Guys: Where do you find a girlfriend outside of school?

[Anonymous]

Hey everyone! So, I'm not scared of approaching and talking to girls I see around at all, I'm just not too sure where to look. I work full time so usually only have the chance to go out night and evenings. I've tried the malls, but the girls there are just a bit too young. (They're high school age, I'm 21), so I kind of gave up on the mall. Clubs are cool, but the music is so loud it's hard to have an actual conversation.

So, have any of you guys met any good ladies outside of a school setting? I'd love some input, thanks!

[Anonymous]

This is the question, all guys and girls want to know. Where do we find each other? The internet is a possibility, but it seems over run by sex addicts and gold diggers. So you would need to do a lot of searching online. Also their are so many more guys online than girls so it makes it hard to get a reply back.

You could look into a singles dance, or other singles event in your area. I have heard that women are more likely to try something like that than men, so the female to male ratio should be good. I don't know if that is true though, that is just what I heard.

[arier38]

Most the time its through church. The one thing that I have found is that if you can join a club or activity you can meet people. I took a scuba class at night and met some cool girls. In my limited experience its just diving in and finding something you are interested in. It's also a great way to find girls that are interested in something you are since they are there too.

Hard question though.

good luck