How do you know if a guy likes you?

Question

I have a crush on a guy and he flirts with me over snapchat and stuff. he calls me hot and things like that, he's a fuck boy so how do I know if he actually likes me or if he's just flirting to flirt.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

i've always said this and i'll keep saying it: always assume a guy likes you (assuming you're moderatly hot) but don't expect him to make the first move because here's the thing: as a girl you have 99,99% chance of hooking up with him (basically you can't screw it up). him on the other hand doesn't have that huge ass luxury of actually being able to be himself without screwing it at some point, bacuse of, you know, all the stupid bull shit girls put guys through, so he'll be way more cautious of what he says/does which more often than not ends up with the guy not making any move.
so, to answer your question: most likely yeah, he likes you but given the fact that he's probably around your age+he's a wuss he's way in over his head. but hey, from what i noticed a lot of girls really enjoy this being dominant thing so you might wanna grab him before some other girl who is more decisive takes your guy. ;)

Punkbuster107 · Accepted Answer

So... Filrts "like" every girl. That doesn't mean they'd lift a finger for them.

It sounds like your real question is whether or not he "loves" you, (i. e, had compassion, care, or a personal emotional interest in you)

Answer:

A man who loves you will go out of his way to prove it through actions and words. He will actively prove that he values you above himself and is willing to spend proportionally large amounts of time and assets in order to make you feel even just a little bit special.

Having sex and calling you hot don't count for much, unless you have a reason to believe that either of those things are particularly difficult for him to do and require significant sacrifice on his part.

MiiraQueeb · Accepted Answer

That's almost like me!
I can totally agree. (a weight is legit lifted off my chest rn xD)
If he's a fuckboy, this probably means, or most likely, has a high chance of him being a player.
I've delt with those kind of boys.
I've known this boy in my extracurricular activity, and boy, does he send a load of snapchats, instagrams, iMessages-you name it.
Problem: he's dating.
HE'S DATING!!!
The boy you're talking about-no offense, but he probably does this with more than one girl.
I personally think that if he likes you, he would throw away the social media and actually show his feelings in person.
Not be a wimpy jerk and send flirty stuff not irl!
(unless you're really desperate, use the method where you pick off petals from the flowers. jks lol)
The guy needs to man up and talk to you.
Directly.
And especially with eye contact.

Hope this helped :D

Andraadmes · Accepted Answer

Honey if he's a fuck boy don't even waste your time trust me I have had a guy that was like that and it didn't end well but now I'm with a great guy that looks good and makes an effort to be with me ever since I stopped talking to that fuck boy and it never ends well with a fuck boy because you can't change someone's way yourself they have to do it on their own but unless your ignoring him most of the time and he's really trying then that's when he really likes you

stormygals · Accepted Answer

You said it yourself, he's a fuck boy. This sadly means that he is probably just flirting to flirt. I don't know, I could be wrong, but don't waste your time on someone who doesn't care that much. I know its hard but its better then finding out later that he doesn't care, when you are head over heels for him.

Zeph23 · Answer

If you're 14 like your age on here suggests, then him being a fuck boy deeply concerns me. Regardless, you won't know just by him flirting with you. Anybody can say anything and everything you want to hear so as to get you to be infatuated with them. If he likes you, you'll be able to tell more so by his body gestures and whether he looks at you sincerely or not. Just follow your heart and your brain fifty/fifty. You are at a young age where feelings can be confusing. Explore with your feelings a bit and see if you like yourself really like him or not. Just don't go jumping into anything serious or sexual at your age. It can seem like your ready at times, but you won't know that until you experience other things. Don't let your emotions sway your better judgments. Oh, and good luck. ^_^

SomeHopeLeft · Answer

stay away from the fuck boy!!! one or two compliments is ok but it screams desperation when he keeps bringing up superficial things and not looking at you for the person you are

Irongrizley · Answer

Don't waste an opportunity let him know ur thoughts & feelings & let the cards fall where they may good or bad u tried so u shouldn't feel regret that u didn't if it don't work with him don't let it get u down or discourage u there's 20 billion people on earth & growing daily u will find him

Davidhba · Answer

He probably likes you, just ask him to hang out. He is probably nervous as most 14 year old guys that have no experience would be. If you set time aside for you and him to just be alone I'm sure he'll let you know that he likes you.

girly2020 · Answer

Honey your 14 you probably shouldn't be on this site and be using this language but you need to go up to him face to ce and ask him if he likes you or get a friend to ask

DallasC1234 · Answer

He's a fuck boy cmon now don't ask questions you already know the answer 2 . If he's a fuck boy theirs no reason for you to even communicate with a fuck boy. Cmon now think man

SkrunchBoy4000 · Answer

Guys like u if they smile a lot in your presents. They r weak around crushs and usually smile uncontrollably.

imsorrybutno · Answer

Well, i would say to start talking to him in school and hang around him if he's with his friends. If his friends start joking around with him about you and he gets a flushed and stuff, he might like you.

mukheef · Answer

... You're 14... You'll learn when you're older. Go do your homework.

19blondie76 · Answer

He's saying to you what he is saying to all the other girls. DO NOT FALL FOR IT. He will just use you and move on to the next. STAY AWAY!

FlowerLovingFiend · Answer

What in the 9 hells is the "fuckboy" stuff? Guess I've officially gotten old.

MikkyLachae · Answer

You called him a fuck boy, you know his ass don't like you!!

Thegoodguy13 · Answer

he acta different around you does/says things he doesn't to another girl

sp33d · Answer

We are stupid when we act normal. We are doubly stupid when we are in like and we might not even have the ability to form sentences when we are in love.

HappyToBeAlive · Answer

if he's a fuck boy, then it doesn't matter. Stay waya

The_Empty · Answer

I wish just once a girl asks something like "How to kill a guy and get away with it" rather than this same foolish question.

markusiguess · Answer

Thats actually Hard to know, so called "fuckboy" myself. Thing is that fuckboys have a Hard time expressing feelings but If this has gode on for a month or two he may actually like you

Anonymous · Answer

You don't trust a guy like that. If he's the fuck boy you're describing him as, I doubt he really likes you.

Anonymous · Answer

He asks you out, or here's a thought, you ask him out, stop playing games. Oh, right, you're 14

Khori · Answer

Just be upfront with it and say do you have feelings for me

JimenyzCricket · Answer

He wants the milk but not the cow.

oliver77 · Answer

what do you mean by flirting to flirt?

Dannyisfine · Answer

If he likes you, he'll actually make a move.

Anonymous · Answer

He's practicing flirting

JeanCam · Answer

just ask him

Jomo15 · Answer

If he get around en

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