How to know if touchy feely guy likes you ?

[Anonymous]

this guy is touchy feely with every girl( squeezing shoulder, asking for massage ... ) He once asked me to see movie with him but I rejected(I was tired from work and he knew that ). He never mention about it again. I don't know if he always ask girl to see movie with him alone or not. How can you know if he is asking as a date or friendly movie night ? how to know this type of guy like you ?

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i told him to see next time. he said that '' just me and you , sounds great ?'' I said that was great.

it's been 3 weeks now and he never mention it again. we've been around for 5 years at work( hang out as a group after working sometimes). he never pay attention to me when hanging outside workplace. he seems to be the side of hot girls. what do you think? I start having a feeling for him

[love2sing4eva]

You should text him or ask in person: "So when are we going to have a rain check for that movie?" or "You still owe me a movie date" playfully. If he pays, it's a date. Just see how things flow, if he's into you more than a friend, he'll make the move on you.

Plus, the super friendly guy who's touchy feely with everyone is usually just friends with a lot of people on the surface. If he likes you, you should see him open up with you and get a bit more deep and serious.

[Anonymous]

There's no way to know with a guy like that. Stand back from him and see if he is still trying to get physical with you, see if he changes the way he interacts with other girls just to make you feel different, special, etc. If that doesn't happen, it's proof that you don't need to take anything he says or does seriously.

[Premonition]

if its more than u, its a co-worker get together, if its just you its kind of a sneaky date.

He sounds Flirtacious to every female at your job. do you think this is what you want in a relationship?

[Asker]

i told him to see next time. he said that '' just me and you , sounds great ?'' I said that was great.

it's been 3 weeks now and he never mention it again. we've been around for 5 years at work( hang out as a group after working sometimes). he never pay attention to me when hanging outside workplace. he seems to be the side of hot girls. what do you think? I start having a feeling for him

[Premonition]

seems like he lost interest, but only talk to you because of work an nothing more. even flirts initiate dates. Flirt won't stop flirting with you unless he either lost interest, offended you, or you acted stuckup to his advances.

[Asker]

i think because I acted friendly and cold sometimes because I' m not sure if he is interested?

did he asked me out as a date , right? if it was ,i would like to gain his interest again.

[Premonition]

If you're catching feelings for him bring up that date to his attention, and see where that goes. some guys don't have the greatest memory, an need a little push.

[Asker]

thanks

[Premonition]

no problem good luck, try to hold off on some of your feelings just incase.

[Anonymous]

That's a one night stand deal lol