Is it nice to be an attractive girl or is it not that easy?

[red324]

All these guys come up to you, you can probably find a hookup or even a good relationship any time you want?

Or is it not that easy?

[Anonymous]

I’m attractive and I can tell you right now it for the most part sucks if you don’t live life with using it to your advantage. I like some things about it, like I’m most guys type so I never had to fit a mold of what certain guys like etc. and I do get treated better in life, get out of tickets etc. but there are so many downsides.

People treat me based on how I present myself. I can literally change my entire attraction level with and without glasses. While people don’t necessarily treat me like I’m average, the treatment shift is very noticeable. Most guys like me, but most just want to have sex only, brag about it. Also, guys don’t approach attractive women. I rarely get approached. You’re not allowed to say anything nice about yourself without looking arrogant. My personality is always discarded. People think I’m ditzy right off the bat, or think I’m bitchy. Women are incredibly catty towards me even if they are also attractive.

Like I said, in society, being an attractive woman is only beneficial if you’re either conveniently attractive, or you use it to your advantage but I don’t so it’s quite annoying. This is why so many attractive people are superficial and arrogant, because #1 they can be and #2 because they have to be. Being too attractive is depressing and lonely.

[love_conquers_lust]

It ain’t all peaches and cream on the other side. Other dudes trying to pick fights with dudes they envy because they’re butthurt. The girls are at least nice, though. Smiling a lot. Polite. Always pleading, “be nice”. It’s like the other guys treating the girls like crap made the attractive guy’s job that much easier.

[nastyb]

there's pros and cons to everything. but being an attractive girl is way better than being an unattractive girl.

[Opinion Owner]

@nastyb You know the other annoying thing about being attractive is when you complain about it, people always feel the need to bring up “well being unattractive is worse” even when nobody asked.

[nastyb]

@Opinion owner

nobody has a perfect life. its about time you stop being so entitled. be happy with what you have because otherwise one day you will wake at the age of 45 and you will realize all the benefits of being a pretty girl are gone.

[Opinion Owner]

@nastyb Entitled? I was simply answering the question. Nowhere did I say I was entitled. You are literally proving my point that when you’re attractive women are catty towards you and that you’re not allowed to have problems.

Stop projecting your insecurities on me. Being an ugly person inside gets your nowhere in life.

[nastyb]

@Opinion owner

nobody has a perfect life. you're calling your pretty girl life "annoying" only because you are expecting your life to be perfect.

you want all the men approaching you, you want all the women to worship you, you want every man to propose to you, you want to get out of every single traffic ticket, you want the best of the best... no problems but only the best...

hun, that kind of life does not exist... even for the world's most beautiful women.

[Opinion Owner]

@nastyb Haha. You’re incredibly delirious. My life is nowhere near perfect.

And it sounds like this is what YOU want to happen in your life. Too bad you can’t get there.

Please, fix your personality and maybe your looks will follow. Like I said, you’re just a generally ugly person, inside and out, projecting your insecurities on others. Maybe one day you’ll figure it out.

[nastyb]

@Opinion owner

I"m just giving you a reality check. you sound like the typical pretty entitled girl who is angry that life won't hand everything to her.

And one day, when your looks fade, you will realize how silly you were for being "annoyed" about the life of a pretty girl. Your looks won't last forever, get off your high horse. One day, you will find yourself an old woman being ignored by men.

[RingOfFire]

I've known a few attractive women in my life and I think you described the pros and cons pretty well.

[Opinion Owner]

@nastyb I hope you get help.

[Opinion Owner]

@RingOfFire Thank you. Glad you understand 🙌🏼

[nastyb]

@Opinion owner

i think you need to get help. You're the one bullying me on here. I never attacked you in any way shape or form. Taking a look at your random aggression, there is honestly no way you're a mentally stable person living a normal life.

[Opinion Owner]

@nastyb Lol, okay. I’m done speaking to you. Any other replies will be deleted so don’t waste your time.

[nastyb]

@Opinion owner

you sound crazy. Not attacking you, just being honest.

why don't you apologize for how you bullied me on here?

[Opinion Owner]

@nastyb I am crazy. But at least I’m hot doing it so I can be that way. Can you say the same?

[nastyb]

@Opinion owner

why did you attack me in the first place? i never attacked you

[nastyb]

@Opinion owner

guys date crazy girls but they don't marry them, no matter how hot that crazy girl is.

[Opinion Owner]

@nastyb Damn then I guess I’ll just keep having my pick of whatever guy I want then.

[nastyb]

@Opinion owner

you can pick them... doesn't mean they will want to spend their rest of their life with a crazy girl.

[Meropatrick]

@OpinionOwner i think unattractive people say this quote also to justify being salty and a bully towards the attractive person. Its like u will have it always better so u r a fair game

[Opinion Owner]

@nastyb Doesn’t really matter. I just like having the option lol. And men actually love crazy women. Trust me 🙈

[Opinion Owner]

@Meropatrick Yes, as you can see by the user @nastyb that rings true lol. Although theyre probably just a troll.

[nastyb]

@Meropatrick

attractive people do have it easier. Just seems you don't like the truth

[nastyb]

@Opinion owner

i have enough experience in the dating world to tell you that men use crazy beautiful women for sex while they marry the nice pretty/ average looking girls.

they would fuck you, but they would never marry you.

just like how you described it in your post.

[Opinion Owner]

@nastyb I actually have a boyfriend so it really doesn’t matter but yeah, most men want to fuck me. And they’d cheat on you to do so 😝

[Opinion Owner]

@nastyb Never said attractive people didn’t have it easier. I was explaining the pros and cons and you wanted to bring your unattractive sob story in where nobody asked.

[nastyb]

@Meropatrick

The way I see it is that these beautiful girls don't understand that life is a struggle. So they complain about every little thing they don't have while not seeing everything that they do have. Beautiful girls don't understand life the way an average or unattractive girl sees life.
Life is supposed to have pros and cons. Some people just don't understand this.

[nastyb]

@Opinion owner

so why did you lash out at me if you AGREED with my point of view?

I"m not jealous of you, girl. you're crazy. men would just use and abuse you until your looks fade then you will find them married to a nice girl and pop out 5 kids with her.

[Opinion Owner]

@nastyb Nobody caressssss

[nastyb]

@Opinion owner

i have seen plenty of beautiful gorgeous girls get used and abused by men over my years of dating...

its better to be a pretty , average nice girl than to be a crazy hot chick that guys would bang but would never marry.

[Opinion Owner]

@nastyb Lash out? I was simply being honest. I don’t agree with you. You’re a whiny b mad because you’re not attractive. You don’t like attractive people complaining because since you don’t benefit from being attractive, you’re envious. That’s a you problem.

It’s so funny, you call me crazy but out of the 4 people who commented, you’re the only one mad. And of course you’re a woman and of course you’re apparently unnatractive. I’d expect nothing less.

Anyways, carry on. I promise you, I do not care 😂

[Opinion Owner]

@nastyb Yes yes my looks will fade haha the favorite line of the bitter. 😂 Oh, what ever will I do?

[Meropatrick]

@OpinionOwner she doesn't even want to end the convo she is forcing herself in it. she talks about ur dating life and she doesn't even know u personally. Jeez i hope u dont need to deal with girls like her irl. This is getting toxic i am out peace!

[nastyb]

@Opinion owner

with your nasty personality, im not surprised if men use and abuse you.

when was I ever jealous of you? re-read what I have said. I told you that you should be thankful you are pretty before its gone. I told you that you should ENJOY what you have before its gone. I told you should be thankful you're not an unattractive girl...

but there over here... you're bullying other people and calling them unattractive..

well let me tell you girl... beauty is in the eye of the beholder... and I do get told I"m pretty and cute a lot.

so there you go...

[Opinion Owner]

@nastyb Alright, let’s see a picture of you then. I’ll even show you a picture of me. So much better to put a face to the commenter. 😉

[nastyb]

@Opinion owner

you want me to post a pic so you can continue bullying me and calling me names?

if you don't want to be an attractive girl, then be an ugly girl.

[Opinion Owner]

@nastyb Well, if you aren’t ugly there’s nothing to say. But if you are, considering all of the things you’ve just said about me, well it’s no holds barred.

[nastyb]

@Opinion owner

i have never been nasty to you. you've just been nasty to me without any legitamate cause, any justification , whatsoever.

and thats why you're crazy. I did not expect such an aggressive, rude response from you. And quite honestly, I have a feeling you're one of these "bullies" you complain about in real life.

[love_conquers_lust]

@nastyb @Opinion Don’t worry ladies. There are plenty of guys out there uglier than the both of you with nasty personalities to go along with it. When you get sick of their shit, brownbag their head and bury their faces between your legs. “I don’t want to look at you, I don’t want to hear you.” When you get sick of that, there are plenty of positions that allow you not to look into their despicable eyes. Then make them sleep on the floor like the dogs they are.

I about lost it when @Apple1996 said women look like shit, men are the peacocks.

[Apple1996]

@love_conquers_lust

With most animals the males are the more beautiful of the two genders. Is it suppose to be this way with humans to? ↗

Men are peacocks 🦚

[nastyb]

@love_conquers_lust

re-read everything I've said... you will realize I've never been nasty on here.

[love_conquers_lust]

@nastyb That’s exactly what you should tell those guys with nasty personalities.

@Apple1996 Haha. I’m off to bed. I’m going to wake up one morning to this:

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=TrvMzk1ozE4

[Apple1996]

@love_conquers_lust omg best idea ever to keep men like that and just milk them for their baby juices 😲

[marytames789]

You should still post a pic so we know the attractiveness you’re talking about here

[nastyb]

@marytames789

beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Just cuz you think someone is 9 /10, someone else may think they're a 6/10.

[Opinion Owner]

@nastyb You keep calling me crazy over and over like it’s going to hurt my feelings or something. Truth of the matter is, you just didn’t like what I said. Tough shit buttercup. You’re good at playing victim in situations you created and I don’t hold my tongue. Never had a man call me crazy so it’s definitely a you problem. You seem like the type to call someone fat then call them crazy when they react. Typical!

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder but you’ve come at me about my looks, so let’s see yours. I’m a firm believer that if you can talk shit about how someone else looks, you can receive it. Eye for an eye.

[nastyb]

@Opinion owner

its not that I didn't like anything you've said. I just got the impression that you don't understand that life is all about pros and cons. You sounded like it was a curse to be pretty. I'm just here to tell you that there is no such thing as a life where everything is perfect.

you don't understand that life is a struggle especially for average looking / unattractive girls. I have been on both sides of the spectrum, I have been both unattractive and attractive at some point in my life. I had a far worse time being an unattractive girl in my youth than being attractive as I entered my 20s. You have no idea what unattractive girls have to go through and the challenges they have to get over

you're super emotional, aggressive , jump to random conclusions as if anyone (who doesn't kiss your ass ) must have something against you.

I have only told you that you should be GRATEFUL for being pretty. how is this an attack on you?
its not an attack. so funny thing is... why are you attacking me?

this is why you're crazy. and you know what? i have the right to call you that.

[nastyb]

@Opinion owner

[Beauty is in the eye of the beholder but you’ve come at me about my looks, so let’s see yours. I’m a firm believer that if you can talk shit about how someone else looks, you can receive it. Eye for an eye.]

i have NEVER talk shit about your looks. Only you have talked shit about my looks.

i don't bully people based on how they look. only you would do such an ugly thing.

[Opinion Owner]

@nastyb I mean, you can talk about my looks. I’m willing to show a picture. I also want to see yours. You said you’re pretty, right? I realize that the girls who say the most hateful stuff to pretty girls look the worst, so I’m seeing what you look like.

Bully? What are we in 8th grade? You’re 25 years old claiming you’re being bullied. Okay. Well, if I’m bullying you, you can most certainly block me and leave. No problem. My opinion is not going to change with anything and as you can see nobody here is on your side so, if I’m bullying you you can definitely stop replying. Nobodies keeping you here. We’re grown adults not 4th graders.

[nastyb]

@Opinion owner

why don't you take a look at yourself writing all this hateful stuff to me?

I"m here to explain my stance, not trying to argue with you over nothing.

[nastyb]

@Opinion owner

i was not here to hate, or attack. I was just here to offer my point of view.

and clearly, i wrote on the post of a crazy person who is obsessed with her looks.

[Opinion Owner]

@nastyb Like I said, if you don’t like it, block me. I don’t have to spare you a single thing. And won’t. Especially not a grown woman still using the term “bully”

Show your face or shut up. Those are the only two options.

[nastyb]

@Opinion owner

you're not gonna even apologize but just tell me to block you? i didn't block you because i wanted you to know how stupid you are for attacking an innocent person.

you sound like the typical mean girl... im not surprised if you say men just use you for sex...

[Opinion Owner]

@nastyb I’ll apologize when you show me how you look, deal?

[nastyb]

@Opinion owner

I"m not obligated to show you how i look. however you are obligated to apologize to someone who has never ever attacked you.

and i know you're not someone with good intentions. you're just going to use my pic against me.

[Opinion Owner]

@nastyb Last chance before I block you

[nastyb]

@Opinion owner

Your craziness is not my problem. Keep it to yourself by blocking me

Im so glad im not a crazy mean chick like you.

[Opinion Owner]

@nastyb Okay, you’re blocked. Thanks for the advice.

[Opinion Owner]

@love_conquers_lust And I’ll remove this one too because no one asked your opinion.

[Opinion Owner]

@love_conquers_lust Yes I get to control who writes an opinion on my question. You want to say something write your own separate opinion but on mine, your voice is silenced.

[marytames789]

I would just ignore him 🙃

Also how do we know you’re hot? Where’s the proof?

[Opinion Owner]

@marytames789 First of all, this comment is from 9 months ago.

Second, there is no proof. Either you believe me or you don’t. I don’t really have any points to prove to someone who doesn’t even have a profile picture.

[marytames789]

Jeez calm down. I don’t see you with one either

[marytames789]

Also off topic but have you ever had an embarrassing naked moment?

[FreyaRed]

When you prefer quality over quantity are all those hookup willing permanently starring men just annoying, but you get soon accustomed with that. Worse are coworkers and bosses who think they get it for their positive attitude towards you and when they don't get it their attitude turns into contrary. No wounder some girls start to see their physical assets as their wallet, why not exploit something when you can't avoid it.

[Meropatrick]

Many attractive girls i know or in my family says its a double edged sword. It can bring u a lot of nice compliments and better self esteem, money, easier dating life. But it comes with a lot of hate as well and scheming people will never leave u alone. Jealousy and sexual advances never stops. And a lot of unwanted attention, rumors, evil eyes will follow u everywhere. They will be treated like a celebrity in a negative and positive way but minus the protection that a celebrity can get for their status. If a beautiful girl is naive, clumsy, scheming and doest use her cards VERY well she will lose a lot. Amd her looks will become a curse instead of a blessing.

[Sunssong]

@red324 Not a female but there is good and bad in everything.

My advice to anyone ugly or beautiful is to realize:

• you are not your body.
• you are not your name
• you are not your habits
• you are not your beliefs
• you are not your thoughts
• you are not your emotions

When you truly understand that it frees you in many ways.
If you don't understand this I truly believe, ugly or beautiful, you will find everything regarding your looks personal. Once you understand the mind and who you are you look at life so differently.

[rienna888]

Yeah it’s really nice, although there’s many jealous people who will destroy you. The good outweighs the bad. Although people like to deny it, love is very important to a woman. And since most people are attracted by looks. You’ll automatically catch the attention of the man you’re interested in. Then he’s likely to invest time in you and give you more chances. Sorry this is the truth. We are animals after all. :(

[Anemone978]

I think life is easier if you are pretty if I am going by my sisters life she could of had a super easy life if she wasn't a dumb ass.. She literally had the pick of so many guys even ones from rich families and she chose a criminal to settle down with LOL

[love_conquers_lust]

My meth head cousin is a jail bird my age. He’s long since recovered. But my god, new girl every time I saw him. His father, my uncle, called him a dumbass constantly.

[Anemone978]

@love_conquers_lust Well luckily for her he stopped being a criminal at 18 and after years of not working finally got a job fighting bush fires.. but because of the stupid people they had in their lives before and the stupid choices they made.. they have a ridiculous amount of debt plus she is horrible with money so its not going the best for them at the moment..
But yes dumbass people make dumbass choices..

[love_conquers_lust]

My cousin was ID’d on the fucking news once for getting caught on camera stealing money from a literal dead guy in a vehicle. I don’t know if I’ve ever face palmed so hard. The girls he was running through were on meth too as far as I knew. Since he’s cleaned up, he just smokes and his personality started to come back. He only has one girlfriend now.

[Anemone978]

@love_conquers_lust Well that is good at least he cleaned up meth is a hard drug to come off..

[love_conquers_lust]

Yeah but, “caught stealing from a dead guy”. He will never be able to live that one down. I saw his face on the local news with that headline and I’m just like, that’s my fucking blood. I just laughed and went back to bed.

[Anemone978]

@love_conquers_lust LOL yeah but I heard and seen worse...

[A_Bell]

I've never been the most attractive girl in my group, so I guess I don't have first hand experience, but being attractive means you attract everyone not just attractive men.

Even being averageish, you still get unwanted attention from some guys.

[love_conquers_lust]

“ you still get unwanted attention from some guys.”. Here’s some more:

“I've never been the most attractive girl in my group”. Doesn’t sound like your husband thought so. I remember in high school tall girls who played volleyball would slouch a lot. They should have stood tall, don’t diminish. The taller the girl, the closer it puts guys to what they want.

@Apple1996 You should have heard this one: guys spend the first nine months of their lives inside a vagina, and spend the rest of their lives trying to get back in one.

[Apple1996]

@love_conquers_lust I have heard that saying 😂 it is very true

[A_Bell]

@Apple1996 @love_conquers_lust haha trewth

[A_Bell]

@love_conquers_lust yes, I did slouch a fair amount to be closer to eye level with other girls instead of looming over them. Later, I learned to stand straight by tucking my chin slightly. It's a great trick.

[love_conquers_lust]

@A_Bell @Apple1996 That’s why I don’t understand short guys on here bitching about girls liking tall guys. Play it off like “We have that in common, I like tall girls.”. It quite literally puts what they want right in front of them. “Like baby, when I’m done with you, you’re going to forget all about my “stature”. Reminds me of this:

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=uThDGzLhOXg

@Apple1996 You’re like Femputer.

[HippoDino]

Depends what the girl wants to do with her life. Some jobs it kight hold her back, because people just see her as a pretty face and don't take her serious. If she wants to marry a rich guy and not work that certainly makes life easier. She is also more at risk, guys are more likely to try and do something gross to her if she's good looking or just treat her like a sex object. there's ups and downs overall it really just depends on what they want in life.

[Adaeva]

There are many things an attractive girl cannot have. But, it is very funny, if you are a girl, have you ever tried to get them without being attractive? [Take off of "The Terrible People" by Ogden Nash]

[red324]

Like what?

[Adaeva]

Not much but they don't have the goodwill of big girls who can't and wish they didn't have to compete, nor of wives when their husbands flirt with the attractive girls. Recalling the poem, I thought being attractive is much like money.

[sheikalana]

Is not as easy as it seems but is not bad either. Being attractive doesn't mean you will attract attractive men. Any attractive girl can say that we're mostly approached by unattractive men.

[Meropatrick]

My sister is attractive and she gets approached by old men even. They think they have a chance with her

[sheikalana]

@Meropatrick I know! I’ve experienced that too.

[Meropatrick]

When u get approached by an old man next time tell him i am busy grandpa😂😂give him some reality check they r nasty as hell

[sheikalana]

@Meropatrick I rarely get approached by old men nowadays since most of the times I go out I'm accompanied by my husband but yes, they're nasty as hell. I remember very well being 15 and having these pervs drool all over me. Absolutely disgusting.

[red324]

What do the attractive ones do then?

[sheikalana]

Attractive men will never approach women the same way unattractive guys do. They'll be very subtle in their approach because they know they don't need to do too much but in general attractive guys will not approach you because most of them are already taken.

[jshm2]

To be fair, it depends what you consider "attractive".

What you think is "attractive" might be ugly or average to another.

[strateguy632]

i would feel annoyed if many guys interrupted me to flirt. i would wish i was average pretty.

[Pacquet]

I’d say there’s more upsides to downsides. I’d never invalidate anyone’s experiences but when attractive women complain about being attractive it’s hard for me to take it seriously.

[Meropatrick]

Well being attractive is like having anything good in the world and some try to prey on them. I dont know not to take this seriously. Plus women r catty and hurtful towards a woman they get jealous of and we all know even man how horrible women can act if they r jealous

[Anonymous]

Ugly and Hot men will all want to “fuck” you. First and foremost.

It’s like all of them don’t really “care” about you as a human being. 😒

[Opinion Owner]

You’re reduced to “blow up doll” category 😔

[AnusNdaPainus]

Nope people automatically judge you based off your looks

you don’t know who will really like you

Other people will bully you because you’ll be receiving a lot of attention

[Anonymous]

It has it's benefits. It's not all sunshine and roses, but it beats the alternative.

[DextroShade]

Women live life on easy mode especially if they are attractive.

[Sunssong]

Depends on the person. Some people just ruin their own lives even with all the advantages.

[Meropatrick]

@Sunssong thats so true. Also not many people know how to get advantages of the blessings they have and end up on the bad end of the things. I somt think sexual harrassment is an easy mode in life and many attractive girls face it

[DextroShade]

@Sunssong you can still lose on easy mode as women demonstrate every day.

[gamerboy1x]

Here for exp im harmless so dont harrass me. Please.

[Slim57]

Oh no you get so much attention, life is so tough, poor attractive women

[Apple1996]

Probably difficult cause men will use her

[Nikki1989]

Ask one and find out.

[Akam93]

I wouldn't know. I'm not attractive.

[red324]

I think you are

[Akam93]

Mhm.

[PrettyCrumblBb]

If you think she's attractive than damn I'm a model

[red324]

@PrettyCrumblBb I'm not really a fan of her glasses, but look at that hair!

[red324]

@PrettyCrumblBb I've seen hotter girl walking into a gas station compared to a Victoria secret model.

[Nifrayu]

@PrettyCrumblBb says the one with no profile picture.

[Meropatrick]

@PrettyCrumblBb ahhh how jealous girls can be😂😂u get jealous from another girl u dont know online bcs a guy told her she looks good. U didn't need to interfere Thats very petty

[PrettyCrumblBb]

@Meropatrick Lol that's not jealousy. I'm not attracted to either of them. Sorry if you can't handle my opinion

[noemiii]

@PrettyCrumblBb At least she has the balls to show her face meanwhile you’re talking shit on a faceless profile. Typical catty female behavior.. yawn

[PrettyCrumblBb]

@noemiii yup I don't have balls, I'm a woman. ✌️

[noemiii]

@PrettyCrumblBb Yeah, a pick me woman. Good luck with that.

[PrettyCrumblBb]

@noemiii Not asking anyone to pick me. Nice try.

[DreamLife7]

It's annoying