Why do only ugly guys ask me out?

[Anonymous]

Hi there! :) It's been quite some time since I last had a boyfriend and I've been talking to more guys lately. One was really good looking, even asked me out twice but found someone better.

In the past months several guys asked for my phone number ON THE STREET.Yes, on the street, saying I was pretty and wanted to talk some time.One even said hi and then complimented my "amazing long hair"They were ALL hideous.I'm not saying I look like a model, but it wasn't only their looks.They all seemed creeps and perverts.

Why do I only attract this type of guy? I would never date one like this...

[DutchAtheist]

Numbers.

I think a lot of guys figure:

If you have little to go for yourself, you are best off approaching a lot of women, that way, chances that one of them is interested increase. You don't have to be very selective, you're not going for anyone in particular in this case.

If you are a real catch, you can be more preserved. Really look out for a special someone and try to figure them out before asking them on a date. Don't waste a lot of time on 'maybes' pick the winner after careful consideration.

So... women will get approached a lot by less then mediocre guys, because those guys ask out a lot of girls. Only every now and then there is a cute guy asking you out and he probably really went out on a limb.

[TedStar]

People are attracted to what they are attracted to. These guys may feel that they have a chance with you due to how you behave or how you look. If you only attract guys who you don't find attractive then I suggest you start actively pursuing the guys you do find attractive. I'd also suggest asking family and friends ( or any other people that know you well ) to gauge how attractive you really are and the type of men you attracting through your actions

[DishLady]

Every girl attracts that sort of guy. They're creeps, end of story. No need to judge/question yourself based on that.

Anyone who approaches you on the street should be treated like any other strangers. Often just a "thank you" to their compliment followed by a walking at a brisk pace in the opposite direction (or crossing the street) gives a rational guy a clear message. For those who persist...there's 911/local precinct number on your phone, right? Use it.

[ksmbutt]

because they're attracted to you, but they feel like their chances are low, so they say, "hey, why not give it a try anyways?". low commitment, quick. if it works, awesome, if it doesn't, whatevs. I'm not ugly by the way, I just know the way guys think

[kheserthorpe]

Ugly guys are single more often and have to hit on more girls to get a yes. So every woman gets hit on more often by ugly guys.

As for 'perverts', guys are generally asking girls out at least partially because of their sex drive. Those guys with very low sex drives tend to barely date, because they aren't motivated to go through the 'strike out repeatedly trying to get somewhere' involved.

[TheUglyOne]

yeah we ugly guys are mean creeps who kick kittens.

Don't worry though, I'd never ask you out. I'm sure you are so good that my shadow isn't even good enough to touch you lol.

[giantpotato]

they are playing the numbers game. they most likely do it to every girl they see, one of em is bound to say yes right?

[giantpotato]

they also boosted your ego by having someone wanting you right? Its a win win for everybody.

[SmoothOperator1980]

...and yet you're bitching about it on an online forum. Way to go there Miss Popular.

[Moloch]

Because you could be ugly yourself and they think they have a shot.

[taster]

Eh..just decline until one that you are attracted to asks you out...