How To Tell If A Guy Likes You?

Question

It has always been hard for me to tell if a guy likes me. Can anyone tell me signs that would help me figure out if a guy likes me? I would appreciate it! Thanks.

AmyDove · Accepted Answer

It's difficult actually because some guys are still in junior school mode and show affection by trying to look uninterested. They might also show off a little bit in front of you, I'm not too sure what that is for guys but it's the same with girls, we try to parade ourselves a little to grab a guy's attention. Guys will do the same, whether it be play fighting with another guy, maybe swearing (cussing) a bit? This sort of thing for a certain age bracket of course, as you move up the scale in age guys might brag more about social and financial things to try to get you to notice them.

Eye contact (usually subtle just to get a look every now and then), trying to find excuses to be around you a lot, even if it's just walking past you or being brave enough to chat ;) things like that. Most guys I should think would smile at you and you'll definitely notice the staring, but it really all depends on the personality of the guy in question. All these are very stereotypical body language giveaways, a quieter guy may not express interest at all, or at least not in a way that you can easily identify.

If you really want to know, give him the opportunity to show you: sit in clear view of him to see you, smile and see what his reaction is, that sort of thing. Might be quite fun lol.

Lovinme · Accepted Answer

I would say use the search engine and there are some articles about that. But you know the best thing to do if you like him is just ask him, if he is a really close friend he should be there for you no matter if he likes you likes you or not :D

mangageek · Accepted Answer

He just has a different softer look in his eye when looking at you. Also he will find excuses to talk to you or touch you in a playful way to see if you like him too. Hope this helps!

john5246 · Accepted Answer

Wear something low-cut and talk to him and see if he takes a nice look. You can also do things like, bend over in front of him (anywhere that he can see) and have a friend look and see if he's paying attention when you do things like bend over or flick your hair.

I think when I like a girl I'm more happy around her. I don't really think I give out physical signs, I think one thing I might do is be more sarcastic or joke around with her or tease her a bit.

Yeahhbro · Accepted Answer

flirt with him and see where it goes...

Anonymous · Answer

He laughs at all your jokes, even if they aren't funny.

He bats his eyes at you.

He tosses his head to the side exposing his neck.

He gets giddy around you.

He adjusts his bra and makes long eye contact.

He touches you on the arm.

He uncrosses his legs.

He likes it when you stroke his "locks".

Agripa23 · Answer

He's always making time for you. Trust me. Before me and my girlfriend became "official" I'd call and do whatever to get her to hangout or meet her somewhere, even if it meant ditching my friends I didn't care. I just wanted to be around her all the time seriously it was a little pathetic but luckily the feelings were mutual!

b222ster · Answer

What I do if I like a girl:

- Stare at her as much as I can, often avoiding eye contact.

-Always try to be around her, amusing with jokes(often lame as hell)

-When she leaves I always send her away with my eyes.

-Can't help but smile widely whenever I go talk to her or meet her somewhere.

Hope it helps :)

radomname · Answer

We look a lot at the girl we like. We also try to make contact in any way, such as talking the girl. The most obvious indicator is that we try to be near the girl we like when we hang out, for example sitting close to her and try to make eye contact.

Just ask if you got any more questions !

jesstacia · Answer

Stares at me from a distance. Has a smile on his face when talking. Stares deeply into my eyes. Voice is much gentler than usual. Body language mirroring or similar to yours. Funnier than usual. Fidgetty depending on his experience, personality. Feet pointing towards me haha. And shoulders back.

mrmog · Answer

Liking: Asking about your mood and curiosity about what happens in your life.

Finding attractive: Looking at you more often than in random directions and drop some hints, maybe covered as jokes.

Having strong feelings: Both of the two above plus sincere empathy for your temper.

ManWhoDropsTheBall · Answer

If they are talking to you and initiating the conversation for just conversation I think that is enough for a basis. I don't talk to girls unless I like them and want to converse or I just relaly need a favor from them which would therefore be clear that I am not out for anything. I have a few girls that I like as friends and nothing more, but I don't talk to them on a daily basis either

sc1416 · Answer

Flirt with her which I guess is kinda general. Sometimes pretend I don't like her. Annoy her which is probably really dumb but whatever. Mostly ill just be funnyaround her because that's just my personality. I'm the loud funny guy in our class so yeah.

rocksongwriter · Answer

I don't know if I can rattle off five, but here are a few...

-He stares at you a lot.

-He asks you out / asks you to homecoming or prom.

-You overhear him tell a friend that he thinks you are gorgeous.

-In class he draws a doodle of the two of you with him in a tuxedo, and you in a wedding dress - with hearts drawn around the two of you and the word "Forever" written across the top of the page.

Anonymous · Answer

Okay, this may sound odd, but look up " ways to tell if a guy likes you" on youtube.  Only pay attention to the ones that are just words on the screen, not the ones with real people in them.  Like I think there is one called "33 ways to tell if he likes you" or somethinglike that, and they are actually very accurate and helpful, at least from my own experience.  but already, it sounds like he could be interested, but he also could be just friendly, like you said.

doctorwhofan23 · Answer

if he always smiles around you, if he always tries to be around you and always tries to talk to you, if he flirts with you and if he looks at you too. I mean I am shy so I don't really do any of these things I just sit back and hope the girl I like likes me enough to make the first move. I guess what do girls do if they like a guy is what I want to know lol. But that is kind of what guys might do.

Habakkuk · Answer

depends on the guy. Really shy/inexperience guys will avoid them, more confident guys will talk to them, tease them maybe, but still may get more nervous around them. Guys that aren't nervous will just give them more attention etc

Ugliness · Answer

The further his tongue hangs towards the ground when he looks at you, the better the chances he likes you. Of you can ask him point blank.

rachel05 · Answer

smile lots, laugh at dumb things or things that don't make sense, make lots of eye contact, try to carry on the convo more.. not leave it dead.. hope I helped :)

Kain6th · Answer

-take of your clothes -Show me your t*ts -I'd tap that ass -I like p****, show me yours? - suck on my lollipop? He says any of those chances are he just wants sex

Dragondude42 · Answer

I'll talk to her, make eye contact, do things beyond simply being polite. I'll try to be around her as much as I can. I'll call her by a nickname/pet name if she has one.

Anonymous · Answer

Staring and looking means he is kinda liking you ( at least in some way ... not necessarily as a girlfriend or something )

Maybe say "hi" or ask him "what's up" or say "thank you"( when he opens door for you )

Try to talk a little .. maybe just casual stuffs .

Also , chat with him on Facebook ( if you both have it ) . Its easier to talk on the internet than directly as you seem shy .

karenirving307 · Answer

You can tell by the way a guy will act around you if he flirts with you a lot or give you signals and when you like someone you just get this feeling like butterflies in your stomach.

MadameGrimaldi · Answer

If he:  -Stares at me a lot -Tries to make me laugh -Acts playful

Hades · Answer

Keep a close eye on his crotch, you'll notice it changes if the gentlemen is interested in you! Magic, eh?

Whipporwill · Answer

-Prolonged eye contact (biggest giveaway) -Asks questions about you -talks to you every time he see's you I would never do the above 3 things to a girl, I wouldn't want to be with.

Musical546 · Answer

some hang with the girl a lot, and need to be with her. others avoid her completely. so it depends on the guy...

skyeisblue · Answer

I would run my fingers through my hair or twirl it playfully, also I would look you straight in the eyes. But that's just me :)

justlovely2009 · Answer

I generally try to be around them, hang out, but not myself (in groups). And I smile a lot when I see the guy.

Alanaaa · Answer

I was gonna say something, but then I realized that it could mean they're trying to get in your pants also.

rachel05 · Answer

he smiles at you more so then at other girls.. but you really have to hang out with him to really see..

KBMC1 · Answer

The spark in his eyes while he listens to the tone of your voice, the smile that appears every time you approach him or he approaches you...

WeaponZero · Answer

i don't have body language.  and I'm not good at reading it in others.  so sorry but I can't help you. =(

BlueBison · Answer

do you talk with him? get to know him, watch his body language. Flirt with him and see how he responds with that.

Anonymous · Answer

Have you noticed how many of the guy answers involve using words?

That's generally how it works. If a guy likes you, he'll tell you.

He won't waste time trying to give signs. Because that's something girls do. And guys are not girls.

herry · Answer

You can know the answer for his close friend or tell you stories to you friend they can tell you the real information.

decentusername · Answer

They pee on them to assert their domminance. Same with their bed and where they like to chill. We're all secretly catpeople.

Muffinman · Answer

Personally I like trying to talk to her and chill with her as often as possible

FierceMegan · Answer

I would say he is interested. You should introduce yourself. =)

kookykiwi · Answer

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Anonymous · Answer

I would tend to be around him and if we're friends, I'd pick on him and tease him. I would like to get his attention...OH and laugh if he's really funny.

alexisg10 · Answer

Flirt. Be around/near them. Make eye contact. Smile at them. Laugh at their jokes. Be friendly. Maybe and occasional wink ;)

MOZZY10 · Answer

You need to be in that situation in the first place to know . . . Have you ever . . .

BCRanger10 · Answer

Hard to tell based on just this.  It seems like he does, but I'll need a little more to go on.

theydidntnameme · Answer

if he treats you differently then he treats everyone else, its a big sign

Ugliness · Answer

It should be obvious from all the drool coming from his tongue

Habakkuk · Answer

get to know him better, that's the only way to know

HelenYvionne · Answer

It might be his friend playing around. Needs more detail. :D

Anonymous · Answer

Oy, this question again?  If he's talking to you, maintaining eye contact, and smiling, he likes you.

cookiemonster12 · Answer

When he stares at you all googly eyed or asks for help

Anonymous · Answer

when you get off the net, ask him out, and he says yes. not to be rude or anything, but since this question has no background,  you could have googled it or searched the site.

Ezmotts · Answer

Well, he will want sex at one point or another. As for being interested, lots of teasing and eye contact.

beer3 · Answer

* He tries to talk to you often * The awkward smile *Texts you often and tends to have a lol, haha, smiley face *Nervous

cyrus7 · Answer

I personally don't show any signs to a girl I might like but most guys would look at you more, smile at you, get nervous around you, etc.

Anonymous · Answer

he always stares at you he goes out of his way to be nice flirts with you smiles at you

iXenomorph · Answer

- He has sex with you.

dnately · Answer

Ask him. If he says "maybe" that's a no.

sweet_18 · Answer

He'll pay attention to you alot. Basically

RealMenFly · Answer

If he asks you out and when you say no he cries.

kartoos · Answer

He would make an eye-contact(if not shy)..

Xx_DRE_xX · Answer

There's no way toknow until you ask :)

Ezmotts · Answer

Usually by teasing, touching or joking around.

SnackG · Answer

I don't. I keep it to myself.

Anonymous · Answer

He will always try to touch you.

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