Guy texts me everyday but isn't asking me out?

[Tallblondie]

Guy texts me everyday with flirty/teasing stuff. He'll open the conversation teasing about something he knows about me.

So far he has only asked me to hangout at our University but not outside of it. But he texts me everyday...?

What do you think? Shy? Is he trying to get to know me better just by meeting at school?

[Anonymous]

Well, he might like you. BUT! Make sure that you aren't TOO always available! This happened to me before and because I was too available, he lost interest fast.

So make sure that you have a life outside of the time that you spend with him. Let him get a sense that you are a busy lady and that you won't stick around for long if he does not make a move. Guys say they do not like chasing a girl but if you are too easy to get, they WILL LOSE INTEREST! Speaking from prior experience.

Hope it all works out for you girl!

[fefe884]

But wouldn't that be working up lies? Being dishonest? Being fake? That sounds pretentious to me, so I don't think that's a good idea. If a guy doesn't like your lifestyle or whatever, how the heck would he ever like you for you?

[fefe884]

I guess it wouldn't be a lie if you actually DO make yourself busy and eventually make it part of your lifestyle and part of you. Otherwise, it might be dishonest.

[Anonymous]

I had a similar problem. Guy texted me everyday. We hung out. etc etc. Never asked me out. What did I find out later? That he had a long distance gf! He broke it off with her but then he kinda got distant from me too so who knows?

Have you tried asking him if he is DEFINITELY single?

[Tallblondie]

Yeah he said he doesn't have a girlfriend. He said his ex girlfriend was around 3-4 years ago and that was also his first girlfriend.

[emzy-89]

Why don't you just ask him out? I hear women do that in the 21st century

[jasonwason1989]

he is just trying to know you better and understand you. don't be desperate, give it maybe couple of times of more hanging out. you should also tease him back in a romantic way. but don't send like 4 texts if he sents out 1. keep him guessing and eventually he will ask you out. don't wait more than a month. just ask him if you want to know it right away but without giving away the answer that you like him back. good luck

[AnathemA381]

I've got a close friend who is flirty and relaxed when texting, but socially awkward in person. That guy is probably similar. He's probably one of those inexperienced, awkward guys. If you like him you should ask him out, those kind of guys won't take it as a bad sign, he'll probably be happy just having the opportunity to go out with a tall blondie :)

Let me know how it goes. xo

[Dylan1989]

Tbh, and this is my personal opinion, but there's no clear cut sign so far that he actually wants to ask you out. It's normal to ask a girl to hang out and it's also normal for a guy to tease a girl during conversation. Guys do it all the time to girls, whether they want to date them or not. It's also the same for flirting.

However, there is always the possibility that he is just shy and is subtly trying to find out whether you're interested too so he knows whether to make a move or not.

[maiez]

He should ask you out in person, not over text in my opinion. He just wants to get more comfortable with knowing things about you and learning how social you are with him. I don't think he's shy, but meeting you at school is a safe place for both of you and he may be taking baby steps.

[Racez]

Yes, it's true that he's trying to get to know you better.

I think he's just testing the waters at first, but rest assured that if he will think the time's right, he will ask you out.

[SRCujo]

Its hard without knowing if he texts other girls as well. Honestly, you shouldn't hesitate to act first(asking him to go out, getting a meal, go to a party with you and some friends) if you feel you want to. If he doesn't know his left from his right and is real real young and inexperienced with girls his indecisiveness is truly innocent, but if your're one of many text buddies he's just using you as an attention filler with the hopes of you becoming more desperate and clingy/easy.

[moviedude714]

yeah, he probably wants to take his time getting to know you, doesn't want to accidentally risk rushing things, because that would make him seem desperate, girls are apparently attracted to challenging guys

[Lentilsbrah]

or if it was me and I'm your age I would only want to hook up and smash

cliffs

brb ceebs gf

brb starting uni this year

brb only looking to smash

brb look for long term after 30

[Anonymous]

I assume he likes you but is shy and before he asks you out for real he wants to get more comfortable around you. I get shy around girls and it takes time to warm up to them.

[Anonymous]

He might not be able to tell if you like him or not.

[Anonymous]

suggest a catch up! he might be scared...

[Dekin]

just ask him

[Anonymous]

I'm In the same boat .-.

[Anonymous]

ask him out