What can I do to attract the woman I want?

Anonymous
I have no problem attracting below average to average girls, sometimes even slightly above average, but how do I attract the really attractive girls?

I'm not a bad guy, I'm a good catch. I present myself well even though I'm a bit shy. Good personality. Humble. Decent looking but not the most athletic body, but not fat. Unlike a lot of guys I see a pretty girl and think what it would be like to get to know her and be with her, and kiss and hold her, not have meaningless sex with her. I want to show her respect and put off sex for much later in the relationship. I'm in no rush.

What do I need to do to attract the right girl? I do my best to be guy that every girl seems to want, but the hot girls only seem to go for jerks, and are very stuck up at the same time, even if they seem nice on the surface. They're missing genuine humility.
What can I do to attract the woman I want?
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