How do you like to be held while cuddling?

[Anonymous]

Guys and cuddling questions:

guys, how do you like to be held while cuddling? which position do you like while cuddling? where do you like to be touched while cuddling?

what do you think about when you're cuddling with a girl?

would you cuddle with a girl you just saw as a friend? or would there have to be an ounce of romantic interest?

[Betawolf]

Big spoon is always good. Makes us feel like we are protecting you or keeping you warm, all that manly stuff. What I like even more, but is less convenient if trying to watch a movie/tv etc, is facing each other just kind of...hugging, with the girls face at my neck/chest. Those are my two favorite cuddling positions.

Touching. Loveeee the feeling of her hand/arms on my chest. If I am on my back and she is laying on her side beside me, nothing feels better than her throwing an arm across me =). If were doin the spoons, I'd just like her to wrap her arms around mine and hold them against her chest/stomach.

What do I think while cuddling? Hmm, well not a whole lot really. It is a very relaxing activity, either focusing on the movie or making sure the girl is comfortable. Anything I can do to keep her feeling comfortable/good will be running through my mind.

I have cuddled with many girls who have just been friends with me and that we both knew would go no further than that. Its a fun, enjoyable, stress-relieving activity that most people should be able to do without feeling weird about it!

[tehepicasian]

Wow, so many questions in one! I'll try to answer one by one:

1) spooning is nice, but I would personally prefer to be sort of facing the girl, while her head faces my chest and I have my arms around; bonus points if the girl is a bit smaller than average.

2) This may differ from guy to guy, but I'm personally more of a hand on chest or face kind of guy where that leads to more of a "romantic" situation rather than "sexual"; but it might just be me.

3) Probably her scent, warmth, softness, etc. Either that or I'll just fall asleep from the comfiness...

4) Probably not. Not even because of the potential criticism from family and friends, but just personal guilt or urges that would most likely be destructive for the girl if I let these situations happen. The only way this will happen is if we were already dating.

Thanks for the questions!

[Anonymous]

my ex always liked to tuck his face against my neck while cuddling against me or vice versa. He liked the feeling of my breath on his skin there or to feel my heart beating against his :)

[Greaver]

I like to cuddle in The short stack position or Verona skeletons or facing each other the other one is where the girl lays on top of you
Cuddling in my mind is s way for me to get rid of stress and get close to the one I love the most and just lay there talking about random stuff until we fall asleep until the next morning where we cuddle for a little bit longer before getting up to make breakfast

[TheDigitalSaint]

Two words: Big spoon. :)

Ok, so there's a few more. I could cuddle with a friend on the sofa (not the bed), and wouldn't have a problem with it. Human to human touching reduces stress. Why not?

[Onidandal]

I would love to be the little spoon at some point. It's nice, warm, and safe-feeling. I'd also love to be big spoon, too, which is protecting. Any cuddling, really, is nice. I'm a HUGE cuddlebug.

[Anonymous]

I love cuddling! My favorite position is to layer her on top of me and then we’ll just hold eachother for a long time. It’s super intimate and super sweet when she starts doing it spontaneously.

[Anonymous]

Ok yes just