How do you like to cuddle?

[Alyssathegreat]

I love cuddling with my boyfriend. (Even when he doesn't want to...) I never miss an opportunity to cuddle with my boyfriend. Whether were in bed, watching a movie, or he's just lying on the couch I always to try to cuddle with him. For example, say he's on the couch. I join him and scoot next to him and if he doesn't take the hint I'll roll into his lap and put his arms around me. Also, when we're in bed i sometime will lay on top of him well wrapping my legs and arms around him. He'll sometimes try and get me off of him but he gives up after a while and realizing im not going to move lol. I also like laying on his chest. it makes me feel protected. What about you girls? do you do this to?

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Ok, NGL I just got woken up. In his sleep Karl (my boyfriend) pushed me off the bed and I fell. I was going to wake him up and slap him across the face but decided that could wait until tomorrow.

YOU ARE IN BIG TROUBLE KARL!!!

[OlderAndWiser]

Some of what you describe is extremely clingy, both literally and figuratively. You laying on top of him when he is trying to sleep is extreme. My girlfriend feels comfortable and protected if we go to sleep on our sides, spooned together, with my arm around her. And after we fall asleep, we change position and never wake up still spooned together. Your behavior had a high possibility of pushing away most guys.

[MrOracle]

If we're in bed, I'm usually spooning her, or sometimes she'll lay face down on my chest.

If we're on the couch, she's usually leaning back against me, or sometimes laying with her head in my lap.

Regardless, I like to have my girl next to me as much as possible. I like to have my hand (s) on her and to feel her body against mine. Even in the car, I've usually got my hand on her thigh, or sometimes we hold hands.

Most girls are very comforted by this, and I feel more relaxed as well, knowing that she's safe.

[Dnice1]

I laying in his arms with his head on top of mine and also him laying in his back with one of my legs in him and my hand over his heart and my head under his chin and his arm around me kissing my forehead ☺

[sheenagwapa]

i think most relationship can't get their hands off with each other always hugging and kissinh and just doing silly things

[Summeroflove]

Dang this is a little personal. It depends. The more closes spade the better. But I do like to change it up a bit.


Has to be with someone im attracted to though at the very least. I’m only touchy with certain people

[Summeroflove]

wtf... Don't smack him that is not right you could end up in jail. If it was a accident then get over it

[Alyssathegreat]

It wouldn't be THAT hard. Just hard enough for him to know I'm mad at him. I've slapped before a few times. He was fine. He'll deal with it.

[Summeroflove]

You still should not be smacking him.

[Alyssathegreat]

He's getting what's coming for him.

[Summeroflove]

Still illegal

[Alyssathegreat]

Instead, i'll just wake him up tell he's letting me lay on top him or he's getting a light hit to the face.

[Summeroflove]

You can't force someone to do something they don't want to. If he has a boundary then you need to respect it. Again don't be hitting. You're going to end up screwing this relationship up since nobody with dignity and self respect wants to be with someone like that

[Alyssathegreat]

Well, I'm his pretty princess so he lets me do whatever I want to him whether he likes it or not.

[Summeroflove]

Well... I don't think that is good boundaries and he is going to get tired of it at some point. It takes more then just being pretty. Would you want him crossing your boundaries?

[Alyssathegreat]

No I wouldn't

[Summeroflove]

Then why do you do it? If you don’t like it. Why would you do it?

A relationship is a two way street. You seem very one sided. Probably why you don’t get decent men

[Alyssathegreat]

To me, my happiness is more important than his. Besides i don't know if he wants to be with me. I think he might just be too scared to break up and make me sad. I know I sometimes bother him a lot but if it was that bad he should say something.

[Summeroflove]

Pretty bold statement. You don’t care about him or how he feels. This is why you don’t get good men.

Personally. If a woman didn’t value my feelings. I loose interest. I’m not into one sided things.

But you have shown who you are. At first I thought you were great snuggling. Then after this. Yeah….

[Summeroflove]

Maybe he thinks his happiness is more important then yours. You can’t expect him to respect your boundaries and not respect his.

I see why you’re always stuck with men you don’t want. Because the kind you want don’t want you.

[Alyssathegreat]

I still care about just not as much as i care about myself

[Alyssathegreat]

and when did i say i didn't want him

[Summeroflove]

Well. Maybe he feels the same. If you can’t give 50/50. Then it’s one sided

[Summeroflove]

You seem unhappy with him. You also seem like a shit girlfriend. You want to smack him because he didn’t want to cuddle with you and intentionally cross his boundaries.

I mean…. Are you fine with him putting his own happiness before your own? By the things you said I assume not.

You’re one sided. This is why you’re not happy. You’re probably the reason why he doesn’t want to be around you

[Alyssathegreat]

Most of the things i said were jokes. I think that it's entitled to think that you can do whatever you want to your partner and that there happiness doesn't matter. I wasn't joking about hitting him though. I i wish i didn't do that. I think i hurt him both physically and emotionally. I shouldn't have smacked him because im lucky with the amount of time i do get to cuddle with him. Just wanted to clear things up

[Alyssathegreat]

Basically, everything i said in the post is true and what i said here was more of a joke.

[Summeroflove]

Well you shouldn’t hit. Glad you feel bad. Glad you were joking. A lot of people really feel that way and it’s hard to see what’s a joke or not when typing. I apologize for getting personal then.

But. You do understand there are people who think exactly like that

[Summeroflove]

I’m glad it’s a joke then… Because again. You might be a good person and really love your boyfriend.

There is people who think exactly like it. I have seen my fair share of idiots on here and in the world and on other websites.

It’s hard to tell when you type something what’s a joke unless you tell me. Lol.

[mandyfire98]

I normally will wrap my legs around and lay my head on his chest or I like to be spooned.

[Alyssathegreat]

same. i also enjoy being cradled in his lap like a baby.

[Guardian45]

I LOVE Spooning! Are you big or little spoon?

[Alyssathegreat]

@Guardian45 I like being little

[Alyssathegreat]

@Guardian45 what about you?

[Guardian45]

I usually prefer big spoon, but rarely, because I'm switch, I enjoy little spoon too.

[Bethany22]

I don't look for ways to cuddle with him every chance I can get. Usually when I think of doing that I'm having an insecure moment.

[dustybiker]

Any way, any time. Just gravitate toward each other.

[BlueScorpio]

I love cuddling! My husband always holds me from behind.. snoogling is so nice ☺️

[letuswaltzforthedead]

There is very few things better than a good cuddle

[Guy13]

I don’t like cuddling all the time. This is eating time to me 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Guardian45]

I do LOVE to cuddle. I'm an unabashed cuddleslut. I LOVE to sleep cuddling with her ALL night. Most of my ladies DIDN'T like doing it ALL night and would push me away at some point in the night.

[HeyBenSultan]

I don't like hugs because there is no one who hugs before except saying goodbye. It feels weird.

[MysticDevice]

Every and any way possible. Cuddling is underrated as heck.

[Jltakk]

Love the concept of cuddling but never really did it.

[jimmy2]

Lol I love you doing that be good to Karl and be blessed

[Gloree]

You're going to choke him

[Alyssathegreat]

Oh well its worth it 🤣

[Gloree]

Hahaha

[Iron_Man]

I love cuddling

[Anonymous]

I like being the big spoon

[peedy]

Roll over and pretend I'm asleep

[Anonymous]

My face in her boobs especially naked.

[_Just_A_girl_]

Hugs rock

[Anonymous]

I don' know.

[Anonymous]

Spooning.