I can say without a doubt that the girl's personality has been a key factor for me when it comes down to fantasizing about her. For examply: My previous crush was really sweet and had that whole aura of innocence surrounding her. When I started fantasizing about having sex with her a lot of the love got processed into it, such as a long-lasting foreplay as well as taking time to explore her body and in general make sure the act took as long as possible for maximum enjoyment. There was, however, also a girl long before that whom had an extremely naughty personality and had no trouble telling how she felt about others sexually, including me. That combined with her appearance made it a lot easier for me to 'spice up' my fantasies surrounding her. I feel like the personality is often the starting point for my fantasies, for without it, how would I know the fantasy is going to turn out?
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Yes it does a lot. If a girl is innocent it's really hard for me to think of her in a sexual way. My last crush it took me months before I could imagine having sex with her even though I thought she was really hot. Like the other guy who answered said it would seem disrespectful since she seemed so innocent. If she is really flirty and sexual then it's pretty easy for me to fantasize about doing all kinds of naughty things with her. I've had crushes on both types of girls and really not sure what I like better, innocent or sexual. I think sexual girls scare me though, I feel like they will get bored with just one guy.
I'm not completely certain but was told recently by my crush that he missed me a lot and that my charisma was a big turn on..
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A woman’s personality affects the way a guy thinks about her, depending on what turns him on...
If she is innocent and that turns him on, then he is turned on by that (and if he does or doesn’t like her face & body, then that will add to or subtract from his arousal.)
And if she is NOT innocent and that turns him on, then he is turned on by that (and if he does or doesn’t like her face & body, then that will add to or subtract from his arousal.)
***However, t’s usually the other way around: if he likes a woman’s face & body that will turn him on, and then if she is innocent and that is a turn-on to him too, then that will add to his arousal.Well if a girl is shy, then we guys will usually fantasize more about her lol. Shy girls are the equivalent to a dark and mysterious man. They are full of surprises.
I think a girl's personality can definitely influence a guy's fantasy about her.
So if she's innocent, he might imagine her losing control and becoming this super sexy girl with him. In my case, I just enjoy thinking about how lovely they are, how sweet and caring the girl is...If she's the cute/innocent type and I'm attracted to her looks, I can't fantasize about her or not sexually anyway. For whatever reason, I can't fantasize about girls that I have a crush on. Seems disrespectful.
Other girls, I will fantasize about and it's a basic fantasy, I guess. Then there are the girls that are really aggressive and bitchy, and I'll fantasy about them just using me as such.Yes, a girls personality definitely has a huge roll. If I'm not into her personality I won't even fantasize about her anyway. If I just want to get off on looks, p*rn would be easier. lol
yep.. I love fantasizing about girls I like...
i also like it when a girl is sexual and shows it..
so the answer is yah, it definitely affects how I think about a girlFor sure. The best fantasies are authentic ones. :)
Definitely. If I care about the girl I will make love to her when I fantasize. If she's just some random piece of ass, I am probably having rough sex with her in my mind. loool
yes it affects how I think about her: bitchy and arrogant girls (dominatrix), sweet and sensitive girls (submissive sex slave).
I'd say so but being innocent is sweet so keep that going:)
Not really. We just fantasize about taking away that innocence. If the girl is more sexual though, I imagine doing something more out of the ordinary with her.
It is true for me. I love to fantasize about innocent girls, it makes me to fall in love with her and the others just like thinking about a p*orn
It sure does. Imagine fapping to a girl who talks less and dresses like a nun. No fun! Right guys?
Helll yeah!
Fantasy is the basic of sex and love
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