Weird feeling if you haven't seen your crush in awhile?

[Anonymous]

Guys do you ever get that weird feeling if you haven't seen your crush in awhile? I hadn't seen my crush in a long time because of different work shifts but today I saw him. I thought after not seeing him for so long that awkward tension would vanish but nope, strong as ever and as soon as we seen each other his eyes went down a little and came back to meet mine and as we passed I said "hello, how you been" and he says as he looks in my eyes "great, thank you."...God I just wanted to reach out and grab him and hug him and say "damn it I like you!" This has been going on for so long and I thought I was over these romantic feelings for him. There is this chemistry I feel with him, wonder if he feels it too. Sigh...then the weird feeling of "I love you", "want you" come rushing back to me after not seeing him.

It is all his fault too for gazing into my eyes time and time again...

[Anonymous]

i know exactly what you're talking about. I haven't seen him in a year since school ended, I do miss him alot, but may be destiny doesn't want us to be together.

when we did have school together, id get this strange feeling before I would run into him, like I just knew like a psychic I was going to see him, it was crazy deja vu...i could tell he was around and I think it was the same for him because he would spot me a mile away and I can see his piercing gaze

[Asker]

Do you ever think it's true chemistry and it's just so strong and we don't know if it's just one sided? I tend to be a hopeful romantic :)

[Opinion Owner]

im a HR too haha, I wonder if its one sided too, but sometimes the feeling feels so mutual and the way they look at you its impossible to think its one sided, I also think even if there's no future btwn you two, there's a reason why you're connected to that person, they musy have some significance in your life.

[Asker]

I just can't believe a guy and girl would lock eyes over and over and over again and just have it be one sided, plus all the "tension" that you can feel, that sexual tension. Like today, like I said thought I would be over him and those feelings just came rushing back as soon as we locked eyes and I just have to believe he feels it too or my "love radar" is severely in need of repairs haha! Sucks at work which is why I think we both haven't made any significant moves beyond light eye sex.

[Opinion Owner]

i had the same thing with my guy! omg ha ha every time I run into him magically...the feelings come back :(

[goodolboy]

haha I understand mine is a collegue too. sucks don't it?

[Asker]

Sucks bad.

[goodolboy]

I know exactly how you feel! next time hug him though!

[Asker]

I can't hug him, he's a collegue.

[Love2Ball]

I do sometimes yea, but it depends on how bad I miss her.

[NonchalantBro]

ok OK, I'll stop gazing into your eyes!

[Asker]

LOL!