How to know if a guy wants me as a friend with benefits or as a girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

when I was in school, many guys had a crush on me but non of them dare to ask me out. I knew about this because the female friends told me about the guys. long story, I don't have any experience in dating life. and I still don't know if the guy has bad intention on me or not. I can't see the difference..

as I turned older, some guys I met acted as if they fall in love with me, we made love but we didn't have sex.. after months seeing them.. I realized they see me as a friend with benefits.

I feel devastated every time I knew how they felt towards me... I was always cared for them, always be there for them...

I'm still virgin and I wish I could stay virgin until marriage. I just want to be special for someone who really love me.

If I meet a new guy, I don't want this thing happen again. I don't want to be seen a friend with benefits material. I want to be a girlfriend and wife material.

I wish you could give me advice to get a right guy.. I almost turn 30. I want to get marry..

[Guy13]

Stay a Virgin. Men lie and will tell you whatever you need to hear to get inside those 👖

[DarkWinterNights]

You have to learn the different between love and lust. Love takes time. Lust is usually a lot more intense and faster. Just take it slow and convey your intentions to them.

[Asker]

how can I learn? i don't see the difference.. they acted as if we are lover. they acted like they care about me... just like the current one who still doesn't love me, even tho I told him I love him.. and I still don't see any other guy want to date me... it's killing me inside. I don't want to be single without anyone replacing him place. being single would makes me want to die. I can't handle being rejected.

[dreamstar72]

Mainly by his actions towards you as a real person

[In_Trance]

Ask him