So I’m in this boat. I like this guy and I think he likes me back but I think we are trying to keep it professional as he is my teacher (only a couple years older than me) and I’m his student. We match each others energies pretty well. Laugh at each other if he makes a comment I will then add onto it if needed. I set up a test, which was supposed to be today, but got rescheduled because I wasn’t ready but when we were first trying to get it figured out I called him, he was busy but texted me. I apologized and asked what he wanted to do with the test. A couple hours later he responded and he apologized and saying if this weekend worked and I said yeah whatever works for you and he then said Sunday or Saturday at 4! And I don't know if he was excited or what not but that’s what it came cross to me. And I told him Sunday at 4 and he said roger that! So again I don’t know, but I want to ask him for drinks and he seems interested as we talked for a bit after my first test was done and him asking what I was going to do the rest of the day and I did the same. Last time in person he didn’t stop until I told him my favorite college football team. Someone did pick up on that as the team I like is rivals to his school he went to and they flat out said that exact thing. I think we have feelings for each other but I could be reading it wrong.
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I think the thing is you can never really know. Sure, there can be signs, but fundamentally, you are seeking certainty because you fear rejection, so you don't want to take a risk and ask him out and get rejected. Which is a normal feeling. But it is good to be brave in these situations and ask the person out, even if you don't know whether they like you back. I say that as someone who always chickens out and let me tell you that can create a life of regret for a person.
Oh I’m gonna ask him out for drinks after my test is done
I feel like you described a very normal behaviour, i don't see anything special here
Even though it seemed like he was wanting me to go with him after I asked him what he was going to go do. My male friends said he was trying to impress me with his skills.