A female friend& co-worker (who I porked a few times in the past) is having trouble understanding why when she's dating these great guys or even engaged to things fall apart with them. She's no problem finding great guys and in truth because they are willing to get with her briefly she has high standards. In truth she has a well known sexual reputation as a bit of a slut. Half our home town has slept with her, i remember overhearing two married guys talking about how they double teamed her and how she was up for it again that night. She's had various relations with married men and she's really gotten around. In my opinion the guys she dates catch wind of her reputation and disappear. Like there's a difference between the kind of woman a guy dates seriously and marries, no guy wants a woman who has a reputation and has spent years on the cock riding carousel.
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Let me explain to you the kind of man MrBurke is. He's a man who knows that when you put another man's cock in your mouth, you make a pact. A bond that cannot be broken. He's a man so dedicated that he will get down on his knees and put that cock right in his mouth.
Female friend& co-worker has a reputation as a slut yet can't understand why no guy wants to marry her. Thoughts?
Always seemed kind of juvenile to me to keep count of how many people you or someone else has slept with. Anyone who thinks sex actually “taints” a person has a whooooolllllllleeeeee lotta growing up to do. STDs, fine, I’ll buy that, but beyond that, I don’t really care if someone slept with 50 people or only 5, that kind of thing just never bothered me. Seems like a very archaic standard. And shit, past your late teens, you probably aren’t going to be planting many flags on the moon anyway, it’s gonna be pre-owned penises and ‘ginas for most of us. Again, unless you end up with some incurable disease, I’m not really sure what the actual harm is, it just feels like veiled insecurity that you won’t be their “best ever” in whatever capacity, be it looks, performance, dick size, whatever. I slept with a virgin before, I've slept with low-count girls, I’ve slept with what some would consider promiscuous women... it was all pretty much the same, other than individual unrelated differences, so it seems like a big to-do about nothing. I’m 40, my girlfriend is 35... why do we care who either of us were fucking when we were 17 or 20 or whatever? That’s literally like half our lives ago now. I met her at 22, felt the same way then. She’s not really promiscuous at all, she was just a serial monogamist I guess. She had like 5 boyfriends in her teens and early 20s of a year or more, obviously she’s going to have sex with her committed boyfriend, that’s kinda wild if she didn’t, unless she’s like a religious conservative or something. So at that point I’d be just getting upset that 5 boyfriends didn’t work out, and it’s gotta be 90-some percent of us who DON’T end up with our bf/gf from our years under 22... so should we wear chastity belts, or just deny our biological nature that’s been in effect since we were in middle school? I don’t know, all the math just doesn’t work out for me with this whole attitude. Humans are animals, animals fuck, and I’m not even entirely positive that we’re wired for monogamy on a biological level in the first place. I always side with nature over the idiotic thoughts of the billions of morons inhabiting the planet that influence so-called “social norms.” Society is created by humans, and humans are fucking stupid, by and large. I mean... look at the people in the world around us... I’m not sure we should be taking cues from any of these assholes lmao.
That’s sexist it’s also the reason men know their own standards and stay bachelors all life. Whore is such degrading terms. You specify that she loses the relationship before it begins but gets the ‘good guys’. So her instant appeal and total package is impressive but guys want inventory turn over?
The second picture of why Roberta should stay a Virgin? Why inevitably a man will call her boring In bed, that she is plain without makeup, too meh for him, lack of sexual chemistry, or he will tell her he’s found someone new and exciting and they need a divorce because he’s fallen out of love. Or stay married to play her because a free smart whore as you label a free liberal thinking woman will not tolerate manipulation and cheating. Good girls will stay tangled that’s why there is a difference.
It speaks volumes to men’s insecurities level the playing field based on the whole package not on one or few traits. That’s not due consideration or well thought out life decisions. If a man can play a women as it takes 2 to tango so can women.
Do not be so quick to judge, every moment can surprise another. The guys who do end up making another cry mostly women who probably love tooo much are very in their element albeit sexual are truly genuine people. I actually love whores they speak from the heart. Though I’m straight I feel such intense thoughts and admire their sincerity as opposed to conditioned women. Sorry but for friendships as much as romantic alliance I think genuine women are engaging all round !
Great response... first, I find it funny that he is talking shit about her.. although he admitted that he fucked her a couple times.. the hypocrisy in that.. it shines bright in this guy... reason why I take less then a tenth of what this guy post seriously, and the things I do take to seriously aren't really important. Secondly, goes to show these men's maturity level. These guys will go out and fuck anything, but they expect a girl to be saved for them, or subdued for them.. as thought they are.. (what's the word...) threatened by a woman doing the same thing they are... goes to show how weak some men are and fragile there little egos are! I laugh at that shit. I don't give a fuck if she had a past, as long as she is clean and committed to me, that's all that matters. We can build something together. Finally, I'm with you, I respect genuine people. And girl also get horny and want to fuck. It's a natural thing. So if that's the case, do what they feel they need to do. I would rather someone show me there true colors now, then have it manifested later and have to break up over some shit that I should have known before the start. Talk about divorce, that's what will mess up lives, trust and hope in the opposite sex!
Your talking shit indirectly by your post. The only thing that I can give you is when your said, she has had sex with married men.. that is really frowned upon... but all the other stuff you listed, a mature man won't care about the rest of that
Lol no, it reflects me and my community that I live in. I don't give a damn about how the outside world views shit because the world isn't a really good model to follow.. cause you are all a bunch of followers, not leaders. I believe in standing out from the norms of the world.. obviously, I don't know this girl, so if she came to my part of the world I wouldn't know what she did or her reputation. If she was a lying, cheating woman that would be different, but if she just has a reputation for being sexually promiscuous whilst being single.. like you are, then that's something else.. which show the (lack of) maturity level you all possess. Either way, I don't follow bullshit.
@motownplayer: we need more of you and your personality than of his. I wish the latter becomes soon extinct. I was worried it would be me vs everyone but I’m glad you can relate to me.
@smg99 Well it all boils down to maturity. Most men aren't mature or secure enough to be "masculine." Or they follow the worlds mold of masculinity, which is poison and corrupt. Like I said, in my community, we try to be leaders and trend-setter. Letting the world know we are different and unique, understanding what being a mature adult means! I wish I could have helped this boy on here, but he is arrogant and stuck in his ways.
You’re right I do wish they decided for themselves and were less reliant on the molds. Those molds sabotage personal and psychological tranquility in the long run. Sure , it’s temporary effect is assertive, but really one experience of cockiness is enough for the opposite sex to stop pursuing him.
He won’t realize classification is narrow minded yes herd like. I value your type, leaders and those who stand apart are more attractive to women than jerks.
I’m a free thinker myself but often I would be the victim of this slut shaming slander. Just yesterday I came to know what my sons teacher talked so badly about me behind my back. I wear my gym attire on alternate mornings to drop my son with a jacket. However I know he looks at my social media profile to say I expose my figure fully with no cover.
Actually it was my ex and his teacher independently who talk about me to my son so horrid. It creates an impression of disrespect whilst they are far removed from my life.
Then I heard commentary of my dresses. Oh well I actually will prove them right and just by clothing I’m revered to as unworthy? That’s no different than the above story. I read it and it hurt me though it’s not even my story, it was a Generalization of happy carefree women who are really talented otherwise and fun loving to know what they want.
I’ve always maintained a core belief that give or take a few reproductive organs as a difference, the rest are the same for both genders.
Well, PM me. I'm interested to know what this teacher thinks of you.. maybe we can psycho-analyze it together!
As for your statement, yes. I agree! I'm sorry that this boy things himself better of girls to the point of this. Even though, most of his post are about girls he's masturbated too, or things are sluts. It seems his been deeply ass hurt but such a group of strong individual women that wouldn't give him the attention he wanted... anywho, it's sad people have to go out of their way to disrespect someone. And I long for the day when we can all grow up and be the adults that we claim to be!
In a perfect world, people aren't judged by their looks nor past histories, and there's equal and fair opportunities for all regardless of gender, race or religion. Unfortunately, our world is far from that. This world we lived in is extremely unfair, we are judged very unfairly at times for things we can't even change. I think your friend does understand why her relationships don't work out, it's just that she doesn't wants to believe nor accept that fact. In her mind, she believes she have the freedom to choose who she wants to sleep with, and she shouldn't be judged on that. And aren't you such a friend to her, you slept with her a couple of times and now you jumped on the bandwagon like everyone else around her, and branded her a slut in your post. Yes, she may have place herself at a disadvantage but you are no better. Please do not go around thinking you are better than her, with the right to call her names and thinking she is of a lower value than other women just because she slept with many men. This is her life and she made her own decisions, the least you could do is respect her decisions, even if you do not agree with her. No need for name-callings.
OMG! So sorry that we don't want to marry whores! There should be no consequences for what women choose to do in life! You are all angels! You can fuck a billion men but it doesn't matter because the moment you want to get married God's good grace makes you all virgins and ideal mothers again.
@TheFlak38 I feel you did not understand my reply and is just bashing women for the sake of bashing women. Where in my reply did I mention that there should be no consequences for one's actions? Please read carefully and see what I'm really trying to say, instead of screaming at anyone who doesn't share your views. Firstly, I did not reprimand nor blamed anyone for not wanting to marry her. People are free to marry whoever they want to marry, and of course, they also have the right to choose not to marry. And secondly, I also did not condone nor agree that her behaviour and actions are right and reasonable. What I said was this is her life and her own decisions to make. Even if we do not agree with her actions, these are still her own decisions. If she wants to live her life as she wants to, then let her be. Who are we to call her names and judge her? You call her out as a whore but what about those married men that slept with her? Aren't they even more despicable and wrong, cheating on their wives? Why aren't you scolding these men as well?
All I have to say is this, "out past is like a shadow, it follows us wherever the light shines". That light is opening up to others and being judged for who we are. Once a whore always a whore. There is a lot of data to back this up. Once you start engaging in certain behaviors they because harder and harder to ditch and easier to justify engaging in them.
It’s sad to think that guys who want advice or feedback from the opposite sex also turn around to insult them. It’s bitterness at its height. Then those who call women who engage in an active sexual life either within the relationship or marriage are essentially free whores? Just because there is no payment for services and accountability? A real man is caring and will talk lovingly. All I see now in the judgmental types is schizophrenic ideology. It’s speculative and schizoid to label others and very hypocritical also knowing that deep down in your soul in your primitive mindset, you crave it yourselves guys!
After all we didn’t come this far in evolution if all manly men acted like the despondent bitter vindictive bitching guys who are chastising this poor girl.
Let her enjoy and as I maintain it’s far better to know what one wants clearly than those who silently turn in their graves living an unfulfilled schizophrenic life thinking the ‘darkness follows your light and the shadow represents your deeds.” It’s not a crime to love it’s a crime to hate. As this thinking leads to lessons against women in vindiction like rape, molestation and murder. There is where a jail term is served. So please you awfully judgmental men use your foresight if you can’t use your foreskin to predict the legality of your hatred !
@smg99 I would like to point out that having a primitive impulse is not an excuse to act on it. If I did, many people would be dead. They are not. We (as in people) have the right to criticize others for their behavior. Especially when that behavior is well documented to have negative results often. And judging is something we do subconsciously at all times. It's how we take in and process information given to us. We make a judgement. That judgement may or may not be accurate.
And it's not like women don't shame and judge men all the time. Whether it's right or not is irrelevant to the point. We all do it to one another. Women are just as guilty of it abd recieve no backlash. Men can shame men for sleeping around, they are pigs and man whores with no respect for women who should be condemned. Now all of a sudden that behavior is okay because we have flipped the narrative to give women the power in the situation? That's not a rational conclusion to come to. And in condemn promiscuous behavior regardless of who is the perpetrator. Men ate no better than women abd both deserve to be criticized for their harmful behavior.
@smg99 "A real man is caring and will talk lovingly." What will you do in return? Except for your shit tests, nagging, irrational demands, cheating, stupid shopping habits, repulsive behaviour every time things don't go your way and what not. Let us know better what a real man because you women have no idea nowadays.
@SirRexington I do understand what you are getting at. And personally, I do not agree with her promiscuous lifestyle. I find it extremely distasteful and unbecoming. Not wanting to insult or shamed her at this point in time is my personal choice. However, my tone of voice and words will change if I knew the person is cheating behind another in a relationship, married etc., regardless of gender or age. I guess a lot of people have issues with the above post is that the post only criticizes the woman and only the woman but not the married men that slept with her.
Why are you all so old fashioned omg !! Don’t even bother asking questions on sexuality or discussing it if it repulses you.
When you are married you are each other’s f*** whores and unpaid servants. What do you think your uptight views don’t reveal how frustrated you all are?
Simple solution don’t judge these attributes in an individual learn to accumulate knowledge enough to critique other attributes.
Judgement is a choice not a lifestyle so stop acting high and mighty. Only two groups judge sexuality;
1. The frustrated 2. The promiscuous
Both are sides of the same coin. One is denied the other chooses.
@TheFlak38: you know you sound bitter sorry no one treated you like you were worth anything.
The favorite one liners every woman has to make a man to lower his guard and open up. Next thing you make a 180 and blame it all on the man again "you picked the wrong woman." Yeah sure. Whats a good woman? You're all in a gynocentric society with an entire government catering to your vagina with money, benefits, special treatment and have become narcissistic whores.
I don’t waste time with rabid mutts. Hey @ TheFlak38: go fetch your bone and then sleep you abusive mutt. Stop barking or your leash will be yanked off! Lol
@smg99 ROFL :D A used up hag being proud of turning her vag into a piece of bacon. You're just a sex object and nothing more. You're basically a cum dumpster.
@TheFlak38: you’re mother is a bitch and a cum dumpster to your father who doesn’t or did not pay her for services either including the birth of a mad rabid dog like you. So theoretically then Your mom is a bitch on heat and your dad a bastard?
Is that what repulses you? What’s wrong have you not attained puberty or you retarded? Why do you find sexuality an offensive act?
Your a retarded prude, plus yes I’m happy to be what you call me. at least I live a life free of frustration. Poor you aweee so sad I came across retards who only talk endlessly about sexuality being wrong yet desire input from women ! Hypocrisy is a prejudice of the weak and poor not to mention less intelligent. Wow look. Still have better health than you.
at least I’m not starting the discussion on an abusive bitter tone. I’m merely stating how hurt you are.
You are equating women’s parts to food. I’m guessing you’re a fat couch potato. Aweeee so sad you’re life is written for you too bad you don’t have the brains or conviction to better yourself.
Too bad you were born from a dumb bitch whose inadequate intellect you inherited. Too bad you will spend your days drinking and abusing women and go to Sunday mass. That being your only pathetic outlet for a scrap at social life.
There is nothing wrong in being used or pristine we aren’t stock. And you @ TheFlak38 will spend your days shouting abuses at women you can. You won’t be used you’ll be kept so pristine no one found you desirable either. That’s the other spectrum of your insults.
Oh I’m a rich woman I do it for fun. Hey bastard when you become a man and earn if at all at the rate you’re sitting on your fat cheesy white ass you might be lucky to get a woman at all.
No woman stays with a retarded 29 year old with no income and only cheap insults.
I’ve been noticing your abusive terms to describe women as whores. Why the hell are you talking to me. I know you are a pathetic drop out. I’m here just for fun and I really have 7 owned hotels , 2 m condos and homes in 6 countries. You’re fit to be the servant cleaning the bathroom at my hotel. What’s your rate bastard?
She has to date guys in other states or foreign countries because her reputation in town and that area is tarnished. She can get married but not in that area.
there is nothing wrong with being a slut, or acting like one... the world needs diversity.
if she can get a great guy but can't keep one, it isn't because she has a reputation, but because there is something about her personality, habits, hygiene, or mental stability that the guys can't stand...
any girl or guy can have a very colorful past, and as long as they can settle down to meet the needs of a potential mate, there will be no issues... these "married" guys that are sleeping with her should have a worse reputation than she has... some guys like a slutty woman, but they also want one who has a bit of class and tact when necessary or when in public...
I would bet that if she were to move to a location where no one knows or has ever heard of her, she would STILL get lots of dates if she wanted, but none that want to marry her... because there is something about her that must not be marriage material...
It's her own damn fault, No man wants to have a serious relationship with a public toilet.
Like what @Sevenpointfive stated, how can you marry someone knowing that your entire neighborhood, your barber, your accountant, your doctor, the college football team, your brother, your dad and god forbid your BOSS had a piece of her too. The marriage wouldn't even be sacred and your partner is just public property that sleeps in your bed with you.
Also it seems that she doesn't have value in marriage since she has no problem with fucking already married men.
The liberal social agenda is premised on the notion that an individual should be free to engage in whatever behavior they choose and not be required to bear the consequences of such choices. It is a ridiculous notion that obviously does not comport with the real world, but many (but definitely not a majority of) young people readily accept it because they want what they want now and don't have much ability to see beyond the here and now.
It is do what thou wilt shall be the whole is the law love is the law all Aleister Crowley Satanism that the liberals are pushing which means do what you want take no responsibility for your actions and this is why everything is so messed up these days.
Why do you gladly make MyTakes about sexy girls, and underage girls and girls you jerked it too. But if a girl were to make a MyTake about guys she got off too, or hot guys she would be a slut right? If she's supposed to be a virgin, so shall you.
I truly have no idea how these girls can do the things they do then expect men to want to spend their life with them. I had a friend she fucked everybody finally got married and now I hear she is cheating on that guy too. It is obviously someone that is very mentally ill who sleeps around like that.
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Simple young women today are told that they should sleep around in their youth, when all it does is turn them into undesirable women in the future... I see it all the time, they ride the cock carousel during their 20's, have a few chad babies, and then expect some man when they hit the wall to support them and settle down with them.. Its those women that are constantly whining about "where have all the good men gone".
This is why i never went near liberal women, i married a small town conservative girl that actually respects her self, sex and marriage.
Yeah I get that. Like I wouldn't want a man with a lot of past sexual partners either 😂 I'd say promiscuous people should marry each other, at least the stds are kept in the family then 🤔🤔🤔
And what gets me is those same types then complain that a man who has been saving himself for marriage will not date them, of course, I know the reverse happens with virgin women and so-called "players" as well, but since we are talking about women who do it...
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Skanks who end up alone and pathetic in their 30's make me laugh. I have a troll dating app account just to look at the pathetic "looking for a real man" garbage that you know rode every dick who showed her attention while she still had something worth giving.
Men are wising up to the human "tramp"olenes that let anyone jump on them. You don't deserve a quality relationship after acting like a whore... just like a criminal doesn't deserve to simply ignore their past and start acting like it never happened. Your choices affect your future.
I mean, you "porked her" a few times too of your own admission. You're not really any better than her in my opinion. But of course no man wants to settle with her. There is no historical evidence that she is capable of that.
She may actually know why men don't want to marry her, she's just running from the horror of the cold hard truth. She's damaged goods, ruined and not fit for a decent man. Nor should you be sleeping with such women, for your health if not other reason.
Irrespective of a person's sexual precives should not be used against them. But as you are on a small town you have to live with small town morals. Even these people both men and women do find prospective spouses that don't care about anyone's sexual past.
@Muhammad1999 you also cannot have a future without the past it shapes who you are and the girl's past demons will come back to haunt her when her husband or fiance talks to someone and learns the truth
I don’t understand why it’s so wrong though. I personally don’t like to sleep around and I haven’t I’ve only had 2 sexual partners but I don’t really care if the guy I get married to has slept around - as long as he’s loyal to me and I’m the only woman in his life then that’s all that matters. And I think the same should apply the other way around too. Each to their own though.
You dont understand , a woman that has been sleeping around will have a bad reputation in the entire neighbourhood, and imagine her exes keep getting back , smart men will avoid women with many sexual partners and smart women will do the same.
Yeah but why does that give a woman a bad reputation and not the man? The problem isn’t the woman. The problem is that way of thinking. So what if she’s slept with x y z what should matter is that she’s loyal and true to her current partner.
And realistically, in the UK anyway , I haven’t seen any normal guy pop up to tell the neighbourhood who he’s slept with
Yeah, I'd run too. I'd hate that a football team has fucked my fiancé (and that's being modest). There's a white chick at my work whom you know has been filled more than Yankee stadium & she wonders why she's a single mom who can't find a half decent man. ~Mr Bails Extraordinaire
You should stop calling her a 'friend' because frankly you are no friend to her if you are going to a online forum, talking about her personal life and then letting strangers badmouth her, as well as people in your town. Honestly, I have friends who have had sex with a lot of people but I would never start chatting shit about it behind their backs to other people.
It's difficult for anyone to hear a certain truths, but the sensitivity to go about it is needed. Here's the other thing - she probably knows anyway and all of it provides some material for the columns she writes. I wouldn't bother much about it.
It's quite simple your past tell us about your future. People don't change much and no wise man will believe that she won't continue as much as her opportunities allows. It will be self forfilling circle. She needs start over in a place where she doesn't have a reputation.
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