She only talks to me late at night?

[Anonymous]

So I have been hooking up with this girl for a couple of weeks and the other night she sent me a text message at about 3 in the morning telling me that she couldn't sleep and she thought it was creepy being alone and basically asking if she could come spend the night with me (I had asked her if she wanted to have sex prior to this conversation and she said no) and then when I asked her to make sure everything was alright she asked me how many girls I have had sex with and that she wouldn't have with a guy if she didn't know his past behavior (she was sober when she said this). What does she mean (want) by this?

ALSO this girl seems to be available to talk only in the late hours of the night like around 3 am or so and never answers the phone in the day. It seems like she only talks to me when she is drunk and I can't figure out if she is content with hooking up or if she wants a relationship. What do you think about this?

[FZRichTSIAWD]

What a weird situation, i'd say she's definitely not looking for a relationship with you if she's calling you on the off hours. Its never a good sign when someone is consistently drunk when you talk either. She just wants you to spend the night, and I'd imagine she doesn't want to seem easy (even if its the case) so never mention sex to her- even if you are going over to "sleep" with her randomly at 3 in the morning. She might be self conscious about her sex drive.

Its also possible she could also be an honest girl looking for a good guy who will make her feel secure during the night. Some girls sleep better knowing they're protected so be prepared to be that guy.

[Consilience]

You are her Booty Call. Enjoy it and practice safe sex. Be happy she chose you, seize the moment. But if your too emotional and can't handle it then give her number to a man that can. You should try funky bed stuff with her too, make this a learning experience, so you will be more able to please the next girl who is ready for a relationship.

[angeleyes]

I'm kind of like this girl. If I have nothing to do my sleeping pattern goes crazy (I sleep from 9/10am until 6pm so I'm awake all night) I don't know why it happens I've just always been like that. Maybe she's the same and that's just when she's awake.

About the sexual history thing, maybe she isn't very experienced and wants to know if you are because it can be quite intimidating if you don't really know what your doing and your partner does.

[aunthoney2007]

I think that she wants to hook up because if she wanted to have a relationship she would have sex with you?

[Aedak]

You're being used.