How do players handle rejection?

[Anonymous]

Players love conquering new target. If a girl just accept any moves he makes he will quickly lose interest.

However, if a girl reject his moves and let him know she really interested in getting to know him. Will that turn him on even more cos she is leaving him wanting more? Or will he just move on to someone that will say yes to anything he ask for?

[Anonymous]

"Players love conquering new target."

True.

"If a girl just accept any moves he makes he will quickly lose interest."

False. Easy targets are good.

"However, if a girl reject his moves and let him know she really interested in getting to know him. Will that turn him on even more cos she is leaving him wanting more? Or will he just move on to someone that will say yes to anything he ask for?"

Neither. If you're interested in getting to know him, then you're clearly not rejecting his moves. If you were ACTUALLY rejecting his moves, you wouldn't be interested, and then he'd lose interest and move on to an easier target.

But you're not, because you are. See how that works?

[Asker]

Easy target would only be used by him once and he would toss her away?

Well we talked really dirty on second date and he took me home, he tried to kiss me but I said no cos I don't know him well but I tell him I'm really intersted in getting to know him. at the moment I'm not comfortable. When I leave he held hands with me walking me out. saying he will be in touch. Does that mean he gave up?

[Opinion Owner]

lol, I get it now.

You're not talking about a player, you're talking about a manwhore.

[Asker]

LOL isn't player and manwhore the same thing?

Wil he contact me again? or he gave up cos I didn't put out?

[Opinion Owner]

lol, no, a player actually "dates" multiple women at the same time. A manwhore is just looking for people to screw and move on. Which means that's all he's looking for from you. If you're going to have sex with him, you might as well just get on with it, because it's never going farther than that. There's plenty of whores out there, and he'll lose interest in chasing you pretty fast.

[Asker]

He sure is weird one then.. cos if all he want is to screw chicks why did he pay match making agency to look for long term partner? he should go to escort or bar instead haha

and after I turn him down he hold hands with me on the street

[Konnour]

If he's a 'real' player - aka holding moron genes since birth, he doesn't even notice the rejection, he continues living in delusions that he's a great person in all aspects.

If he's a wannabe horndog who wants a lot of püssy - his ego shatters but he tries to hide it and most likely since then he will aim lower to get at least some girl, any girl to feed the ego back to the previous level.

[Asker]

So he will go for some easy target to heal his ego before he try to get what he couldn't have?

[Konnour]

It depends of the person but it's very likely to happen.

[Asker]

Right... I guess he really will be in touch with me since I isn't put out on second date. Not even a kiss! I only have him a challenge cos he sau he likes one on first date lol

[Anonymous]

If this guy is a player he will play you and play all the girls. I'm somewhat confused by this question. Player play full stop that's it no questions asked. They like to sleep with various women making each one feel "special" why can't girls see this some of you have no common sense and then cry when he plays you like a game of hop scotch. HE IS A PLAYER PLAYERS PLAY GIRLS SO LEAVE HIM ALONE. FULL STOP

[htarmort]

Players play (period). Unless their friends are marrying and settling down - don't bet your dollar they will. I have a 60s cousin who is still not willing to settle for "another" girl. He is chasing his ideal girl.

[Anonymous]

he'll most likely move on to the next one! they don't like wasting time.

[Asker]

even he mentioned he likes challenge? if a girl just let him do whatever he wants to her. It's not really challenging then?

[Opinion Owner]

yes they like challenges, but in the end they just want to do one thing and that is to sleep with you and players don't just talk to one girl at a time.. there are many other girls as well!

[Asker]

That means they don't like challenges then? if they just ignore you right after you say no to sex?

[Opinion Owner]

yeah most likely! that's what they do, I know players very well.. telling you from my experience!

[Asker]

then he shouldn't have told me he love challenges and telling me he is alpha male and all those stuff.. a true alpha male loves to hunt!

[Opinion Owner]

for them challenge means 'i'll go after you until you don't agree to have sex with me' and if he sees any progress, he'll continue otherwise he'll move onto the next one.

[Asker]

Ok.. so this guy took me to his place on 2nd date trying to kiss me. I told him I'm still getting to know him so no kisses. He then tease me and say you will only kiss after 900th dates. I said no I just need to know you better. And he asked what happen if someone just wants to have sex.I said I never had a f buddy before so idk.

When I left he was holding hands with me walking me to the cab. I didn't think he would still be "sweet" after I reject him. He say he be in touch so idk

[Opinion Owner]

alright he might contact you as it was only a second date so he's going to try again, he won't force you but he'll definitely try to make you want him.. he's going to act extra sweet.

[Asker]

so him holding hands with me was preparing for the 3rd date... he better call me lol it's been a few days already...

[Opinion Owner]

why do you want to see him knowing he's a player? see your already wondering about him, that's what he wants.

[Asker]

only becuase of how we met, I like to see him one more time to get a better picture

[Light_Yagami]

Some dogs like chasing a bone and others don't it really depends on the person and if the guy think she's worth it.

Playing hard to get is a double edged sword.

[Asker]

I don't usually play hard to get, only because he mentioned he likes challenges.. if that's the case. How can I fix it? If I call or text he might think I'm chasing him and lose interest? cos he mentioned he likes to be in charge

[Anonymous]

A girl who is really interested in getting to know him, *won't* reject his moves.

You're asking a question which makes no sense.

[Asker]

His moves as in something sexual. Not rejecting dates