It's difficult actually because some guys are still in junior school mode and show affection by trying to look uninterested. They might also show off a little bit in front of you, I'm not too sure what that is for guys but it's the same with girls, we try to parade ourselves a little to grab a guy's attention. Guys will do the same, whether it be play fighting with another guy, maybe swearing (cussing) a bit? This sort of thing for a certain age bracket of course, as you move up the scale in age guys might brag more about social and financial things to try to get you to notice them.
Eye contact (usually subtle just to get a look every now and then), trying to find excuses to be around you a lot, even if it's just walking past you or being brave enough to chat ;) things like that. Most guys I should think would smile at you and you'll definitely notice the staring, but it really all depends on the personality of the guy in question. All these are very stereotypical body language giveaways, a quieter guy may not express interest at all, or at least not in a way that you can easily identify.
If you really want to know, give him the opportunity to show you: sit in clear view of him to see you, smile and see what his reaction is, that sort of thing. Might be quite fun lol.11 Reply- +1 y
lol well he never really did cuss. but he did face me the whole time, looked deep into my eyes, brushed hair off my face, kissed me etc lol
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I would say use the search engine and there are some articles about that. But you know the best thing to do if you like him is just ask him, if he is a really close friend he should be there for you no matter if he likes you likes you or not :D
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He just has a different softer look in his eye when looking at you. Also he will find excuses to talk to you or touch you in a playful way to see if you like him too. Hope this helps!
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thanks and yea it douse help
Wear something low-cut and talk to him and see if he takes a nice look. You can also do things like, bend over in front of him (anywhere that he can see) and have a friend look and see if he's paying attention when you do things like bend over or flick your hair.
I think when I like a girl I'm more happy around her. I don't really think I give out physical signs, I think one thing I might do is be more sarcastic or joke around with her or tease her a bit.00 Reply
361 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. flirt with him and see where it goes...
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yHe laughs at all your jokes, even if they aren't funny.
He bats his eyes at you.
He tosses his head to the side exposing his neck.
He gets giddy around you.
He adjusts his bra and makes long eye contact.
He touches you on the arm.
He uncrosses his legs.
He likes it when you stroke his "locks".71 ReplyHe's always making time for you. Trust me. Before me and my girlfriend became "official" I'd call and do whatever to get her to hangout or meet her somewhere, even if it meant ditching my friends I didn't care. I just wanted to be around her all the time seriously it was a little pathetic but luckily the feelings were mutual!
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Great Answer!
What I do if I like a girl:
- Stare at her as much as I can, often avoiding eye contact.
-Always try to be around her, amusing with jokes(often lame as hell)
-When she leaves I always send her away with my eyes.
-Can't help but smile widely whenever I go talk to her or meet her somewhere.
Hope it helps :)32 Reply- +1 y
Thanks it does
We look a lot at the girl we like. We also try to make contact in any way, such as talking the girl. The most obvious indicator is that we try to be near the girl we like when we hang out, for example sitting close to her and try to make eye contact.
Just ask if you got any more questions !24 Reply- +1 y
That doesn't have to mean anything, I also hug all kinds of girl at school I know. just talking recently isn't a signal too. BUT does he smile at you when you are talking? Or did you maybe used to hang out with him and a few friends? If you did, did he sit 'accidentally' near to you? Those are good signs.
Stares at me from a distance. Has a smile on his face when talking. Stares deeply into my eyes. Voice is much gentler than usual. Body language mirroring or similar to yours. Funnier than usual. Fidgetty depending on his experience, personality. Feet pointing towards me haha. And shoulders back.
10 ReplyLiking: Asking about your mood and curiosity about what happens in your life.
Finding attractive: Looking at you more often than in random directions and drop some hints, maybe covered as jokes.
Having strong feelings: Both of the two above plus sincere empathy for your temper.10 Reply
+1 yIf they are talking to you and initiating the conversation for just conversation I think that is enough for a basis. I don't talk to girls unless I like them and want to converse or I just relaly need a favor from them which would therefore be clear that I am not out for anything. I have a few girls that I like as friends and nothing more, but I don't talk to them on a daily basis either
10 ReplyFlirt with her which I guess is kinda general. Sometimes pretend I don't like her. Annoy her which is probably really dumb but whatever. Mostly ill just be funnyaround her because that's just my personality. I'm the loud funny guy in our class so yeah.
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+1 yI don't know if I can rattle off five, but here are a few...
-He stares at you a lot.
-He asks you out / asks you to homecoming or prom.
-You overhear him tell a friend that he thinks you are gorgeous.
-In class he draws a doodle of the two of you with him in a tuxedo, and you in a wedding dress - with hearts drawn around the two of you and the word "Forever" written across the top of the page.00 Reply
Anonymous(30-35)+1 yOkay, this may sound odd, but look up " ways to tell if a guy likes you" on youtube. Only pay attention to the ones that are just words on the screen, not the ones with real people in them. Like I think there is one called "33 ways to tell if he likes you" or somethinglike that, and they are actually very accurate and helpful, at least from my own experience. but already, it sounds like he could be interested, but he also could be just friendly, like you said.
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+1 yif he always smiles around you, if he always tries to be around you and always tries to talk to you, if he flirts with you and if he looks at you too. I mean I am shy so I don't really do any of these things I just sit back and hope the girl I like likes me enough to make the first move. I guess what do girls do if they like a guy is what I want to know lol. But that is kind of what guys might do.
00 Reply depends on the guy. Really shy/inexperience guys will avoid them, more confident guys will talk to them, tease them maybe, but still may get more nervous around them. Guys that aren't nervous will just give them more attention etc
10 ReplyThe further his tongue hangs towards the ground when he looks at you, the better the chances he likes you.
Of you can ask him point blank.30 Replysmile lots, laugh at dumb things or things that don't make sense, make lots of eye contact, try to carry on the convo more.. not leave it dead.. hope I helped :)
10 Reply-take of your clothes
-Show me your t*ts
-I'd tap that ass
-I like p****, show me yours?
- suck on my lollipop?
He says any of those chances are he just wants sex20 Reply
+1 yI'll talk to her, make eye contact, do things beyond simply being polite. I'll try to be around her as much as I can. I'll call her by a nickname/pet name if she has one.
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yStaring and looking means he is kinda liking you ( at least in some way ... not necessarily as a girlfriend or something )
Maybe say "hi" or ask him "what's up" or say "thank you"( when he opens door for you )
Try to talk a little .. maybe just casual stuffs .
Also , chat with him on Facebook ( if you both have it ) . Its easier to talk on the internet than directly as you seem shy .01 Reply
+1 yYou can tell by the way a guy will act around you if he flirts with you a lot or give you signals and when you like someone you just get this feeling like butterflies in your stomach.
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+1 yIf he:
-Stares at me a lot
-Tries to make me laugh
-Acts playful30 ReplyKeep a close eye on his crotch, you'll notice it changes if the gentlemen is interested in you! Magic, eh?
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+1 y-Prolonged eye contact (biggest giveaway)
-Asks questions about you
-talks to you every time he see's you
I would never do the above 3 things to a girl, I wouldn't want to be with.11 Reply- +1 y
alot of people like to make direct eye contact. the length of the conversation they think it makes them look confident.
also, lots of people won't talk to someone they like every time they see you.. because they don't want to be obvious. same thing with asking Q. some people are too shy to ask
+1 ysome hang with the girl a lot, and need to be with her.
others avoid her completely. so it depends on the guy...11 Reply
+1 yI would run my fingers through my hair or twirl it playfully, also I would look you straight in the eyes. But that's just me :)
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+1 yI generally try to be around them, hang out, but not myself (in groups). And I smile a lot when I see the guy.
00 ReplyI was gonna say something, but then I realized that it could mean they're trying to get in your pants also.
00 Replyhe smiles at you more so then at other girls.. but you really have to hang out with him to really see..
00 ReplyThe spark in his eyes while he listens to the tone of your voice, the smile that appears every time you approach him or he approaches you...
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+1 yi don't have body language. and I'm not good at reading it in others. so sorry but I can't help you. =(
00 Reply do you talk with him? get to know him, watch his body language. Flirt with him and see how he responds with that.
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Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yHave you noticed how many of the guy answers involve using words?
That's generally how it works. If a guy likes you, he'll tell you.
He won't waste time trying to give signs. Because that's something girls do. And guys are not girls.00 ReplyYou can know the answer for his close friend or tell you stories to you friend they can tell you the real information.
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+1 yThey pee on them to assert their domminance. Same with their bed and where they like to chill.
We're all secretly catpeople.10 ReplyPersonally I like trying to talk to her and chill with her as often as possible
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+1 yI would say he is interested. You should introduce yourself. =)
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Well, just push past it. You can do it.
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Np, good luck =)
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yI would tend to be around him and if we're friends, I'd pick on him and tease him. I would like to get his attention...OH and laugh if he's really funny.
00 ReplyFlirt. Be around/near them. Make eye contact. Smile at them. Laugh at their jokes. Be friendly. Maybe and occasional wink ;)
00 ReplyYou need to be in that situation in the first place to know . . . Have you ever . . .
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u +1 yHard to tell based on just this. It seems like he does, but I'll need a little more to go on.
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+1 yif he treats you differently then he treats everyone else, its a big sign
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it could be anything, like he's being more polite, being shy, more talkative, etc. but he only does this to you and not to anyone else
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Oh in that case he still has the mentality of a little kid... I did that when I was in 6th grade but not to those extremes. That's what a lot young boys do to girls they like... Looking back it doesn't make sense but that's what happens
It should be obvious from all the drool coming from his tongue
00 Replyget to know him better, that's the only way to know
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+1 yIt might be his friend playing around. Needs more detail. :D
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yOy, this question again? If he's talking to you, maintaining eye contact, and smiling, he likes you.
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+1 yWhen he stares at you all googly eyed or asks for help
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Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 ywhen you get off the net, ask him out, and he says yes.
not to be rude or anything, but since this question has no background, you could have googled it or searched the site.00 Reply718 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Well, he will want sex at one point or another. As for being interested, lots of teasing and eye contact.
00 Reply* He tries to talk to you often
* The awkward smile
*Texts you often and tends to have a lol, haha, smiley face
*Nervous00 ReplyI personally don't show any signs to a girl I might like
but most guys would look at you more, smile at you, get nervous around you, etc.00 Reply
Anonymous(30-35)+1 yhe always stares at you
he goes out of his way to be nice
flirts with you
smiles at you00 Reply
+1 y- He has sex with you.
10 ReplyAsk him. If he says "maybe" that's a no.
01 ReplyHe'll pay attention to you alot. Basically
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+1 yIf he asks you out and when you say no he cries.
00 ReplyHe would make an eye-contact(if not shy)..
00 ReplyThere's no way toknow until you ask :)
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hahaha lol
718 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Usually by teasing, touching or joking around.
10 ReplyI don't. I keep it to myself.
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yHe will always try to touch you.
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Opinion Owner+1 y@ update: He's flirting with you. It doesn't necessarily mean he likes you. It's a sign :)
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