Guys,do you sometimes ignore your crush as a test to see if she likes you?

[Anonymous]

What should she do or not do in order to pass your test?

[Warren]

No, I don't play mind games. The only test I put her through is asking her out. If she accepts, she passes. If she declines, she fails and I compartmentalize her, section her off into a part of my brain where there are rules about what I say, do and think around or about a certain person. It does me no good to continue feeling anything for them, so I don't.

[palek]

This is something I used to do, but since graduating from the fifth grade I've tended to avoid it.

[Asker]

Thanks.May I know how old is 5th grade in your area and why did you intend to avoid this kind of testing?

[palek]

I don't believe the age range of fifth-graders varies by region, unless one is from West Virginia wherein its participants are held in awe. And "this kind of testing" would be unecessary if we would all learn to employ a modicum of diplomacy and just say what's on our minds

[Asker]

Many thanks for your answer and comment!The reason why I'm asking this question is because there is a guy who nods and smiles cutely/broadly at me when he sees me.I always nod and smile back.Then each time after the friendliness,he would walk up to me and stand face to face with me but pretends not to notice me THE NEXT TIME he sees me.He has done this 4 times.Do you think he is testing if I like him or waiting for me to do something?Thanks.

[palek]

If you've reason to conclude he's not a beastly fiend of any kind just cut to the chase and strike up a convo. Life's too short to leer, bob and wonder.

[Asker]

Thank you.You look and sound like someone who has great wisdom.

[palek]

Thanks fer sayin, though I'm much less impressive in person. ; - )

[elements]

Don't waste your time on someone who puts you through childish tests like that. It's ridiculous.

[kidmichael1]

I won't ignore her, but I will play things cool. If a guy ignores her, THAT could seriously backfire if some other guy makes a move.



If a woman likes a man, she'll communicate it in one form or another...a touch on the shoulder, a wink, or something like that. It's not too difficult to tell

[Lovelesspassion]

Yes I do from time to time..

And To pass it.. Simple.. start the conversations..

Keep in contact.. Invite me places

Or ad simple as texting me first a few times..

One time won't cut it.. 2 times is a mybe..

But if I'm testing like this 3 times will pass it

[Ugliness]

I have never ignored my crush. Usually they don't like me.

That's past history anyhow.

[InMyHeart]

some guys do.