Do very attractive women have it so easy?

Question

As every guy wants them so they can check pick the best looking and richest one. With minimal effort

Annie_LevelUP_ADC · Accepted Answer

It's just different. Like thinking it's easier, the judging can be relentless. I'm going to rant, sorry if I sound angry but here we go..

Feeling confident? Oh you're an arrogant bitch!

Shy? Who do you think you are, you think you're better than us?

You're pretty! What is fake? Was it the nose? Where did you get surgery done?

You think the guy I'm dating isn't on par with my physical appearance? This bitch is probably a gold digger!

You're not dating? You're a slut. Or, SOMETHING MUST BE WRONG WITH HER. SHE IS PROBABLY CRAZYYYYYY

Women are jealous and competitive. You don't seek it, but they'll bring that fight to you. Other girls feel threatened by you just saying hello and being friendly to their boyfriend. They'll find something against you and put others against you out of pure jealousy. These insecure women want to see you stumble and fall.

And men? SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX!!

Unwanted attention You're getting cat called. You get groped. You feel these eyes on you all the time.

You're in a depression? HOW, YOU'RE BEAUTIFUL, YOU HAVE IT EASY!!!

You lose friends. Not just out of jealousy, but because they love you, but you don't love them back so you have to push them away and it's awkward and Voila ANOTHER FRIEND GONE, AND YOU can't HELP IT BECAUSE THEY can't SEE YOU AS A FRIEND ANYMORE. Girls and guys alike!

Beautiful? She's probably Dumb, yes, nothing going on behind those eyes.

ANOTHER SAD ONE. People want to befriend you, but why? WHY YOU THINK? LOOKS. That's right, they show interest but it's only to GET PHYSICAL. Personality, why does that matter anyway, m. It hurts me that you always wonder if they like you for you or your body.

EVEN IF YOU GET IN A RELATIONSHIP, MY BOYFRIEND WILL HAVE TO DEAL WITH PEOPLE COMING UP TO ME. AND IF HE DOESN'T TRUST ME, EVEN THOUGH I REJECT THEM ALL. WHAT HAPPENS? HE LEAVES. ALONE AGAIN.

What else what else comes to mind...

People unsuccessful in dating are automatically going to hate you. I AM THE CAUSE OF ALL THAT IS WRONG IN DATING. SHE IS PRETTY SHE MUST BE A MAN HATER

I'm going to stop.

Rei13 · Accepted Answer

Overall if you’re an attractive woman you have it a lot easier than an ugly woman does. That is not to say there isn’t still struggles that go with it. If you’re really pretty it isn’t always easy to tell if someone likes you for you or because of the way you look and that would be a huge negative. At my ugliest my boyfriend liked me so when I became more attractive after losing weight there is no question in my head whether my boyfriend liked me for me or not, but if I met him after it would probably always be in the back of my mind

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

In Western society, yes, because they're pandered to in every possible way, and Western society is FULL of White Knights and older guys who are desperate desperados. I currently know SEVERAL females in state prisons, 1 of whom told me flat out on the phone after I made a wisecrack, "those old guys are our favorites. They're the ones who fill up our accounts." Then there's an ex I drove cross country with, cutie pie face and all. We ran out of gas in Blythe, CA. Parked at a truck stop. My card had plenty of money on it, but for some reason, they had a hold on my account. I had ALL KINDS of brand new shit in the vehicle... gear, electronics, etc. I did what a man should do... I walked around the stop for an hour, showing off stuff, to SELL... not asking for a handout. Explained we're out of gas. Half the people wouldn't even let me approach. After an hour, I went back to the car, didn't know what else to do. I told her... why don't you just go out there, say we're out of gas, point to the car, see what happens... because I had a GOOD IDEA what would happen if she did it. She was unsure, but I convinced her. I got in the backseat, laid down, pulled a blanket over me. After only FIFTEEN MINUTES she came back, sat in the driver's seat... calmly said to come up front and sit with her. I got back in the passenger seat... she just stares ahead blankly and says, "Oh my God..."... and uncurled her right fist. What fell out was $118. So, you tell me...

Meropatrick · Accepted Answer

No. Beautiful women are women at the end of the day. They want to pick a guy who is of good quality. They dont use their looks just to get sex like how a guy would use his looks. They want to get a rich guy who would marry them. But that plan many times fail. The competition is high. And other women and men aren't also nice to beautiful women and they do get Bullied. If beautiful women had it easier marylin monroe wouldn't be dead at 36 she would have been the happiest woman alive but she wasn't. Princess diana would be the happiest woman but she wasn't either. It all comes down to luck and circumstances

AviatorTom · Answer

A very attractive woman can have her pick of men to have sex with. It's different if she's looking for a relationship though... she has the same difficulties that any other woman has in finding the right guy for her.

Pinay_ako · Answer

I disagree. When someone is physically attractive by majority vote, people would assume she’s taken, married or high maintenance. Thus, will make her unapproachable.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

That’s not a question you should ask us, that’s a question you should ask yourself,

there are 3 women standing in front of you,

1. Extremely pretty

2. Average

3. Lower than average

Which one gets your kindest treatment and utmost attention?

I’d say pretty women have it easier when they are young, after 10-15 years though, they have it harder…

It’s probably not easy to feel like you are on top of the world and then uncrowned and thrown away.

At that age, you realize you have lost something that made your life easy.

You realize, after all life had not been that easy as it seems.

You realize it too later though.

The women who are not so pretty, they have realized it earlier in their lives. They have less to lose as they age.

They know how to take care of themselves and how to be on their own.

EricSummer · Answer

It is about equally difficult for a woman as for a man to find a partner for a committed long-term relationship in which they can love and be loved.

For an attractive woman it is easy to get a random hot guy for casual sex, but most women do not want that.

The main difficulty is that some men only want to try sex with her but are not prepared to form an attachment. She may then have a string of sex partners without finding love. I would hate that.

As a man, once the woman you are dating wants sex with you, chances are very good that she is already falling in love and that she will stay if you also want that. The difficulty for a man is of course to get to that point in the first place.

It's not easy for anyone, but when a woman is only used for sex I think it's the worst.

Alli39 · Answer

Nah. Being conventionally attractive has its own issues. Like, yes you may get more attention, but at the end of the day, that's not really helpful if you're looking for a relationship. Let's be real, they're not approaching you because they appreciate your personality, but because they like the way you look. Not exactly the best foundation for a relationship and it can become extremely difficult to figure out who's approaching you because of how you look vs who you are. Pretty much a recipe for heartbreak if she's actually looking for a partner.

ChiTown33 · Answer

That depends what you mean by "easy". Yes they have NO PROBLEM attracting men. But that doesn't mean most of them are quality men. Most are not and most only want to f*** them. So is that really an advantage. For the ones that have no self respect and view any attention as good. Yeah, it may seem like an advantage at first. Buy in the long run it isn't.

Basically it's like this man being attractive is an advantage to attract people, but that's it. A light may help you see better in the dark. But a light attracts moths. See what I'm saying?

rienna888 · Answer

No not necessarily. I know that attractive women are the target of bullying and harassment from other women. I see it at work so often. People will talk behind their back to sabotage them, they will pick on them for the smallest shit. But In a way they’re also very lucky, they can marry a rich man and be treated like queen, their lover will likely love them back, etc. they will look in the mirror and instantly be happy again. I know because I was once very attractive lmao not anymore though. I was also obsessed with my looks :)

LiamJHayden · Answer

Not universally true. I've met several women who were utterly stunning who said they hardly get asked on dates. My conclusion was that most guys assumed they had no chance. There is also the issue of guys wanting them for their outer beauty, not for the people they are.

In business it can be a hindrance. If she's successful, a lot of people will assume she "slept" her way there. Also, in my industry, a lot of female attorneys and a lot of court reporters want to be the center of attention and thus do not want to work with the really pretty technicians.

Screenwriter · Answer

I don't think attractive people have it so easy. They might have it "easier" on one level. People want to have them BECAUSE they're attractive. But looks are often only skin deep. Some pretty people didn't have to develop a personality or skills because they. get by on looks alone.

And, if sooner or later those looks fade, people who lived using them are left in the lurch. Having to develop skills and personal integrity at 50 is a pretty hard row to hoe.

Sonorous · Answer

Watch this video. He talks about the many downsides. Attractive people can & do have it better or easier in a lot of areas in life. But being human is still not easy. So it's hard to just give a black & white answer. There are so many pros & cons.

Lionman95 · Answer

I would say no because every guy checks them out but most guys won´t ask them since many guys assume they are taken. Online those women might get attention and messages they don´t like since they come from people those women are not attracted but the guys they are attracted to might not message them.

jshm2 · Answer

Nope. they tend to get abused or raped more often.

It's often why they have terrible manners or tempers.

Also, you're forgetting that "attractive" doesn't mean "useful". So to most, people these people are perceived as not being "bright" as they have "all the looks".

Hence it's actually quite difficult for people to use "pretty privilege"

sheenagwapa · Answer

if i'm a rich guy i can get a lot of attractive women so my go to is the personality and the orettiest of them all. isn't there's a saying the face that could launch a thousand ships even in the Bible King David who is a righteous follower of God committed a huge sin because of Batsheeba not sure of the spelling

Wonderingguyy · Answer

In some aspects. My best friend is like super-model attractive and the sweetest person ever. While she could take a pick and have any guy she wants, she doesn't. She is looking for a genuine person and she doesn't sleep around. Unfortunately guys often assume she does though, and that isn't really in her favour and gets quite frustrating for her

Anonymous · Answer

I believe they do. Being a Plain Jane, I've always been around girls who were way prettier than me and saw how they were treated in comparison. Getting doors held for them, guys coming up to them to flirt and ask them out, getting guys to pay for their drinks and food. Yeah they definitely live the dream.

Anonymous · Answer

First, not every guy wants them. Second, even if they pick a guy, he still might not be available. Add in rich as well, he's got HIS pick of hot women, what makes you think he wants just one? Or her?

Stop looking for exaggerated reasons to hate women out of jealousy. The good looking ones have it easier in some ways, less easy in others. That's life.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

I agree, there are a lot of dumb boys in this world who are willing to do anything to get the p*ssy of an average girl, how come if she's attractive 🤣🤣
How many women earn money from such things online such as only fans or other sites or even in real life gold diggers and girls who wants sugar daddies, it's always about her body and her temptations, of there was no sex, millions of women would die from hunger or other life factors 😂😂

BigDog1989 · Answer

Seems like it

But, like, I know a woman, in fact, she's my cousins wife, who i don't really like, at all, and is not attractive. She has been having a very hard time getting pregnant. They're not sure why. They even tried tests and all that. Still, nothing. They've essentially given up

For you white nationalists out there. They're white

shades777 · Answer

only for a limited time only!
the bulk of her beauty is 18-26 on average. However money is forever, so if you had the most resources what woman would you go for?
single mom with 5 kids?

Its not rhat they have it easy its just that most men want an attractive woman and the ones that have best presentation usually get them

msc545 · Answer

No matter how rough beautiful women have it, it's still better to be an attractive woman than to be an ugly one. Being an attractive woman beats being a man and certainly beats being other unattractive women. Of course, all the women on here will lie about it and try to minimize the effect that good looks have on their lives. But we all know their lives are better than everybody else's.

RolandCuthbert · Answer

Not to most of the guys they are dating. Halle Berry and Heidi Klum have always been considered the most beautiful women of their generation, yet they both have been screwed over and cheated on.

Randomnamek · Answer

I disagree. Most men incorrectly assume that every guy is going for the hottest women so they say okay I'll go after this average chick as it'll likely be easier. Problem is, a lot of men have this same idea. It's the average chicks who generally have more men trying to get with them since they scared of getting rejected by the hot one. If they get rejected by the average one, they can laugh it off and tell themselves it's her loss

Apple1996 · Answer

No it might even be more difficult for those women cause they have to avoid men that will use them for just their looks/body.

Anemone978 · Answer

Yes and no.. the pretty women might get the guy first or the job but it takes a good personality and work ethic to keep these things.. it isn't super easy.

exitseven · Answer

They have it made in the shade. You always see the hot girls major in English or psychology. You never saw one in computer science. They never really have to worry about getting a job. Just marry a rich guy.

inhua · Answer

not when compared to attractive men who are more rare than attractive women but compared to everyone else? definitely

zagor · Answer

Very attractive women can find it a pain in the ass to have men hitting on them all the time, as the kind of men who have the nerve to approach such women tend to be assholes. Also other women may be catty due to envy.

Alexz0 · Answer

Sex is easy to get as a girl. But finding good guys isn't, and possibly harder for good looking girls as they tend to attract more playboys.

TheSimFans · Answer

Not if you looking for long term relationship is more difficult to get it if a woman more attractive. Is easy to hockup but I’m not interested in any form of hockup.

DarkWinterNights · Answer

Ironically I’ve heard that super attractive women often have a very difficult time finding a long term partner

VforVindication · Answer

Yes they do. They barely have to do much to attract men to give them tons of money making webcam videos where they don't even have to actually fuck a guy.

Jackblue · Answer

There are certainly a lot of drawbacks, guys will use them, they risk being catcalled and even groped. Some men will assume that they are immoral because they are attractive.

OddBeMe · Answer

That’s oft quoted research. Attractive people get better grades, better pay, faster service, etc. And that’s society.  Not sure if hot women have it better than hot men.

Christoff92 · Answer

Am going to say yes and no. Yes just take her to tease every poor bastard that lust over her beauty. No because depending on her attitude.

Iron_Man · Answer

They do have a good opportunity like my cousin she always dated guys with money, and even married one

clampfan101 · Answer

With great attractiveness comes great responsibility. rofl Seriously, though. We all have our own problems.

jeffend888 · Answer

They have it way easier than unattractive women.

empty_peppermint · Answer

Attractive women work very hard. They have to stay in shape, watch what they eat, are on crazy diets etc.

MissBoogus · Answer

Very easy, if you’re only referring to finding a partner. I have thousands of options.

Lokiion · Answer

They most definitely have it easier then say a none attractive women pretty privilege is a thing

DextroShade · Answer

Women live life on easy mode and the hotter she is the more easy her life is.

muscles_glasses · Answer

absolutely if you are an attractive women you can get any man you want, get any job you want and never have to pay for anything

Nemesis2k7 · Answer

Fact is, yes they have it easier. One word. "Simps"

Anonymous · Answer

Tbh I think average girls have it easier than uber attractive girls - they catch less hate from other girls and more guys approach them

justabuddy · Answer

Girls with high value looks get used all the time, for multiple reasons.

Boomchakalaca · Answer

Yes they have it better then ugly women.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Life doesn't work like that.

elizamichale1 · Answer

Not always but yea

Date_a_Snob · Answer

we also have to deal with our fair share of creeps

Staximus · Answer

Not if they are dumb as a bag of hammers

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

In some ways yes, in some ways no.

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

Obviously yes

gothbxtch · Answer

disagree.

DreamLife7 · Answer

Nope

Blacksnake285 · Answer

Yep very

Anonymous · Answer

Attractive men too

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