguing." Would this be a nice thing to hear? Or would it make you think she's being a bit much? Thanks in advance!

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2 mo

Any more responses please? Male perspectives much appreciated thanks

[Anonymous]

Why would you think that'd be weird? I'd take it one of two ways. Either 1. she genuinely had interest in me and wanted to communicate that. Or 2. She just wanted me to THINK she had genuine interest. Unfortunately a lot of women like to game men. They want to say whatever will throw them off kilter an have them guessing.

What i'd do is i'd smile and acknowledge it an see if her actions follow in line with what she said. A lot of women say one thing and then do the exact opposite. That's how you determine whether she's genuine or not.

[Asker]

What if she said it with a cheeky smile? And would you not pry and ask why she thought it?

[Opinion Owner]

Like i say i would say i would smile while keeping one hand on my wallet, and one eye one my sixth. And see what happens from then on. Always best to assume the worst and hope for the best.👍

[MrChinaski]

It clearly communicates interest in a non-committal deniable way.

What comes next? If you get a positive response, then he will ask in what way. Which puts you on the spot to say something you like about him.

Alternatively, you can just say something you like about him straight up. I admire women with confidence. But either way will end up at the same coversation.

[queenofcardio]

It's a compliment. She's could be interested in him and possibly wants to know if he feels the same.

[EmmaMary]

She's taking an interest.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[AngryCarl3]

That sounds like a green flag. Intrigue is the first step to attraction.

[Anonymous]

It would be a compliment. That isn't too much at all.

[Anonymous]

I think they'd all like that

[In_Trance]

depends how well you know each other

[Iron_Man]

She likes me

[slatyb]

She wants you.

[832dreamboy]

Both.

[Asker]

How so?