Would you say life is so extremely easy for hot, cute, pretty, attractive, good-looking girls, women in their

[Anonymous]

teens and 20's? The Model-look-a-like Girls, Women, or they are close to looking like Models, after all, as long as a girl, woman is hot, cute, pretty, attractive, good-looking, most guys will overlook any flaw, red-flag, insecurity, etc., that she has.

Online Dating is an example, it doesn't really matter what their profile description says, the quality of their profile does not matter as much, they don't really need to have things going for them in their life, etc.

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and remember, I'm talking about the hot, cute, pretty, attractive, good-looking girls, women in their teens and 20's, they have a lot of dating options, true the overwhelming vast majority of them will be losers, creepers in their eyes, but they don't need that much qualifications about them in order to get a boyfriend

[pr3ttybr0wn]

A lot of them aren't observant enough to realize this and spend their best years being riddled with crippling insecurities and give a fck too much about what negative people think. But yes, things can be easier if you know how to work it.

that doesn't mean there are no troubles, but getting dates and manipulating men is easy when you look like that. however not every girl thinks that way and is even desiring to just hook up and look for guys to boost her ego. not all of them are looking for horny desperate guys who are just happy to have a hot girl breathe on them, which is kind of what you sound like when you always write these questions.

[Asker]

most guys will date, tolerate, accept an insecure girl but almost never the other way around, also, being boring, a push-over, lacking boundaries, is much worse for guys than it is for girls

[Asker]

i know I am right

[karenirving307]

Some do have it easy but people should look beyond on those traits and see what type of person they are its not good to judge someone before you get to know them. You shouldn't judge people by there appearance or by your own preconceptions.

[Asker]

true but those type of girls I am talking about, they almost always are in a relationship, or have been in a lot of relationships, understandable since they are in high demand by a lot of guys, and their boyfriends or ex-boyfriends would not have approached them, asked them out, pursued them if they were not attracted to their looks physically in the first place

[karenirving307]

well that can be true but there are all kinds of good looking girls who approach guys and its not the girls fault if she gets a lot of attention that she has no control over

[Asker]

well almost all the time it is the hot, cute, pretty girls that are taken

[karenirving307]

nothing really you can do about that, and you just gotta look there are plenty of fish in the sea

[Asker]

still, a girl does not need to be confident, have a life full of passion, but guys do

[karenirving307]

well that's not true girls need confidence too

[Asker]

how so? I find that to be bullsh*t!

[karenirving307]

i know plenty of girls who ask advice on how to talk to guys,saying what should I say to him how should I approach him etc not only goes go therw that y,know

[Asker]

well they don't really need to ask for that advice since there are bound to be many guys to approach, hit on them

[karenirving307]

youd be surprised

[Asker]

why would I be surprised?

[karenirving307]

because there are a lot of girls out there who go therw the exact something guys do.

[MaskofInsanity]

You know, a lot of guys complain about how good looking girls are up themselves or feel entitle, without considering the fact that it's men that make them feel that way (we all know women like to tear one another down).

[Asker]

yes, make make it easy for them

[BeefNoodles]

Of course, girls in there late teens and early twenties are almost impossible to get, as they all have boyfriends, mostly older guys.

But, guys don't have to deal with age being a problem as much, once a girl hits high 30's and into 40's she isn't going to find it near as easy.

[BeefNoodles]

Also not saying life is easy, didn't read the question very well, it's just easy to get a date. That early adulthood period is one of the most difficult periods in someone's life in my opinion.

[frustratedchump06]

exactly

[MissDashwood]

No. In some ways it's harder.

Some people look at beautiful girls and assume that's all there is to them. Guys only date them because they think they're hot, whereas less attractive girls have more of an opportunity to attract guys with their personalities and interests initially. Hot girls get stuck with tools a lot. And guys who want someone with a little complexity aren't going to approach super hot girls, because they're going to assume that they're two-dimensional, petty, and stupid.

[Asker]

still, those type of girls don't need much qualities about them

[Anonymous]

No. Being vastly good looking would be like being famous. "Do they just like me because of *insert here*" You start to wonder if the person loves the real you, or even cares who the real you is. Plus, imagine all the times you have to wonder "What's this persons real motive here?"

No matter what, everybody has problems to overcome.

[Asker]

well good-looking women get a lot of attention obviously

[Opinion Owner]

Which may not be a good thing.

[Asker]

how come?

[Brando]

No.

Despite feeling like people don't take their insecurities seriously, situations such as this question puts them on a pedestal so much that they can't experience things the same way as most people, simply because of how they look.

[Asker]

well at least they get guys to date them

[Brando]

You have a very simplistic view on life if that's what is most important to you. Get out and experience the world, sir.

[Asker]

a girl does not need to have things going for her

[Brando]

Ok dude, enough of this pissing and moaning. It's really annoying and is only hurting you.

[Asker]

yeah so what? it doesn't make any difference

[beerY33]

This isn't true. Sure, some people have it easier than others, and good looks do come with a certain privilege, but being good looking doesn't automatically make your life "so extremely easy." It's unproductive to view things that way.

[Asker]

well those type of girls can get a boyfriend easily, they don't need confidence or social-skills, conversation-skills, etc.

[beerY33]

not true at all.

[Asker]

why is that? guys have to do the approaching almost all the time so social-skills, conversation-skills are more important for guys to have

[karenirving307]

i agree with beerY33 just because you have good looks does not mean your life is perfect like most people think so

[youllthinkofme]

Looks can only take you so far. You can't coast through life soley on how good looking you are because one day you'll be old and no one will care anymore.

[MildlyOriginal]

Exactly. Eventually looks fade.

[Asker]

yeah well most of the time, guys approach girls based on visual, physical attraction

[lovehim16]

I think its all about how you see yourself. I mean if you're happy with what you look like and feel you'll obviously happy. But if you have insecurities about you're body everything in life will be really crappy for you.

[TurbulentDan12]

There are a lot of annoyances associated with the attention as well but it isn't without perks. I don't think life is "extremely easy" for anyone

[Asker]

still, girls don't need confidence but guys do

[dwiller943]

No. Unless it's the horrible ones. The respectful ones never have it easy.

[Anonymous]

Good God how many times are you going to post a version of this question. Date men if you believe it's so unfair!

[Opinion Owner]

P.S. It's MEN'S fault it's like this. I'd love if they looked past a pretty face and demanded accomplishments and personality. It's your own fault that being attractive is all we have to be, because that's all you care about!

[Asker]

well that makes it easy for you girls, you don't need to work on yourselves as much as guys do

[Opinion Owner]

Your own fault. You could up your standards, but you don't.

[Asker]

because I don't want to make it hard for me

[Opinion Owner]

Then quit complaining that we re not afraid of making it hard on ourselves. Fear is your problem

[Asker]

girls can have fear, be passive, insecure, be boring and still attract guys

[Opinion Owner]

omg you are a broken record. THAT is your problem.

[Asker]

oh well, it's basic logic here

[Opinion Owner]

2 months later and still no progress?

[Anonymous]

pretty much, and some people say the power-shift changes as men reach their 30's, and women reach their 30's too

[Anonymous]

yes, they can be boring and still get a guy