How should I ask her if she's a virgin or not?

[Anonymous]

I've been dating this girl for 2 weeks. Im 18 and she's 17 I just don't no how to bring it up in a way that's not weird if anyone can help please.

[RyeLee]

If a guy asked me if I was a virgin after only 2 weeks of dating I would be soooo irritated! Don't do it! This is just my opinion, take what you will, but it would seem like you are only thinking of and looking for sex. Just wait a little longer...wait for it to come up naturally in conversation!

[Asker]

Thats not what I'm looking for I just want to know her better but I realy like your opinion on the matter thanks

[RyeLee]

Aw, well that's good! good luck!!! .....anytimee :)

[CaramelSkin]

2 wks. If she's comfortable about that issue then yes ask her but don't put any pressure on her so if she seems a bit touchy about that subject then don't push the issue. Remember timing is everything.

[a-nn-a]

Just ask her straight up, if she's comfortable telling you, she will. If not, don't push her and ask her again another time. Hope that helps

[SmallBoy]

If she's uncomfy she's a non virgin omg obvious hahahahaaha

[Arics]

Not true at all

[a-nn-a]

I agree with you arics, that's defnitely not true at all

[Anonymous]

You shouldn't. There's no need to know. It doesn't make you know more about her. It just lets you know if somebody else's schling schlong has been in her bajingle. If it makes you know more about her, then you are either categorizing her unnecessarily or judging her.

[wiseman1]

What does it matter dude? If she is, "she is". If she's not, so what!

Focus on building a good relation with her. Build trust, respect her. In time your sexual histories will likely come out but it shouldn't be something to pine over.

- good luck

[NMMan]

It's one of those direct questions that can't really be made easier - my advice is just to ask her.

[tamana]

get her comfortable and both you should start talking about ur ex bfs and gfs, and then she my tell you within the whole convo. it wil not look bad if you ask her within a discussion but if you ask her out of the blue, then that will throw her.

[sweet17]

Don't ask her straight up because you will most likely give her the impression that you are just thinking about sex.

If you are on the subject and it comes up naturally then you're okay.

[mrkallai]

You shouldn't asked this question to her.It's total inappropriate & will irrirate to the girl.

Let she share with you about her sex life instead if she feels comfortable with you.

[curiousgirl]

i'd feel really weird if I were her and you just asked me plainly "r you a virgin"? it would seem very rude and putting me on the spot. so don't do that...

[iridescent]

Why do you care if she is a virgin or not? Just curious.

[Asker]

I don't I just want to know how much she trust me with stuff like that

[ncstrike]

nahhh I wouldn't it shouldnt matter just make sure she doesn't have any std's or anything. be smart you should be doing that with any partner

[kigirl33]

would it change your feelings for her if she wasnt?

[Nashton]

I find it funny that you answered his question with a question haha

[SmallBoy]

I wouldnt

[Asker]

No I just want to know

[Rocking]

The guy I like asked me if I ever seen a naked man in real. that was weird though..

[monmouth]

Have a conversation about passed relationships and it may or may not lead to an answer.

If she doesn't want to tell you, she won't or she will be embarrassed if she does.

[Tech21]

dont ask you'll find out when you have sex

[l-hedoniste]

She'll tell you if she is. Don't bother asking.