How to Tell if a Guy Likes You

[JessTheMess]

I just want to make sure it's possible that he likes me before I talk to him. What are some signs that a guy is into you? What are some signs that he's not?

[RedHood7]

Lets see... Positive signs:
He seems a bit nervous around you.
He tries to make eye contact but can't keep it up for long.
He tries to be funny and/or sweet with you around.
He seems happy to see you (even amidst the nervousness).
He gives you more attention than other girls.
He consistently teases you.

That's usually it.

Men who dont like you usually just dont seem to care so much, if at all, and may avoid you and/or seem more serious than usual around you. Nervousness might be there, but usually only if the guy is shy and doesn't know how to make you less interested.

[Borginborg]

Try having a conversation with him first. If he actually sits and talks to you without having to run off (ie forgot his socks in the oven, his buddy just got into an accident and is at the hospital (on GTA V) or he has an appointment he forgot about before he said he had time to sit and talk (those dentists like appointments with 5 minute notices))

[AI Opinion]

Signs He Likes You

He might be shy, but there are a few telltale signs that a guy likes you:

• He’ll make eye contact, he’ll want to be near you, he’ll mirror your body language, he’ll find excuses to touch you, and he’ll show off his wit and intelligence. If you’re wondering if a guy likes you, look for these signs. Eye contact is one of the clearest signs that a guy likes you. If he’s interested, he’ll want to make eye contact and hold your gaze. He might even blush or look away nervously when you catch him looking at you.
• If a guy likes you, he’ll want to be near you. He might find excuses to brush up against you or to stand close to you in a group. He might also try to position himself so that he’s facing you. Body language is a dead giveaway when it comes to whether or not a guy likes you. If he likes you, he’ll mirror your body language. He’ll cross his legs when you cross yours, he’ll lean in when you lean in, and he’ll tilt his head to the side when you tilt yours.
• A guy who likes you will also find excuses to touch you. He might brush your hair out of your face, he might put his hand on your back, or he might even try to hold your hand.
• Finally, a guy who likes you will want to impress you with his wit and intelligence. He’ll make jokes, he’ll tell stories, and he’ll do everything he can to make you laugh and to keep you engaged in the conversation.

Male Body Language of Attraction

What do guys do when they’re into you?

The answer is a lot, and we’re not just talking about saying, “You’re hot.” (Although, admittedly, that is a pretty clear sign.) Male body language of attraction is usually a lot more subtle and complicated than women’s. Here are a few things to look out for:

1. He’ll Make Eye Contact…and Hold It

This one is pretty straightforward. If a guy is interested in you, he’s going to want to make eye contact. And once he’s made eye contact, he’s not going to want to look away. If you find yourself locked in a stare-down with a guy, chances are he’s into you.

2. He’ll Smile…a Lot

When a guy is attracted to you, he’s going to want to show you his pearly whites. A genuine smile (not a cheesy, forced one) is a surefire way to tell that he’s into you.

3. He’ll Touch You

Whether it’s a gentle brush of the arm or a more forward move like putting his hand on your lower back, a guy who’s attracted to you will find any excuse to touch you. And when he does touch you, you’ll probably feel a jolt of electricity. That’s because touching releases a hormone called oxytocin, which is sometimes called the “cuddle hormone” or the “love hormone.” Oxytocin is associated with happiness, stress relief, and bonding, so it’s no wonder you feel a rush when a guy you like touches you.

4. He’ll Lean In

When a guy is interested in you, he’ll want to get closer to you—literally. He’ll find any excuse to invade your personal space, whether it’s sitting next to you on the couch or standing a little too close to you in line at the coffee shop.

5. He’ll Play with His Hair

When a guy is nervous, he might play with his hair or fidget with his clothing. But when a guy is attracted to you, he’ll do those things too. That’s because he’s trying to look his best for you and hoping you’ll notice him.

6. He’ll Mirror Your Body Language

When you’re talking to someone, it’s natural to mirror their body language. But if a guy is attracted to you, he’ll take it a step further by subconsciously mirroring your body language. So if you cross your arms, he’ll probably do the same. If you tilt your head to the side, he’ll do the same. He’s basically trying to say, “We’re on the same wavelength.”

7. He’ll Preen for You

If a guy is attracted to you, he’ll want to look his best. So he might straighten his tie or run his fingers through his hair to make sure he’s looking his best. He’s basically trying to impress you and hoping you’ll take notice.

8. The Bottom Line

When it comes to male body language of attraction, there are a lot of things to look out for. But the bottom line is that if a guy is into you, he’s going to find any excuse to be around you, touch you, and show you his best side.

So if you’re wondering if a guy is attracted to you, just ask yourself:

Does he make a lot of eye contact? Smile a lot? Touch me? Lean in when he talks to me? Play with his hair? Mirror my body language? Preen for me? If the answer is yes, then there’s a good chance he’s into you.

[AARON9890]

When I am attracted to a girl I find it hard not to communicate with her regularly. I'll text/message her as much as I can and initiate conversation.

When I'm around her / talking to her I'll make a lot of eye contact and smile a lot. If I like a girl I will 100% try and be funny around her as I know making a girl laugh is one of the most appealing things to her. When I see she is comfortable enough in my company I'll make subtle touches towards her while flirting.

[Yakattori]

Is this just some guy that you've noticed like in a hallway or something? Or do you have some mutual activities or places where you both meet?

[JessTheMess]

We met through a small group we're in. We text and talk on the phone and have had a couple of dates.

[Yakattori]

Is he the one whose planning those dates?

[JessTheMess]

One was me, one was him and he wants to hangout when I get back in town

[Yakattori]

Then it couldn't be more obvious :D
Go for it!

[Deadpool7699]

Signs he likes you-
-checking you out but trying to hide it
- sounds like a bumbling idiot when you talk to him (Trust me)

or if you're already kind of friends and/ or he's confident then
-Making excuses to make physical contact
-Going out of his way to discuss things you are interested in

[AynonOMouse]

He will give you a hint. When you go up to him and ask, "Hey, do you like me?" If he says yes, that's the hint.

[JessTheMess]

ohhh.. ughhh

[AynonOMouse]

I don't know. I've liked different girls, but there isn't any one behavior of mine that is consistent with any of them. I have no idea how they would know if I liked them or not in that way.

[Darkone1]

He will try to get your attention and will secretly stare you.

Come one Just talk to him.

[JessTheMess]

I don't wanna be all like "Hey man, tell me how you feel"

[Darkone1]

Its very hard to tell but you will always get the idea cuz You were there.

[Darkone1]

but he will,
give staring signals
somehow you will always find him near you
trying to start conversation or act like Alpha in the presence of you.

[JessTheMess]

Hmmm. I'm on vacation right now, and he said we could go out when I get back. I'm assuming that was a sign

[Darkone1]

Its the very strong sign. If he don't want it, he won't start it.

always remember this.

[Hans222]

When he can't keep his eyes off you, but even more: when he smiles and looks happy whenever you're there :D

[Andruu4u]

Does he look at you and smile alot? Does he find reasons to touch you and is always trying to talk to you? Does he treat you like other girls? Stuff like that

[Loadedgamer]

If he wanks his dick at you.

Then he likes you.

[Fuentes]

I dont give off many signs so if u catch me looking at you more then once and maybe standing close to you and always staring at you everytime i see you that means i like you

[Decentguy]

he stare at you a lot or he would smile at you while staring at you, or he will try to make any contact with you by talking.

[sexcrazy12]

wants to spend time with you, gives himself to you in more time and deeper conversation. carries you on a silver tray.

[sexyalphamale]

Pulling his dick out and ejaculating on your face is the most tell-tale sign that he finds you attractive

[scooogy]

I don't get why you need to make that sure first

[JessTheMess]

I just don't want to process my feelings until I know he has feelings for me

[Octavius]

Do you catch him looking at you repeatedly?

[JessTheMess]

I'm not sure actually.

[Octavius]

Does he act differently around you compared to other girls? Like maybe he might be a little more quiet, or the opposite?