How to know if a guy likes you?

[Anonymous]

Apart from the obvious “ask him”, how to know if a guy like you? Would u guys address her as a ‘friend’ before u know that u guys love each other…

[BoobSlayer]

Boobslayer here, ready to answer your interesting inquiry. The world can be an enchanting labyrinth of busty intrigue. Yet even under the veil of such delirium, it is not easy to gauge a man's true feelings towards a woman - be they full bosomed booms of a dark brunette siren or blonde baps of a tantalizing golden queen.

For some, boobs, tits or titties, may provide the ultimate indication of attraction, much like the way fried eggs or chesticles can set the pace; yet, for others, the answer relies more on those milky melons and coconuts that make the heart skip a beat. Yet, it is essential to know that individuality determines likes and dislikes in these milky monsters.

When you see those boob-blonde beauties walking by with a confidence that shows no insecurity of her chesticles or when the chesticles or boobs of a brunette make you go weak in the knees - it does raise questions about the guy's preference and gaze.

Each guy can be as elusive as the shades of a cantaloupe or fiery biscuits or melons, so figuring out attraction could also be unpredictable. Hence it's essential to not give too much thought to a guy just based on boobs, baps, cantaloupes, and coconuts. The guy's heart's true inclination might lie with an attraction to another body feature altogether, potentially, it’s about the sweet allure of a woman’s presence, intelligence or wit. When it comes to matters of heart and likes, a man's preference might reside away from where it's often assumed to be – in such circumstances where boob-bosoms are but a whispering breeze...

Nevertheless, as a wise Boobslayer once said, when it comes to knowing a guy's heart, the best advice lies in not getting too caught up in the complexities and enchantment surrounding boobular wonderland, rather look for a deeper connection that isn't tied solely to external variables but to look deeper into their features like if they're blondes, brunettes, or just have great melons, chesticles, bangers or cantaloupes.#boobpride

[annabananna]

Wow best answer right here.

[SPIRIT208]

I feel that guys are naturally pretty timid when it comes to cold asks, but too straight forward to drop tons of tiny hints. I would probably sum it up to 3 things: Sight, Speech, and Contact.

Sight meaning the way he looks at you, if it’s direct eye contact that is lasting, it is a good sign they have some kind of affection towards you. You can also look at their body language, if they either start to get nervous and shaky around you or quietly copy your body language, that’s a strong sign they have interest in you.

Speech, speech meaning how they talk to you, what they choose to say, their wording, all of that. If they start to studded around you, that’s a clear sign they are nervous infront of you. Also, if they speak very directly when they do, and actually focus and listen to you, that’s another big telling sign.

Finally, Contact. Touch is the real love language, it’s universal, yet personal, over-used, yet impactful. It shows that a guy is really into you. Try giving them a high five or get some other good, slick idea to convince them subconsciously to let u touch them. By noticing their reaction to it, you can usually tell. If they start to avoid touching you, it’s either a weak, scared desire they have in you, or maybe even nine at all. If you notice them start to do the same back, that means they enjoyed it, it made their hearts jump. It is a great way to tell if he likes you or not.

I tried to keep it simple, if anyone reading this finds anything they would like to add or challenge, pls comment below ;)

[Rei13]

This was pretty well put

[StarWarGirl]

Not always words are true neither all react same way. All persons are different all's way could be different. It's possible if someone says they love you still they don't really just only they feel so they love you but actually they don't. So even words are not proof of that does anyone loves you or not.

You just keep noticing their actions. Their expression their reactions. Till the time you get few examples of surity that no can do this unless he/she is in love have feelings for you. You would get many signs that would be confusing you kind but you have to wait patiently for the surity sign. That's how you could know

[_Maya_]

Well there would likely be some really sure signs or signals from him. What I mean by that is flirting. Like does he flirt with you at all? Is he playful around you? Things like that would be telling that he is into you. You can always flirt a little bit with him to see how he responds. I don't mean go crazy but send out some signals of your own and see if he reacts to them. That is a way to do it other than asking him which I get the feeling you don't want to do.

[CaptainOverthink]

Honestly, it really depends on the type of guy, his past, his aim in life and what he wants out of you.

Serious things are probably slower going forward and more in-depth conversations. Here you could spot interest if you're nuanced and smart about it, but it might also be that he's holding back a lot to get to know you first.
Should also say that physical interest or instinctual in your body is not the same as interest of the mind, on top of that and more specifically, if he wants to build and evolve with you.

If he wants a good lay and just be sexually explorative or just aren't looking for a serious thing he may go quicker forward and paying less mind to what you talk about, then he'd be

[CaptainOverthink]

Haha omg.. i thougt I deleted this.. I had no time writing this, even less so, editing it to make better sense and give structure.. oh well, there's something in there at least.

[Asker]

All good don’t worry haha

[Rei13]

In my experience you generally know based on how he treats you. For example if you make plans and invite him to -insert place/activity here- with you does he either make room in his schedule to go with you? If he can’t, does he immediately make different plans with you for a different date/time? Or does he give an excuse as to why he can’t and then not try to make alternate plans? If it is the third option he probably doesn’t like you romantically. Spending time together is the best way to build either friendship or a future relationship. If he likes you he will try to be around you or talk to you as much as possible.

[Horse-girl]

If he treats you different then other girls, maybe he's really chatty with other people but not so much with you or vice versa. Also if you catch them looking at you quite a bit, trying to make you laugh, making sure you are okay if you look sad. I'm definitely no expert but this is just what I've noticed.

[Fireguy17]

Simply ask him if he was interested in you and if he would like to get to know each other better over coffee, or what ever your favorite liquid of choice are.
It's very effective, and works like a charm, or he says no thank you and then you know and can move on.

[magiusX26]

as to what appears to be your true question here, "would a guy i like call me friend if he likes me?". the answer is yes if he has no indication of you liking him back and/or may be protecting himself from overstepping his place/ not wanting to risk a friendship by declaring a romantic interest turning everything awkward if that interest is not reciprocated (he views his side as just a fanciful crush or some such)

[CubsterShura]

If you don't know if he likes you, then he doesn't like you.

Men are simple. If he likes you, then you will know for sure. If you're confused, that means he doesn't.

[magiusX26]

not always true. some of us are not so obvious (can somewhat hide it) . one way to counter what you say is some of us developed into either giving nect to no signs even when we want to give them or give signs even when we dont want to, so im a sense camoflauging things in a "hide in the crowd" sort of way.

[CubsterShura]

@magiusX26 what am I going to do with hidden love? Why am I going to devote myself to a guy with hopes of his love for me being hidden somewhere in a safe locker?

[LiamJHayden]

Likes you, genuinely? He listens to you. He cares about your safety. He won't try to manipulate you into sleeping with him. Anything that shows he wants what is best for you.

[WhitneySnow]

A lot of times it starts out as friends and grows into liking each other

[DarkWinterNights]

If you like him, flirt with him and watch his reaction.

[CallmeTheKnight]

If you think he likes you, then just go up and ask him. Stop looking for signs and clues when it can be seen from his actions and words

[Friendlybro79]

The only way to know is to ask unfortunately. Or if he asks you out on a date then obviously he's interested.

[exitseven]

If the guy shows up at the most strange places just when you happen to be there too , that is a big hint. (I know this because that is what I used to do.)

[Anonymous]

Depends on the guy. Some will pursue you.

some, me included, will get nervous around you.

[Charliefretz329]

Guys like being friends first. Finding shared interests. Then things can go up a notch or 2 😏

[TheSpaceGnome]

"Apart from the obvious “ask him”"

Well apart from that, if he just tells yiu without asking him, or if he makes a move.

You really should just ask though.

[DreamLife7]

He doesn't like you hun. The fact you're asking this question tells us all we need to know.

[gxddess_]

If a guy likes you, you won't have to ask. It will show. May take some time, but it will show. 😉

[artgorgeous]

Show him boobies so he will like you all the time. Why bothering guessing?

[boobliker]

open your mouth and ask him, he can only lie but you will know.

[BigDog1989]

He associates with you